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AV&N 2012: Edition 1-5
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AV&N 2012: Edition 1-5 A Viking & his Nympho battle the blues and zombie babies! Yep, this is the first official edition of AV&N for 2012! How exciting is that! Of course there have been lots of sexual escapades this year already but I haven’t been writing as much, mainly because there hasn’t been as much time together. Yes, there was lots of hot sexy and dirty fucking for the Vikings long weekend home. I wasn’t able to go to the visitation Thursday evening for the old friend who was murdered last week because of the timing and picking up Lil Bit and the Viking from the airport. He was supposed to fly into our local rinky-dink airport but that would have meant us waiting for 3 hours so instead I told him to skip the last leg of the trip and drove to Atlanta to pick him up. I wasn’t giving up 3 hours of time with him. His flight was right on time and I was able to wait at the curb for him at baggage claim. I saw him walking to the doors and jumped out to greet him. He picked me up and swung me around while kissing me senseless. The guy waiting at the curb behind us rolled down his window and said he wished he’d had a video camera running because that was the most romantic moment he’d ever seen. That it needed to be on a Hallmark card or something we were so cute together. He also commented that the Viking had to be one strong mother fucker to be carrying me around like that with one arm full of his bags…lol…he is indeed a strong MF and getting stronger every time I see him. He’s working out all the time now that he’s back to work and it shows! His arms are bigger than my head. I’m going to have to bust my ass, literally to get in shape so he’s not ashamed to have this flabby cougar on his arm. We stopped on the way home at a steakhouse for dinner. It was so good to have him home again. I was all geared up for Lil Bit to be a brat this weekend but she wasn’t at all. Not sure if she was on her best behavior because the Viking was home or if it’s just holiday syndrome but I was glad. We had a discussion with her about showing gratitude and being thankful for the things people do for you but she didn’t give me the shit she’s been giving her daddy. I think she’s just surer of what her boundaries are with me so she doesn’t push as hard. I’m had a lot more time with her to establish mine than her daddy has had. In any case she was very good and I was thankful for that. She cleaned her room with little grumbling and enjoyed her night over at her cousins’ with my sister. We had discussed whether we were going to refrain from sex but I refused to adhere to standard medical practices that are not given to me, i.e. not having sex or using tampons. I’m having a damn D&C on Wednesday anyway so that should take care of it. In my stubborn way, I can honestly say that I’m not going against Dr.'s orders at all because my OB has not told me not to use tampons or refrain from having sex. Frankly if I wasn’t limited by what Dr. Medicaid will pay and what they will pay for I’d already be at a different Dr. It didn’t take more than a phone call to the other offices to find out that the other 3 available OB’s have the same standard practice in regards to medical management of a missed miscarriage so I didn’t bother changing Dr.’s. Why bother? At this point it’s just a waste of time that we don’t have to spare. Even with stopping to have dinner we got home before we would have if he’d taken the last leg of the trip. We spent some time with Lil Bit and then headed to bed for our real homecoming. With all the missed miscarriage mishaps and feeling like my body is betraying me, I have not been feeling like my normal Nympho self. A few minutes in my Viking’s arms fixed all that and we were onto to our fabulous fucking. We agreed we were going to try to fuck our little zombie squatter out of there this weekend and we gave it our best effort. As I told my Viking before, he fucked it in maybe he can fuck it out. I know I have a sick sense of humor but he gets me. Sleeping and waking in his arms was the best salve to my wounded soul! I battled with being tired, cramps and bleeding all weekend. Sometimes I was fine and others I was hurting pretty badly and crabby. I didn’t go to the funeral for lots of reasons but that was my main one. I felt bad but I know DJ would have said stay home and enjoy your life. Luckily, my Viking was on full caregiver mode taking care of me, making me dinner. He helped me with the housework I’ve gotten behind on, took care of the animals and the honey-do list I had for him. He’s so damn good to me! Friday we had our photo shoot for engagement and family photos. Don’t think the traditional engagement photos of the couple sitting holding hands. No we had him playing guitar for me, us playing Mr. & Mrs. Smith, Lil Bit holding him at gun point while he proposed, him being the super hero to save me from being tied up on the train tracks, carrying me and just generally being our eccentric selves for the camera. It was fun and a nice break from the depressing stuff that we’ve been dealing