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Benefits...  

izzie1 52M
413 posts
6/2/2012 9:13 pm

Last Read:
9/11/2015 4:28 pm

Benefits...


A friend of mine called me late Wednesday afternoon she asked if I'd meet her for a drink. She said she just accepted a new job, was on my side of town and wanted to celebrate. I told her I would love to but wouldn't be home until after 7 pm. She said perfect I'll meet you at your tavern at 8 pm.
It's been a long week at work. The holiday caused us to bumper schedules and rework a bunch of stuff. Everyone at work is tired including me. I hadn't had a ton of sleep. My workouts are all screwed up. I got some sad news last week. I had someone cancel a date last weekend. Actually she canceled twice. So like I said it's been a long hard week.
She parked in front of my place got out of her car and was all smiles. She gave me a friendly hug and a kiss and we walked over to have our drink. So drink turn into a couple and then we got hungry and ate some good bar food. We talked and laughed and before we knew it it was late and she'd had too much to drink to drive. So we went back to my house. She was buzzed pretty good and although we were lovers in the past it was in the past and we were just going to go have some sleep.
We got undressed but not naked and crawled into my bed. We got comfortable, She wiggled her way into me under the sheets and in about 10 minutes she was snoring which made me laugh and then smile and then released me to my own sleep.
I dont know what time it was but I woke up early to my friend with my cock in her mouth. She wasn't ...sucking it. She was more just nuzzling it. Kissing it..just enjoying it. She didn't say a word, she didn't stop when I woke up. She wasn't startled. She just wanted to connect with me. Be connected. Share some love. It wasn't a chore or a task or really a sexual act. It was just an intimate connection between two friends. Of course, it felt great. She just went really slow as if she was loving me. Which...she was.
As I laid there just absorbing her energy and moving forward to release mine I rubbed her back, ran my fingers through her hair, touched her face, talked to her, told her how good she was making me feel. She wasn't working to to get me to cum. She was having it to enjoy the intimate personal time. It was more like a massage than anything else. I just relaxed and accepted her gift.
I'm a guy. I can cum in a minute if I need to but I just let her have the pace and waited for a hint that she was ready for me to be done. It never really came. She just enjoyed it for almost an hour, maybe more because she started while I was still asleep.
At the end she pulled me from her mouth, looked up at me as she stroked it long and slow and I asked her if she wanted me to cum. She said "yes please". She put the head in her mouth and I just relaxed and released my body to her. I LET it all go and came in her mouth. She swallowed it, crawled up, put her head on my chest and went to sleep.
We both did. For a couple more hours until the sun woke me.
I got out of bed, made a pot of coffee and took a shower. It was still early and I grabbed her a clean towel and a washcloth and a cup of coffee and woke her with a little kiss below her ear. She woke, smiled and then sipped her coffee for a minute then got up and jumped in the shower.
This is the epitome of what Sunday Morning Club is all about. It's about sharing love. Sharing fun. Sharing the moment.
You can come by and just get into bed and have some sleep.You can bring your friend and we can just work all night long. It doesn't really matter. It is what it is and you can have as much or as little as you want. My door is always open to people I love and connect with.
So...does it make me polyamorous? I guess it does. Does it make me a lout? I don't think so? I'm not attached to anybody right now. There is someone I feel very connected to and she encourages me to love. She's far away...but coming for a visit and we are going to connect at every possible moment. She's a beautiful soul that seems to get me and I like it.
So...as Sunday Morning Club doors near opening time remember you are always welcome for the connection. Whatever that means to you. Just come with no drama, crawl into bed, wake me if you wish or just lay your head on my chest and let the day escape you. Because...I got you...just fall.

Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please...


DELICATEFLOWER4 62F
397 posts
6/3/2012 4:24 pm

Because...I got you...just fall. This says it all.


hotmamabear 60F  
356 posts
6/3/2012 11:37 am

I think you're a pretty amazing man, any woman who gets to share in what you offer is a very lucky one in my opinion. I wish I could have someone who would just let me 'be', let me fall and be there to catch and guide me to where I need to be. Thank you for sharing and letting me be a small part of your life


izzie1 replies on 6/3/2012 2:45 pm:
I don't know how amazing I am...but I am honest and understand human nature...life is just too short to not be satisfied with who you are...
I just want to give people positive experiences...love as many people as will allow it...and make new connections...
Whatever that means to someone...

39lawless 58F
6864 posts
6/3/2012 10:38 am

ps - did you see my new tag line? Uh huh, care to guess what it made me think of when I saw it???

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


39lawless 58F
6864 posts
6/3/2012 10:37 am

Any time there is an opportunity to love, to share pleasure, to connect - we should grab each and every one of these opportunities. It is a beautiful thing. There is a whole lot of crazy in the world and the best way to counteract it is to love.

I love this story. I love the sensuousness, the ease, the caring. I look forward - more than you know - to my first taste of Sunday morning club...and to falling...and being caught.

And yeah, you keep loving with your whole being and i'll be there cheering you on - just like you cheer me on!

xoxo

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


iwannaseeyourcoc 60F
234 posts
6/3/2012 5:38 am

P.S. I'm a hard / alt rocker at heart but have a strong affinity for acoustic guitar in all it's forms and genres; your post/last line reminded me of a Blue Rodeo gem ' head over heels' with the sweet lyric "I've been standing for days; now I get to fall down with you"


iwannaseeyourcoc 60F
234 posts
6/3/2012 5:35 am

Wow. I have lived that for most of my life (been single for 80% of my adult life) but I wish had written that because I have had to defend my 'whoring slutty ways' for having FWBs all my life. There really is a difference between fuck buddies and friends with benefits and you have summed it up perfectly. Thank you for bringing back some fond memories (I re-located and I haven't developed that comfort level with anyone here...yet) - I feel vindicated.


izzie1 replies on 6/3/2012 7:42 am:
The ones you feel you need to defend your ways to have no idea about love and life and connection. Sure they probably are married to long term partners but often have limited life experiences.
Loving the people you are connected to is not Whorish. Enjoying your sexuality is not slutty. Being honest and enthusiastic should not be frowned upon.
Most don't get it.
Most of society is very repressed sexually and wouldn't recognize love if it bent them over the side of a bed.
I have known my share of sadly lived women and when a good person gets their hands on them they blossom like a garden. They simply can not believe they have never felt that particular sensation before. I love to nourish a new sensation for someone.
Find yourself some new friends you can trust to catch you as you fall. It's difficult...but we're out there...
Thank you for your comments

rm_NIKLA2011 51F
5789 posts
6/3/2012 1:06 am

well written - i could see it happening...

that was NICE


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