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Are we compatible?  I see this more often than not. Also see similar chart but with body type with a big X. When I'm the one browsing the profiles, I just ignore it. But when it is someone that has contacted me it always makes me wonder why did they write to me? When it is the body type only, I wonder if my pics are deceiving. I AM overweight, I AM on the large side, so why would someone who does not want to be matched with larger women would email me? In fact, even if I was slim, I don't think I would like to talk to guys that would not talk to larger women. But maybe I'm saying this because I'm totally biased. Next, the race. That one has no excuse. My pictures cannot be deceiving on that. And my profile says I'm Black. Besides, to have a big red X there, the guy has to have checked (or unchecked) the Black/African American (or similar thing) on his FriendFinder-x preferences. I've heard things like 'I did that to avoid the scammers' (from Africa). Yeah, right, because scammers on FriendFinder-x are only the Black women, right? Just set the fucking distance criteria and you would have the same result. I don't get scammers, but I imagine scammers could care less whether you match their criteria or not. But I might be wrong. Anyhow, if you don't like big Black women, definitely we are not compatible. |
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Men on meet up sites aren't notorious for their skills in reading comprehension.
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You are a Latina..... Black, not so much. Hispanics, regardless of complexion are an ethnicity, not a race... It's about culture, not skin color. In an era of PC, you are still behind...  "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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I haven't read your profile. I'm guessing that guys see your profile picture and any other pictures you may have and write to you in hopes that you'll respond. Any member that would limit their chooses based off of race or religion is eliminating the possibility of knowing another person who can offer another look on life. Being a guy I feel lucky to have a response in my E-mail and this may also be the same feeling of other guys. There are far more men than women here and the E-mails women have to filter through would make my head spin. The main education I've had here is, read the entire profile before you write. I would like to see your profile but I am a cheap standard member who needs to build up his points. Good luck and don't give up.
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You are a Latina..... Black, not so much. Hispanics, regardless of complexion are an ethnicity, not a race... It's about culture, not skin color. In an era of PC, you are still behind... Jesus Christ! Black is a race. I am Black in every part of the world, "Division77". I am not Hispanic, in any part of the world. My ethnicity is Latina, and if you want to know more about race and ethnicity, feel free to ask. But back to the point of the post, it doesn't matter what is my race or ethnicity, how others see me or how I identify myself, but how people limit their match criteria based on race here on FriendFinder-x.
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"Black, not so much"??? I'm "Hispanic"???? Jesus Christ! Black is a race. I am Black in every part of the world, "Division77". I am not Hispanic, in any part of the world. My ethnicity is Latina, and if you want to know more about race and ethnicity, feel free to ask. But back to the point of the post, it doesn't matter what is my race or ethnicity, how others see me or how I identify myself, but how people limit their match criteria based on race here on FriendFinder-x. It's an ethnicity. I should know......as I am. African-Americans really have nothing in common with you culturally......and you'd know that if you knew yourself. People like you are amusing..........but lost, just the same. Spanish-speaking, but at a loss.  "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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Personally, I feel like it might as well be an "I'm a racist" checkbox. Once you start excluding certain races, you're admitting that you could *never* find certain people to be attractive under any circumstances. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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I am white, my ethnicity is Hispanic. Mixed upbringing. The three are definition picking apart on what makes a person. Someone can be black in race, Hispanic in ethnicity and Slavic in upbringing / heritage. Latina is the last definition group. Im sure op knows where she falls more than you do, devision because you don't seem to know what the hell you're talking about.
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For shits and giggles, tulip, I now dub thee chinese. Get on with your slant eye bad self.
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Men on meet up sites aren't notorious for their skills in reading comprehension. 
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I haven't read your profile. I'm guessing that guys see your profile picture and any other pictures you may have and write to you in hopes that you'll respond. Any member that would limit their chooses based off of race or religion is eliminating the possibility of knowing another person who can offer another look on life. Being a guy I feel lucky to have a response in my E-mail and this may also be the same feeling of other guys. There are far more men than women here and the E-mails women have to filter through would make my head spin. The main education I've had here is, read the entire profile before you write. I would like to see your profile but I am a cheap standard member who needs to build up his points. Good luck and don't give up. 
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Lol, I just read your profile from that link, and it contained pretty much what I expected it to say. A very intelligent and well thought out synopsis on what you are expecting. Reading your blogs gave me the same impression I have two unmarked areas on my compatibility. 1: hispanic, where I live there are a LOT of stereotypical latinas that start a LOT of drama. I don't want that, nor am I interested. Strange, my wife is hispanic, go figure. 2: the largest body type. This one is more to each person's own assessment. To me, this is when a woman no longer looks like a woman, it just won't work if that's the case. But a LOT of women have self image problems and mistakenly put themselves in that spot. My wife keeps doing this, and she's smaller than almost all of her friends. My wife is my wet dream come true. It's all based on what perspective you have. Even with all that, exceptions are made, and preferences can be updated. I'm technically a republican, but I vote for who I think will do the best job for the country, regardless of their party. Visit my blog if you want to at thax013 and thank you very much!
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You know, I relooked at those preferences, first time in two years, I guess this site doesn't have all the options I thought it did. ... I'm going to update. Visit my blog if you want to at thax013 and thank you very much!
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You know, I relooked at those preferences, first time in two years, I guess this site doesn't have all the options I thought it did. ... I'm going to update. 
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It's the distance part that always catches me, lol Visit my blog if you want to at thax013 and thank you very much!
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Most men don´t pay attention to that. Kisses
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