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Adventures of the Viking & his Nympho Edition 15: The Viking Meets Lil Bit
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Adventures of the Viking & his Nympho Edition 15: The Viking Meets Lil Bit AV&N Edition 15: The Viking Meets Lil Bit Ok I feel better now that I got that negative psycho crap off my chest. I know I shouldn’t let that kind of thing bother me. Most people would never think that a hard nosed bitch like me would give it a 2nd thought but I don’t deserve to be treated like that. No one does and sometimes the anger and hate of other people really bothers me. If outing him saves one other woman from being treated that way then its well worth it. If he’s that volatile over an internet rejection I shudder to think what would happen to a woman who rejected him in person. Ok, I’m done with that. Other than that, it’s been a great weekend. My irrational worry and self-doubt were thoroughly soothed by my Viking being here yesterday and staying the night. I know its sappy but hearing him tell me he loves me, wants me and that I’m beautiful made me feel like the world was back on the correct axis. I was suffering from a bit of irrational fear and instead of ridiculing me for it he just made it all better. I really like that he & I are able to share our insecurities, jealousy and the not so pretty underbellies of ourselves and our relationships without fear of rejection or judgment. We’re both such powerful personalities it’s great to not have to be strong all the time. Yep, he met the Lil Bit and as I predicted she fell for him as hard as I did…lol…She told me after he left this morning that she thinks he’s the perfect man for me. She says she can tell he’s a really good man because he’d never be mean to me or her the way MM was. We have her blessing to get married whenever we want to…lmao…she really cracks me up with her observations, permission and opinions. I’m not really sure what he expected but I’m pretty sure he was a bit shocked at how accepting and loving she was with him right from the start. She’s very much like me in that way except without the damage. She loves intuitively and completely. She was thrilled he decided to stay the night and happy to see him this morning before he left. She knows he makes me very happy and enjoys seeing me smile. Yes, she actually said that to me in almost those exact words. We all went to M&M’s house for a family BBQ and it was lots of fun. It’s really hard to find a couple that you both connect with and we both really enjoy M&M’s company. I know some of you probably think it’s weird that we would take my to a BBQ at a couples house that we swing with but it’s all part of building real friendships to me and not strange at all. They have several but they are all teenagers. Their were there so it wasn’t a weird outing at all. We had a really good time. Next weekend we are going to have them over here for dinner out and a play date. I’m looking forward to getting to play with Mrs. M again. She’s very sweet and we really have a nice connection. She’s bringing her toys so we may take a page out of the Corsets & Kilts weekend and make the men play photographer before they get involved…lol…I know I’m an evil bitch talking about putting our men in the corner with a camera. I finally spoke to my mom today for the 1st time in months. She sounded so wary of speaking to me about her leaving my step-dad that I couldn’t be unkind about it. She knows my opinion on leaving after investing over 25 years into a marriage but I also realized today that it’s wrong of me to be that way. Who am I to say she should stay in any marriage she isn’t happy or fulfilled in? It isn’t my life and in the end she has to live with herself and her decisions. She’s totally understanding of my sister and I wanting to keep GDaddy in the lives but like us is worried that he won’t make any effort to do that. She made no mention of the “other man” and I doubt she will anytime soon. She is planning on waiting until the end of the summer to move out. I had hoped she might consider moving back closer to us but she isn’t. She says the marriage has been dead for many years and if she’s going to be alone she might as well truly be alone. I hate it but I just have to accept it and hope she finds happiness. I realized today that a large part of my feelings about her leaving him are about my own issues and perceptions. I had hoped that her finding the “right” man was a sign that no matter how fucked up you are or how many fucked up things you’ve done there’s someone for everyone. It also scares me because I worry that falling back into this pattern will mean she will fall back into many of the other destructive patterns she had before they married. It’s only been in recent years that I have trusted her enough to let Lil Bit spend time alone with her. Her leaving Gdaddy makes me sad that 2 people can invest all that time and effort and still walk away. I’d like to think that if I managed to be with a man for over 25 years I’d never walk out. He isn’t abusing her or anything like that; I would never expect anyone to stay in a dangerous relationship. I also have fears of being like my mother. I don’t want to, oh hell no; I refuse to be that woman who’s been married and divorced 5 times. I want my life partner, my soul mate, and my true mate forever. If you’re wondering why there’s not any sex being discussed in this post it isn’t because I’ve all of a sudden developed scruples about dishing about my sex life…lol…No, this was another 1st in the AV&N chronicles. We went 24 hours together without having sex. Not because we didn’t want to or didn’t want each other. I was a little worried he’d be stand offish with Lil Bit around and tried to make a point of reassuring him that she’s used to seeing lots of PDA’s. Thankfully, that wasn’t a problem and our “can’t keep our hands off each other” nature continued without any issues. No, I’m not complaining in the least. I was perfectly content to curl up with him and sleep. If I hadn’t had Lil Bit I’m sure we probably would have this morning before he left. Honestly, I woke up several times in the night with him curled around me and was so happy to be in his arms that I couldn’t bother waking him up for sex. I was just so content and satisfied to have him there. See even us nymphomaniacs have soft mushy sides! I have homework to do over the next couple of weeks. I get to play trip planner for our 10 days in Ireland. I’m so fucking excited. There’s so much to see and do and I really love planning things plus the teacher in me wants to know the history of the places we are going to see before I get there. The Viking brought me 3 very good books on traveling in Ireland and I’ve started reading them. I still can’t believe he’s taking me! I’m looking forward to Friday already because my Viking will be back then for the whole weekend. It’s very odd how I miss him but I don’t have this crazy urge to drive to see him all the time or to bug the shit out of him to come here. Yes, in other relationships I was a bit insane and had this adolescent drive to be up the other person’s ass or them up mine all the time. I don’t feel that way with him. I’m grateful for the time we have together, I miss him when we are apart but I’m content and secure knowing that we will have all the time we can together. I’ve gotten really spoiled having him every weekend for the last 4 weeks and a knowing we have a 5th & 6th coming up. I told him I need to store up for when he’s gone to Europe for 6 weeks...lmao I hope you all had a great weekend. Take care of each other and love each other well! Kisses, LeeAnn  Kisses, LA    |
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Sexy tits. Kisses
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4/19/2011 7:13 am |
very sexy lady  looking for friends for fun and friendship 
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That's great I'm so glad that they hit it off so well. So she actually gave you permission to marry him huh. That's even more awesome.  And see I told you all those worries were nothing to worry about.  Kisses, LeeAnn Kisses, LA
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You are a fortunate woman. Count your lucky stars Nice pic too  Kisses, LeeAnn Kisses, LA
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What a beautiful blog post LeeAnn! Kisses, LeeAnn Kisses, LA
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I am thrilled that Viking hit it off with Lil Bit! I had no doubt as especially as well as he did with my three rambunctious boys Kisses, LeeAnn Kisses, LA
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That's great I'm so glad that they hit it off so well. So she actually gave you permission to marry him huh. That's even more awesome. And see I told you all those worries were nothing to worry about.
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You are a fortunate woman. Count your lucky stars Nice pic too
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4/17/2011 10:32 pm |
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I am thrilled that Viking hit it off with Lil Bit! I had no doubt as especially as well as he did with my three rambunctious boys ***
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