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The Sixteenth Virtual Symposium: Friends With Benefits
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The Sixteenth Virtual Symposium: Friends With Benefits  Friends with Benefits Friends with Benefits, these words, are loaded with lots innuendos! What kind of benefits? What kind of friends? Hmm, it comes to mind of many thoughts and ideas. I have met several women on FriendFinder-x whom I had relationships with which benefited my partners and me. In this symposium, I will talk about my friends and my benefits. When I first joined I met a fiery red head who was going through a divorce. She was shy and not very sure of herself. Her soon to be ex-husband treated her bad and ignored her. He had an affair. She was mad and wanted her share of fun! We met at a local park on lovely Thursday with the sun shining. We got along and she invited me back to her home and she proceeded to give me a lovely blow job. I reciprocated by giving her a lovely pussy licking! We did this for about six months. I encouraged her to have other relationships and she did. I wanted her to experience other men so not to get attached to me. She needed me to help her find her new sexuality and I needed her to help me be less lonely. We ended it mutually and respectfully - she keeps in touch and we have occasionally have met over the last two years. The next lady I had a FWB relationship was a lady I met on local FriendFinder-x Group whom I developed a chat room relationship with. We flirted and we had fun. She was married and her husband did not know she was playing with others. She was Brunette who dyed her red which gave her hair an Auburn color. She helped me find my BDSM kink! She and I went to our first BDSM munch (munch means meet and greet group in the Kinky world). We both learned and explored together. It lasted approximately 9 months when alas we went our separate ways. But, we still see each other and we are very cordial and still remain friends. The next lady I met is a retired school teacher and we met on here. She emailed me and she wanted to meet. We met and felt sparks. I call her my kinky buddy. She likes to explore her sexuality. She likes to use sounds, large toys (dildos, night sticks, and balls) and she likes to fist. I oblige her and she obliges me! We are friends. We have gone out to dinner and other outings. I have introduced to her BDSM and she has attended BDSM munches with me and my girlfriend. Yes, we still meet, but it has become sparse. Her schedule has become very busy. I have met a lady from other site, the fish site, and she and I connected. I took her to the BDSM munches and she too liked this lifestyle and we decided to become FWB. We explored our kink and attended a couple of BDSM conventions together. We decided to take it up a notch and we decided to become boyfriend and girlfriend. She allows me to play with others and I allow her to play with others (open relationships) and we both like this arrangement! I have had numerous Friends with Benefit (FW  relationships since joining this site. I like this type of relationship the best. I get to know the ladies and they get to know me. We laugh, we cry, we have fun, and yes we do have sex. I have tried No Strings Attached (NSA) sex and it does not do it for me. There is no connection and the sex seems shallow. In fact I went on NSA encounter with a couple last weekend, and I felt out of sorts. The husband was a cuckold and he wanted to watch me service his wife. She had four orgasms but I was not satisfied. I felt no connection with her and I had trouble getting an erection. It’s why I always like FWB relationships better. I get to know the lady and I develop feelings for her, then I get sexually aroused! In closing, my FWB’s and I get along nicely. It works for us. It may not work for all. Thanks for letting me share my story.Please stop by Participants List For The Sixteenth Virtual Symposium Friends With Benefits to check some more fun stories!!! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64  |
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yea....weekend get a ways....meeting half way between both of you! I am glad you a FWB.....it can be a very satisfying relationship emotionally and physically! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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yes...so much...and I am still growing! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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NSA doesn't do it for me either. I'm not even sure there can ever be no strings in any relationship.  
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I have had NSA sex. Meh. It's OK, but it doesn't fully scratch the itch. I find that sex within FWB gets better and better. One day, when I am ready, I will get a primary partner again. But until that time, FWB is for me. Thank you for contributing to the symposium, Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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yes...I like relationships....people try to do it away with just the sex part....it is so empty! Thanks for commenting! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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NSA doesn't do it for me either. I'm not even sure there can ever be no strings in any relationship. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I have had NSA sex. Meh. It's OK, but it doesn't fully scratch the itch. I find that sex within FWB gets better and better. One day, when I am ready, I will get a primary partner again. But until that time, FWB is for me. Thank you for contributing to the symposium, Kitkat “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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Yes...FWB is for me too! I am glad you are deciding to look for one again! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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Bonjour . Trèsdrôlegars J'aime bien , comme tu racontes , tes amitiés avec avantages ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥ Hello . Very Funny Guys I like, like you talking about your friendships with benefits ♥ Kisses ♥ Annie ♥
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NSA doesn't do it for me either. I am not into FWB at all. I got a guy and that does it for me. I am so happy that your life is coming together the way you wanted it. When we first meet online you were looking for something but now you have found it. .I am proud of you my friend hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I believe that when a true friendship connection is found, it always remains to some degree
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I'm no longer looking for a NSA relationship. FWB is more rewarding in many ways.
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Bonjour . Trèsdrôlegars J'aime bien , comme tu racontes , tes amitiés avec avantages ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥ Hello . Very Funny Guys I like, like you talking about your friendships with benefits ♥ Kisses ♥ Annie ♥ “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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NSA doesn't do it for me either. I am not into FWB at all. I got a guy and that does it for me. I am so happy that your life is coming together the way you wanted it. When we first meet online you were looking for something but now you have found it. .I am proud of you my friend hugssssssss V “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I believe that when a true friendship connection is found, it always remains to some degree “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I'm no longer looking for a NSA relationship. FWB is more rewarding in many ways. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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thanks for your awesome words....i agree in the BDSM lifestyle....you have to trust and to do that you need to build relationships! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I agree with you. The pleasure is more intense being in connection with his partner. Thank you for this tale. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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This is wonderful. You've eloquently made the case for "friends with benefits" by showing that friends, in sexual (and, perhaps, non-sexual with some of them?) situations have expanded your horizons. Not all sex partners have to be until death does you part. Not all sex partners have to be friends -- for some, at some times, a simple fuck buddy may well work. But rather than tell, you've shown. how these friends have enriched your sexual life. Nicely done. A necessary -- and appreciated -- contribution to the virtual symposium. Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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This is wonderful. You've eloquently made the case for "friends with benefits" by showing that friends, in sexual (and, perhaps, non-sexual with some of them?) situations have expanded your horizons. Not all sex partners have to be until death does you part. Not all sex partners have to be friends -- for some, at some times, a simple fuck buddy may well work. But rather than tell, you've shown. how these friends have enriched your sexual life. Nicely done. A necessary -- and appreciated -- contribution to the virtual symposium. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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