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Do I have to tattoo it?  

shysexual_MTgirl 42F  
760 posts
2/18/2014 11:26 am

Last Read:
2/25/2014 7:35 pm

Do I have to tattoo it?


I have a bone to pick. Just because I'm a female member of this site does NOT mean I'll do anything you want. I enjoy sex...A LOT, but there are certain things I'm, 1.) either not up for or 2.) need preparation for. I'm open to the idea of anal sex...but any man who just tries to shove his dick in without asking or bothering to take his time, is going to get punched in the junk from now on. I'm done trying to be nice about this. In case you don't understand, if you just try to shove your dick in my ass, it is NOT like my pussy. It doesn't have natural lubrication, it doesn't just open to accommodate your dick. In fact, if you try to just shove it in, I will tense up and it makes it worse. And if I've already asked you not to do it and you keep trying, there is something wrong with that.

Why do some guys think this is ok? Would it be ok if I grabbed my dildo and decided to just shove it up your ass without asking? No? Then please respect the women who have invited you into their bed/sex life.

The reason I'm bringing this up is because I had one of the worst encounters I've ever had last night. First he had basically tried to fuck my face, which if done right, I don't mind. But when I'm nearly suffocating and choking, it's not a fun experience for me. Then when we've discussed that I have issues with swallowing (I have a hard time with this due to a previous bad experience) yet you choose to attempt to cum in my mouth without warning or having the decency to pull out, you're already not starting off right. I love sucking dick, but some guys are ruining the pleasure I get from this. After I get over being irritated at this, I'm still horny, so I decided that since he was there, I might as well get fucked. Well, I should have just kicked him out. Things just went downhill from there. We were going at it doggy style, I was kind of enjoying it, when he pulled out and tried shoving his dick into my ass. I of course pulled away and yelped. I told him that he couldn't do that, I want ready. He said ok and we went back to fucking... against my better judgement. Less then 5 minutes later, he tried putting it in my ass again. Wtf!? I already said NO!

Not doing as I wish in the bedroom or during sex means you won't get another invite. I want to please you, but this isn't all about you. It's about both of us having a good time, getting pleasure, pleasing one another. What is so hard about that to understand?

So, guys, if you've talked to a lady and have discussed what is off limits or if at anytime one of you says no to something, that needs to be respected.

JoelG1967 57M
106 posts
2/22/2014 8:35 am

Sorry you did not have a great time. I know I would not want a dildo shoved in my ass, at least dry.
Have lots of lube will travel.


kittykatgal 46F
233 posts
2/19/2014 7:24 pm

omg i'm sorry gf this idiot didnt have any fucking common courtesy... wtf?! like there wasn't enough blood for his penis and his brain to function... smh

meow

~~kitty~~kat~~gal~~


shysexual_MTgirl 42F  
370 posts
2/18/2014 7:59 pm

It was also like he was trying to rub my clit off, he was rubbing so hard down there. I don't know how many times I asked him to be gentle. No wonder he rarely gets
any! Ugh!


sehd07 57M
1059 posts
2/18/2014 12:13 pm

Anal sex should be left to mature males that know how to do it. Lots of lube and plenty of prep. My favorite prep is the woman riding reverse cowgirl on me, it gives me full access to her ass to finger it and get it ready for my cock.


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