with. I can’t wait to see the pics! Saturday Lil Bit spent the night at my sister’s house so we could have an adult date night and get loud. We ran errands together and he did more to make sure I was taken care of when he had to go. We went to one of our favorite places for dinner and trivia. Then we headed to the movies. It was fun even though we had to leave the movie theater and get our money back because it was overrun with rude loud agers. We rented a couple of movies instead and cuddled on the couch instead. The rest of the weekend we just enjoyed having that time together at home with Lil Bit and the animals. We watched our favorite TV shows together and the other movies we rented. We talked late into the night and snuggled as much as we could. He held me while I cried and wailed about how unfair this all is. We ranted together about the ineffective care I’ve been getting. I know this is hard for him too. He is upset that he can’t be here with me. I understand and I knew when we got serious what I was in for. As much as I’d like him here holding my hand I know he has to be where he is. Like I told him, I won’t be doing much but sleeping, eating and vegging out for a while so there’s nothing he can do anyway. I’m not someone who wants anyone hovering over me when I don’t feel good. I prefer to be left alone to lick my wounds and heal in private. He’s probably the only person I’d be able to stand around me at all. Just hearing his voice on the phone makes me feel better. We will get through this together even if we aren’t in the same place. We’re both really heartbroken about losing the baby and uber-frustrated about the length of time and lack of resolution to this debacle but we are also determined to not let this set us back. We have a plan and we will make the future we want no matter what life throws our way. We are more convinced than ever that we have something incredible and we will fight to keep it for the rest of our lives. We are truly blessed to have each other and the love we share. Despite this temporary sadness we are truly happy with each other and the relationship we have. We are grateful for the gift we have in each other and our love. I have to go back to the OB tomorrow and she will schedule the D&C for Wednesday at lunch. This crazy shit should be over by Wednesday afternoon and then I can move on. It’s hard to believe it will be a month that this has been dragging on Sunday. Most people I have to tell don’t realize that a miscarriage isn’t always just over and done with. People are shocked that this process is months long and that’s just the medical aspect for us. Wedding plans are well underway and keeping me busy. My invitation list is pretty much done and my favorite cousin’s wife is making the custom invites for us. I know what I need to order and where. Most of the rest of the tasks will be done at the first of next month. Our vows are ready. I’m looking forward to finishing my wedding tasks. Now if the weather will be as cooperative as it was on Friday for the photo shoot we will be golden! I think/hope I’ve found a new pet sitter who lives very close to me and will do a great job. In a few weeks I should be well enough to start going back to visit my Viking. I’ll be setting that up with our new pet sitter in the next few days. I’m also looking forward to Lulu’s Corsets & Kilts party again this year. Hard to believe it’s been a year. I’m really lucky to have my friends and family. That includes all of you. Thank you for all your love and support. Take care and love each other well. Kisses, LeeAnn Kisses, LA    |
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Hope you had a great time after that long drive. Kisses
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You drove all that way just to spend an extra 3 hours with him? You are in love girl! Happy for you!  Thoughts from the Garden...
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You have a great way of putting it out there Fuckbeast Queen I bet before too long, in spite of the darkness, things will be well again. Hoping very much you'll feel better than just well actually! Awesome picture ideas  All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus
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Thinking of you today LeeAnn. Hope all goes well. BehindMyBlues
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There's some of the good stuff...
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Glad you got to spend some quality time with Lil Bit and your Viking. Even if the theater was over run with noisy teenagers (that is one reason I stopped going to movies on Saturday nights). Those pictures sound like they were really fun to do. Hope I get to have a look sometime. Take care LeeAnn, My thoughts will be with you tomorrow.
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I'm so glad you got to spend some quality time with the Viking and I'm counting down to seeing you at Corsets and Kilts! ***
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Woohoo Viking rehab weekend!! Glad it is exactly what you needed... Ur.Grrl.CC 
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