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Spankings  

Saint_Of_None 63M
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10/15/2014 8:29 am
Spankings


Spankings
Aug 25, 2008 5:57 pm
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POSITION & POSTURE

One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of swatting
is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the
participants. While some spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings
that include the ritual of positioning.

Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance
the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the
spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee.

The spanker enjoys the following advantages from their position:

- Comfort. Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to
be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing their
arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease
because of their position.

- Strength. Because they are able to wind up and freely swing their
arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the
intended target with force. While standing, the spanker cannot only
swing their arm but rotate their body to deliver maximum energy to an
anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere.

- Full access to the bottom to be spanked. The spankee's position is
designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative
position is designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and
height. Therefore, the spanker is able completely view, tweak, pat, and
spank it.

- Safety. Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the
rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will
fall too high or too low.

- Control. The spanker's position gives them the "upper hand" and
allows them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand higher
than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and situate the
spankee.

The spankee realizes the following effects from their position:

- Relative comfort. Except for the notable exception of their
backside, I think it's important that the spankee be relatively
comfortable so they can focus on the sensations being inflicted upon
their posterior.

- Anticipation. Bending over and getting into position to get your
bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds
anticipation.

- Increased sensation. A properly positioned bottom will tend to be
spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive "sit spot".

- Humiliation. Being put over the knee is a childish, humiliating
posture. Having to "assume the position" is humiliating in its
submission and rubs in the fact that they are being spanked.

- Exposure. A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed. The cheeks
are fully presented and split, their undersides turned up. In the case
of men, the anus and back of scrotum show. Women are even more exposed,
their rectums and vulvas fully visible.

- Emphasis on their bottom. Spanking positions place the center of
attention on the bottom of the person being spanked, a fact not lost on
said person. The bottom is emphasized by its exposure and upturned
position relative to the spanker.

- Presentation of their bottom. Not only is the bottom exposed and
emphasized but the spankee feels they are willingly "sticking it out"
and presenting it for its punishment in the same way as the condemned
man who must place his head on the chopping block. The spankee knows
their bottom cannot evade or escape the swats.

- Submission. Cooperatively getting into position to be spanked is the
primary act of submission in spanking.

- Safety. Although it may be of little solace, the spankee can take
comfort in the fact that their position affords safety from injury. Of
course, this can be disconcerting if they know they will be spanked with
even more abandon.

- Loss of control. Once positioned, the spankee has relinquished
control and may not easily regain it until the spanking is done. They
may have difficulty removing their rear from the line of fire if they
try.

- Inability to clench. When standing, one can clench their cheeks
together, mitigating the sting of a swat and the exposure. When
properly positioned, it is more difficult to clench cheeks and the
spanking will be applied to a relaxed, bouncing bottom.

- Excellent visual presentation. Speaking from the point of view of an
admitted bottom fancier, there a few times that someone looks more
adorable and beautiful than when he or she is positioned to be spanked. Not
only is the bottom emphasized, but it is formed to a flattering shape
and sexily perked out. Spanking positions would be sexy even to people
not into spanking.

Following are descriptions of various positions that I find erotic,
their distinguishing characteristics, tactics that can be used to
enhance them, and precautions to take. All descriptions assume a
right-handed spanker.

- Over the lap. Spanker is sitting with good posture in an armless
chair, knees together. Person being spanked must lay face- down across
the spanker's lap, their head to the left and feet to the right. They
must be over the lap far enough so their bottom is conveniently located
directly over the spanker's right thigh.

In order to preserve modesty, the person being spanked may be tempted to
lie flat with their head up and legs straight out behind; however, if
they are concerned for their modesty, they shouldn't have gotten
themselves spanked in the first place. The spankee's head and shoulders
should be angled down and their knees tucked down out of the way so that
their bottom is well turned up. A palm pressed against the back of the
head and swats to the thighs are helpful in positioning the spankee.

Knees should be at least six inches apart and the lower back should be
"arched" or dipped to further turn up their rear. For a woman, this
will result in her vulva being fully exposed and presented. Depending on
size, toes will either be resting against the floor or hoisted off a few
inches. The full weight of the spankee should be resting on the lap.

Hands can either be on the floor or grasping the legs of the chair. If
the right hand flies back during spanking, it should be pinned to the
lower back by the spanker's left hand.

Prior to starting to spank, the spanker should firmly grasp the
spankee's waist above the right hip with the left hand to prevent
squirming off the lap. Then the left elbow should be planted between
the shoulder blades to keep the head and shoulders from bobbing up.

The spanker should raise their right knee slightly, turning up the
bottom further. In the case of a woman spanking a boy, she should make
sure his penis is pressed firmly against her right thigh and aimed to
the left.

By turning their upper body to the right, the spanker can get a fuller
swing and more comfortably apply a stronger swat.

