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Interesting Developments
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Interesting Developments Life seems to be getting interesting for me. Ok life is always interesting, but today it seemed doubly so. I closed a 55 hour week at my day job and then worked at the Green Door as the house photographer tonight. That was less fun then most people would think it is, but i still enjoyed it. (especially the pay) I'll be heading back there on the 8th and 22nd of October. In other news, i have learned that M has a new boyfriend already. Less then a month since she and i split up and this guy is the love of her life. Sounds a bit unhealthy to me. Good luck to them both. Stinky didn't make it to work today, apparently she had a car accident. While i wouldn't wish it on her, i can't summon any feel bad about it either, especially since i hear she's uninjured. One other issue i noticed, based on the reactions of several people who learned i was shooting pictures in a swingers club, i'm almost tempted to lie in the future when the subject comes up. I won't though, i figure if someone can't handle it, it's better to find out sooner then later. "We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill |
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10/20/2011 9:10 am |
No, you are far more selective. I'm a little disappointed that I wasn't a tasty enough morsel for you, as there wasn't any pursuit after our first meeting. It's o.k.I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I I'm sure you have women hanging all over you, all the time. It must be the mystery thing. In any event, I'm hoping you have a good weekend. kiss kiss. D
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Regarding the ex ... If someone moves on that quickly, you've got to figure it's one of 3 things: 1. They're co-dependent. People like that are incapable of being alone. When one relationship ends, they jump immediately into another, and if that one doesn't work out, they jump again. It's kind of like Sliders. "This isn't our Earth?" "Nope", "Well, let's try again". My Evil Ex-Girlfriend J is like that. She's a little over 40, and is already on her 4th marriage. That's not counting the various and sundry engagements, living-togethers, and datings in between. 2. They'd checked out long ago, but stuck with you until they found their next relationship. Not exclusive to co-dependents, but almost all co-dependents do it. Back to my Evil Ex-Girlfriend, J, she stuck with husband #1 till she moved in with her college professor (graduate school, she was 27 at the time). He knew nothing about it till he came home to find an empty house and a note. When we met, she said she'd split up with the college professor, but I didn't know she hadn't quite gotten around to telling him; he thought they were just going through a rough patch and she needed a little "space". Imagine his surprise when he spotted us walking hand-in-hand in Brookside and stopped to as a few questions. Imagine mine. 3. Her feelings for you just weren't that deep. Maybe she's just not capable. Anyway, sorry you had to go through it. The positive takeaway from that is, there's now no question that you are better off out of the relationship than in it. You have some measure of closure. My old Uncle Elmo used to always say: "Never put a question mark where a period belongs".
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9/25/2011 8:22 am |
I hope it wasn't my curiosity that prompted this posting.
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