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Honor verses Dishonor!
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Honor verses Dishonor!  I have been thinking tonight about honor verses dishonor. Integrity verses deceitfulness. I was taught to be honorable, to have integrity, and to be respectful. Let’s look at each of those words- honor means one's word given as a guarantee of<b> performance </font></b>or a keen sense of ethical conduct; integrity means the quality of being honest and fair; and respect means a feeling or understanding that someone or something is important, serious, etc., and should be treated in an appropriate way. Now I bet you are wondering where this post is going and I will get there- I am just laying down some foundations for my thoughts and my beliefs. I was raised to treat all people with respect. I will listen and not talk down to others. I will not belittle or betray. I will treat others how I want to be treated. I was also taught to be honorable. I will keep my word. I will not give my word unless I expect to uphold it. If I say I am going to do it, I will do it right or I will not do it all, but make my apologies and make amends. Lastly, I believe in having integrity. I will hold myself to the same standards I put others- I will not lie or not cheat. I will do what I say I will do. I am now coming to why I needed to explain my beliefs and values. I have noticed lately on this site many people who are not honorable, respectful, or upright. They are hiding their indiscretions from their significant other (spouse or paramour). Some make appointments for meet and greets but they don't show. They use other people's photo for their profile photos. Too many people hide behind their fake and dishonest profiles. They are only interested in what they can get from people- will I get a blow job or quick fuck- will I fantasize about have having affairs so that I can get off, and lastly I want to play with the same sex but I am too afraid to let my significant others know. Selfishness and it’s all about me! I know this site is like a in candy store…so many choices and not enough time. But, when does it end. Does it end when you get caught? Does it end when you get tired of the games? Does it end when your spouse almost or does catch you? Does it end when people block you? I think not. People with no honor, integrity, or character will not understand this rant- sad, very sad. But, I hope. We are intelligent beings. We should have a belief system or values. Let’s remember what we learned in kindergarten: 1. Share. 2. Play fair. 3. Don't hit people. 4. Put things back where you found them. 5. CLEAN UP YOUR OWN MESS. 6. Don't take things that aren't yours. 7. Tell the truth 8. Say you're SORRY when you HURT somebody 9. Complete your tasks. 10. Use your manners. I am now climbing off my soap box. Enough said.  “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64  |
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It's always good to get on one's soap box once in a while!  
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 . I have always wondered how they can look at themselves in the mirror. It is shocking what they will do for a "cheap thrill", then lament their bad luck when they get caught.
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It's always good to get on one's soap box once in a while! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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. I have always wondered how they can look at themselves in the mirror. It is shocking what they will do for a "cheap thrill", then lament their bad luck when they get caught.“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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Great post here funny! I can tell you I seen it all on this site. Not being up front and honest can really hurt your relationship. Your a guy on this site and doesn't tell his wife your on. You get caught and there goes the marriage.. She is pissed. Even further he meets up for sex all over the place and he gets caught again.. All this could have been avoid if they just talked. I like the way you see things with your g/f and your FWB. Everyone knows so no one gets hurts. I am sure there are women doing the same thing to there husbands as well. In the end honesty is the best policy! hugssssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Great post here funny! I can tell you I seen it all on this site. Not being up front and honest can really hurt your relationship. Your a guy on this site and doesn't tell his wife your on. You get caught and there goes the marriage.. She is pissed. Even further he meets up for sex all over the place and he gets caught again.. All this could have been avoid if they just talked. I like the way you see things with your g/f and your FWB. Everyone knows so no one gets hurts. I am sure there are women doing the same thing to there husbands as well. In the end honesty is the best policy! hugssssssssssssss V “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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exactly! What are their so many fakers and liars on this site? “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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your welcome!! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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