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Sex quotes and other things  

demonicsexkitten 48F
5178 posts
7/24/2014 11:36 pm

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7/27/2014 7:45 am

Sex quotes and other things


I wrote a fantasy the other day, and I'm trying to figure out how to make it "blog worthy". It was created in the spur of the moment for one of my friends. Not *my* typical scene but I did have a lot of fun running with it in my mind. My words having a powerful effect on another is quite an aphrodisiac.

In the meantime, while I continue the struggle to make my words reader-friendly:

HiddenMythology posted a fun little blog post tonight, [post 3451535] ... "Sex is the...."

My first internal response: "sex is the distraction" and turns out I was quite right. Just not quite as I thought... I then got caught up googling sex quotes.

Some of my favorites:

Sex on television can't hurt you unless you fall off. ~Author Unknown

An intellectual is a person who's found one thing that's more interesting than sex. ~Aldous Huxley

Conservatives say teaching sex education in the public schools will promote promiscuity. With our education system? If we promote promiscuity the same way we promote math or science, they've got nothing to worry about. ~Beverly Mickins

(I'm not sure if I should feel bad for laughing as hard as I did at that one. It's also got a sad ring of truth to it)

I regret to say that we of the FBI are powerless to act in cases of oral-genital intimacy, unless it has in some way obstructed interstate commerce. ~J. Edgar Hoover, attributed
(this amuses me from a literary view. I'm thinking of challenging some<b> writers </font></b>I know to run with this in November)

“In a perfect world, you could fuck people without giving them a piece of your heart. And every glittering kiss and every touch of flesh is another shard of heart you’ll never see again.”
― Neil Gaiman, Fragile Things: Short Fictions and Wonders

“Anyone who is in love is making love the whole time, even when they're not. When two bodies meet, it is just the cup overflowing. They can stay together for hours, even days. They begin the dance one day and finish it the next, or--such is the pleasure they experience--they may never finish it. No eleven minutes for them.”
― Paulo Coelho, Eleven Minutes

“Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn't sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim.”
― Paulo Coelho


Every time I read something Paulo Coelho has written or said: it resonates with me. I think I need to find out who this person is.

And a quote from my late Grandpa that I grew up hearing (well, once I hit teenage years at least):

"Be good. If you can't be good: be careful. If you can't be careful: name it after me!"

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
7/25/2014 12:24 am

My wife's grandma took to wearing a corset to bed when she got older. To keep grandpa from getting at her. My wife, then still pretty young asked about sleeping in that uncomfortable thing. She told her: "PD, sex is a beautiful thing, but enough is enough!"

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Smokeblower 67M
610 posts
7/25/2014 2:15 am

Great topic, DSK. And I love Paulo Coelho. This quote in particular: “Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn't sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim.”

For me the greatest part of sex is the sense of union that can happen when you are energetically, spiritually and emotionally connected. That's completing the dance. In Tantra we call it Divine Union and it's pretty much what I live for.


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
7/25/2014 12:33 pm

I like those last two statements by Paulo Coelho. A good start.. ..


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littlejohnson616 64M
433 posts
7/25/2014 7:14 pm

Here are a few from my bookshelves. I've kept it to one quote per book.

Unwilling to encourage masturbation because they were suspicious of the pleasure it yielded women, physicians from the age of Hippocrates until the 1920s commonly prescribed genital massage for "hysterical" women to relieve (at least temporarily) their symptoms. These physicians denied that the clitoral orgasm was a normal part of female sexuality; instead it was considered to be the "crisis" of an illness, the "hysterical paroxysm." ~Leora Tannenbaum, Slut! Growing Up Female With a Bad Reputation.

Researchers, looking for statistical "norms," have asked all the wrong questions for all the wrong reasons - and all too often have wound up telling women how they should feel rather than asking them how they do feel. ~Shere Hite, The Hite Report.

But The Hite Report went further than simply arguing that women wanted more oral sex. For the first time, a volume of female voices statistically turned women's right to good sex into a political issue ~Barbara Ehrenreich et. al., Re-Making Love.

The worship of virginity must be posited as a real sexual perversion, crueler and more insidious than those sex models condemned by the culture as perverse. ~Andrea Dworkin, Woman Hating.

What I perceived was the Pink Elephant of the pornography discussion: what turns you on may not match your artistic values, your romantic choices in real life, your political views, but it is just as much a part of you, just as real and substantial, as any other aspect. ~Susie Bright, The Sexual State of the Union.

It's hard for most women to see sex as notches on a gun or scalps hung from a belt, but it's part and parcel of a man's sex life. ~Carol Cassell, Swept Away.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/27/2014 12:52 am

I think you should post your fantasy on your blog. Sometimes I change things to be blogworthy (or what I think blogworthy is) and it didn't work; and other times I just post something that I think is not blogworthy and it's worked.


demonicsexkitten replies on 7/27/2014 1:21 am:
Hmm... maybe I will just do that. So far I keep staring at it, "this was so FUN to "create"... how can I fix it?" and get nowhere. I think my main issue is that I start in the middle of the action. No lead up, no dramatic "OMG!! Something's going to happen". Ah well...

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