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Bodyand self Image...  

stars_light4U 66F
4636 posts
12/3/2015 8:29 am
Bodyand self Image...

When I was growing up.. the popular super model at the time was named Twiggy..

She was very cute.. but stick thin.. and all of us girls tried to look like that.. Plus the<b> androgynous </font></b>look was very popular.. I grew up not knowing what I should look like, or what I should wear.. or if "jeans forever" was going to be my motto...

I can see women in shopping malls with the same strange gear on that I would wear if I had not changed my attitude...Older women wearing very long faded jeans.. blouses open to the third button.. peace sign necklaces
Ya..I have one or two of those ..lol

And now.. all sizes and shapes are acceptable... To each their own.
I still want to wear jeans every day.
I want to be super thin... ( I'm not super thin now.. but I remember being anorexic.)

Someone told me not to be so negative about myself..
Great plan..
How does one go about not being so negative about oneself..

I grew up in a brainiac family, me being the last of the bunch to be born, and alas, they had run out the good quality, highly in demand brains by that point.. and I was left with the ... a left over one..lol
I realise I'm just "gifted in other areas.." so it's ok..

My brothers called me "stupid.. blockhead...(thanks Charlie Brown)...
Dummy..., etc, etc..etc..

So then.. Now, going in to the empty next.. or is that" nest " era of my life, I'm suddenly supposed to accept myself, and do what I want with my life...
and NOT be so negative..
lol

There used to be an example to follow.. .Older ladies stayed home, crocheted, knitted sweaters for their grand ...Made delicious cookies.. etc..

Do YOU know anyone that does that??.. I don't..
I don't have the grand to knit for...
I'm on a diet...so I don't make cookies..

I could become an exercise aholic...I guess..
With a wide variety of things to do in the year 2015, You'd think I'd be crazy busy.. but i'm really not..

I'm just wondering what neighbor has a I can be a NANA too..
Or what room I can paint next..

ok.. rant over...
Don't tell me to not be so negative about myself... OR... or.. uhm..

Anyways.. don't do that..k.. Thanks..

I'm not stick thin.. I don't have giant boobs or ass
I can't do ballet...
Working on the yoga..

What are your thoughts???





Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
12/3/2015 9:39 am

I was #4 out of 8 siblings.....only #5 went to university! Mom (gramma) never worked, knitted, or crocheted, but she did bake a lot..especially around holidays. Empty nest is nice, but in time, grandkids will fill any void there might be.


LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 posts
12/3/2015 9:40 am

I like to get my hair and nails done so I at least look well groomed. Keeping up with the fashions is challenging at our age; I don't want to look like I'm elderly or like I'm living in the past or like a teenager. The weight thing is a constant challenge and I commend you for the yoga!

I like to pursue hobbies and interests to keep my brain active--reading, quilting, keeping up with the news, etc. because we all know there's a lot more to us as women than our looks.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
12/3/2015 12:11 pm

I'm not into thin like Twiggy. It is more about state of mind. Less worry about body gives more best sex.


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Acuriouscat48 60M

12/3/2015 4:53 pm

I don't think there is a perfect body , but people keep looking I would bet your body from head to toe has a lot of attractive traits enjoy those I am sure others enjoy a view of you.


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
12/4/2015 9:57 am

I'm glad to know that every body has redeeming qualities..and there is a special body for every one...


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


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