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Pampered and Spoiled  

demonicsexkitten 48F
5178 posts
4/23/2015 11:32 pm

Last Read:
4/24/2015 11:55 pm

Pampered and Spoiled


I received an email question today that really made me think:

"So do you like pampering? If so what makes you feel like you are the only one and being spoiled?"

Do I like being pampered??? I *think* so. But it's not something I'm too familiar with.

What, in your mind, constitutes being "pampered and spoiled"?

A best friend once treated the both of us to a mani/pedi and deep conditioning hair treatment.

When I was 20 a boyfriend ran me a<b> bubble bath </font></b>with candle light, strawberries and sparkling cider to surprise me after a long day at work. He essentially played slave boy and waited on me, fed me strawberries, refilled the wine glass, etc. This was in my "still a virgin, not having sex" days.

Last Fourth of July while lounging in the hot spring Hitchhiker gave me a 10+ minute foot massage. It was a very unaccustomed luxury.

All unusual, one-off's. I'm not familiar enough with the concept or the experience to know what I might, especially, like.

Plus it's all in the bond with the individual person.

After an hour or two of thinking on this, and an hour writing/rewriting, I've determined I'd far rather feel cherished and loved than pampered and spoiled. Though if anybody wants to surprise me with pampered and spoiled I probably won't turn it down LOL.

kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
4/24/2015 9:02 am

I would think any loving couple would take turns doing the pampering once in a while. A wedding gift my former wife and I would give is ONE bed table, explaining they must take turns serving the other breakfast in bed every once in a while.

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


demonicsexkitten replies on 4/24/2015 4:15 pm:
That's awesome

easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
4/24/2015 9:28 pm

you know, that is an interesting question...

Some ladies have pampered me & spoiled me with gifts out of thin air. They've even given me roses... I love roses (any color). Others, have flown me to their city for a weekend visit. I really love it when my women pay for dinner and/or take me to the movies. It doesn't happen often, but I really do appreciate it and I let them know...

Another thing that some of my lovers have done is call me after we've been intimate and 'thank me' for a wonderful experience... That, is a very true, kind gift that I truly have enjoyed. That is not something that I've experienced often...

So, yes, I have been pampered and spoiled, and I like it...

thanks for the blog...

have a great weekend!

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Good luck!!!


demonicsexkitten replies on 4/24/2015 10:42 pm:
Most men don't let me, even if I offer lol.

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