By combining all of these tactics - the raised knee, the elbow in the
back, the hand in the small of the back - the spanker can effectively
pin the spankee down and spank the daylights out of them.

- Over the knee. Similar to over-the-lap except the spankee is bent
over the left knee with their legs restrained by the spanker's right
leg.

- Hands on ankles. This is the classic school-style paddling position.
The student must stand well clear of obstacles with feet shoulder width
apart. Leaving knees straight and back straight, the student must bend
over and grasp their ankles with both hands. The spanker may want to
observe the student's hands throughout the paddling to ensure they do
not leave the ankles and earn extra swats.

The spanker stands facing the left side of the student. They should
stand far enough away so the paddle barely overlaps past the right
cheek. They should adjust fore and aft to ensure that both cheeks are
struck at the same time (assuming a paddle is being used. Canes and
straps warrant slightly forward positioning).

It is not possible to more fully expose and present a rear end than when
in this position. When one is told to bend over and grab their ankles,
one is, in effect, being told, "we intend to thoroughly paddle your
bottom. So not only will you present your rear-end but you will stretch
and endeavor to stick it up and out as far as you can absolutely
positively can. And throughout the paddling, you will continue to
strain to stick it out for the paddle."

Since the angle between the legs and the upper body is well under 90
degrees, this position spreads the cheeks and exposes the rectum and
genitals more than any other position.

This is a great fantasy position but I think it only works safely in
reality for spankees with flexible bodies (especially when a thick paddle
is used). Inflexible people can't reach their ankles without bending
their knees. Men run the risk of getting their testicles whacked.
Non-fleshy<b> butts </font></b>get pulled tightly across the pelvic bones and don't
provide enough padding when a heavy paddle is used.

- Hands on knees. A safer, more workable position than hands-on-
ankles. The bottom is presented in a plumper, more paddle-friendly
shape but visually, the position is still very school-like. Depending on
the person, I think this position can be more visually appealing because
the back can be arched a bit which perks up the bottom. In fact, the
further up the legs the hands are placed, the more the spankee can arch
their back and stick out their rump.

Again, feet should be shoulder width apart and hand position enforced.
Because the back can be arched and bottom upturned, it should be
required, both prior and during the paddling. A technique which tends
to arch the back correctly is to require the student to look forward at
a spot high on the wall. That way, they are required to pull their head
up and arch their back.

- Over the desk on tiptoes. Another school-like position. The student
must bend over a desk with nose or chest pressed to the desk. Hands and
arms should be placed on the desk over their head to further arch the
back. To further elevate their bottoms to be spanked, they must raise
up on to their toes. Penalty swats can be awarded for every incidence
of a heal touching the floor (hint: watch after the "last" swat before
the student is told they may relax).

- Over a barstool or . This is probably the best position for
paddling because the bottom is presented in a plump and relaxed manner.
The person to be punished must lay their full weight across the stool,
their feet hanging and hands grasping the legs of the stool at a level
such that there is a little support for their upper body.

This is a relaxed, comfortable position which works well for lengthy
spankings.

- Laying on bed. Another comfortable position for lengthy spankings
and ensuing diversions. The spankee must lay face-down on a bed. Their
face should be pressed to the mattress while their hips and bottom are
elevated on pillows. Since pillows are compressible, it may take three
or four to achieve the proper elevation.

- Kneeling in chair. One of my favorite positions for spankees with
great<b> butts </font></b>because, properly executed, it presents the rear in its most
flattering light. The trick is in the execution.

The spankee must kneel in the seat of a padded chair (save those knees)
facing the back with the thighs vertical and upper body forward over the
back. Again, the spankee should be required to arch the back well.

Two things conspire to shape his or her bottom cutely. First, the back
of the chair prevents him or her from bending so far as to preclude a
good back arch. Second, just as high heels shape calves fully by angling
the foot to shorten and bulge the calf muscle, kneeling with the calves
at right angles to the thighs seems to allow the buttocks to bulge
fully.

I've found the following tactics can be used to enhance and focus on
positioning:

- Adjustment & readjustment. I think it's important to deliberately
position and adjust the spankee prior to the first swat. Emphasis
should be placed on positioning and presenting the bottom fully.
Throughout the spanking, the spankee should be readjusted as their
position begins to fail.

- Verbal instruction. I think it's best to require the spankee to
willfully maintain their own position with out the physical assistance
of the spanker especially in the case of stand-up paddlings. Therefore,
verbal communication is necessary throughout the spanking to encourage
the spankee to continue to assume the correct position.

- Pickiness. One of the disciplinary aspects of spanking is that no
matter how perfect the spankee is positioned, they can always improve,
stick their bottom out a little further, etc. The spanker should not
feel guilty that their exacting demands regarding position are perhaps a
little too picky and unrealistic.

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