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Modesty is arrogance by stealth  

40Deuce 46M
4633 posts
10/3/2013 6:02 pm

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10/5/2013 11:00 am

Modesty is arrogance by stealth

Let me first say that I have never claimed not to be a hypocrite . Well actually I probably have but it was for the purposes of deceit . So its okay . Anyway , the point is a former lover of mine , and by lover I mean old lady I used to bang on the reg (her words [not really]{but kind of})has been picking at me because I keep insisting that I would never , ever , never , ever , newver , oover , ever consider the young lady who's staying with me (hopefully for not much longer) as a viable candidate for the sexy funtime because it is "wrong" . When we dating or were together or whatever you call it when all you do is eat Chinese food , watch Lost , play tennis and screw (hard) I was 28 and she was 40 . Does this make me a hypocrite ? Yes , but I still feel I have some valid points here . As Shaq(uille) famously proclaimed "35 aint 25 bro" and by that same token 28 aint 19 . I'm not saying that the difference in our ages is the only problem , 19 is just too young to anyone to be having sex with in my mind - unless its another 19 (or so) year old in which case is what they're doing really sex or just aggressive twerking ? By the way I would never normally use the work "twerking" but I am compelled by outside factors - its a whole thing , I'll tell you later .

Plus I am probably deluded but it seems far less likely to me for an<b> older woman </font></b>to be in a predatory relationship with a younger man than an older man and a younger woman . Why do I think this ? I have no reason , I just do . I especially realize that this is a undefensible position because I have specifically said myself that once they were over I felt that a couple of my "relationships" with women "significantly" older than me were very one sided AKA they were using me for sex (which makes no sense because I'm not that great at it , but I suppose just being able to get "it" on the reg is worth something [also note I would normally never say "reg" but I am required by forces to use it twice]) . So I realized I am probably wrong , but my brain tells me an<b> older woman </font></b>with a younger dude is more likely to be "okay" than an older man with a younger woman .

To me a dude in his twenties and a lady in her forties have a strong common ground - they want to hump , and hump a lot , and the rest is all kind of a nuisance . Does thinking that make me a bad person ? Yes . But on the plus side I do a lot of charity work and only brag about it a lot (instead of a super lot) .

Moving on . Today while I was waiting for a worthless meeting to start the ladies sitting around the conference room introduced me to a new sexual bias I wasn't aware - dudes can't pay attention to anything when they're hungry . Several of them remarked "I don't even talk to my husband/boyfriend/sex slave when he's hungry , I know there's no point ." Since I am hungry literally all the time this a highly disturbing revelation . I think I can pay attention to things but maybe that's because I never actually have and I don't really know what its like . Its hard to say .

In other news this is MC Frontalot



I don't think I look much like him but I look enough like him that when I got to events where I'm MC Motheater people sometimes think I'm him . I've met him a couple times and he was always really nice but for some reason I see him being a dick to a lot of other people . Weird .

In other other news did you know they made a pilot for an Aquaman TV show on the CW ? And even more shockingly it became the number-one most downloaded television show on iTunes ? And even more more shockingly it has generally favorable reviews ? I like Aquaman okay , like most comic characters he's been around long enough to have some really good moments even if you don't care about him overall . But Aquaman is generally the butt of any superhero joke that comes down the pike . There was a time when you couldn't watch the Big Bang Theory without someone laying into Aquaman every 2 episodes . I am stunned that this pilot was even made , nevermidn the fact that people seemed to like it . I should probably check it out . I hope the Gotham City TV show that's going to be on Fox is going to be good . But I bet it won't be (its on Fox after all) .

Even though I've been a Batman fan since I was 3 months old and the new Batman Trilolgy is pretty recent now I can't picture Jim Gordon as anyone but Gary Oldman . Who looks like a young(er) Gary Oldman ?

And finally , one time there was a movie called the Watchmen . It was great . The #1 complaint my fellow comic book nerds have about that movie is the very long and very explicit (for "mainstream" movie) sex scene between the Night Owl and Silk Specter . Many people have said "it went on so long I started to get uncomfortable" . My only problem with it was the giant nake man ass in my face the whole time . Regardless , I don't think you need sex scenes in movies or TV but if you do it should be like that - 7-11 minutes long and you see tons of (awkward) thrusting and eventually hear orgasm bellowing . This nonsense where two characters fall into bed and then there's some rustling under the sheets ? Bullshit . That helps no one . If you are going to go to the trouble of putting a sex scene in your project you better make it graphic and off-putting . Just like real sex .

And finally , consider this , said by some dude “Obsessions are addictions , which may not be defeated by actions in the physical world , but by a change of temper in the mind .”

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
10/4/2013 9:41 am

I agree with you that for whatever reason, older woman/younger man is viewed as "you go girl!"; but older man/younger woman is viewed as predatory and creepy.

Maybe because the older women don't usually do the chasing? At least in my experience, every younger man I've gotten involved with started out with him approaching me.

Anyway. whatever the reason, what Kalia said is the pertinent point.

I'm still amazed at the number of guys on dating sites with completely unrealistic age ranges as their target. 50 year old guy saying he's interested in women 23-45. I suppose he's hoping that the one woman in a thousand with a daddy complex will view his profile.


40Deuce replies on 10/5/2013 11:02 am:
Sadly the ratio of women with "daddy issues" on this site it more like 50% , I see tons of profiles of women looking for older men to be their "daddy" it makes me throw up a little bit every time

wildoats19622 62M
3526 posts
10/4/2013 5:49 pm

Harold and Maude doesn't need more explicit sex scenes.

Or maybe it does, they could be doing it on the beach and then Aquaman saves the day. Was it Robot Chicken that made fun of Aquaman's offensive capabilities? I suppose to be truly effective he would need to be amphibian man.

I recently watched "Return of the Living Dead, Reanimation". Not too bad I enjoyed the references to Sister Sara and the Tea Baggers. She should have been bustier and the movie could've really used some gratuitous nudity. They didn't have a good grasp of the magazine capacity of a shotgun either. But enjoyable despite it's faults.

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40Deuce replies on 10/5/2013 11:03 am:
It does

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