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This...took a turn for the worse
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This...took a turn for the worse Wow. It has been a long last two weeks and I can't say I last remember being this swamped. Mind you, it's all work-related. On one hand, I guess it feels nice to get back into the groove of it. But on the other...whew! So as i sit now, trying not to let my uber-super sweet coffee fuck up my thoughts, which are all over the place, let's try and get some of it down. Last evening I met up with some friends for dinner. One of them is a new mom (well, her 's about 8 months old so...I guess new enough) so I haven't seen her in awhile. Naturally, she showed up with in tow and we all chipped in to help with her stuff. At one point, we were were just standing at a fairly busy street, with the pram in the middle, and talking. Randomly, each one of us stopped to play with her in the pram. Out of the corner of my eye, I noticed that every time either one of us bent over, three heads (all guys. And not in the same group) turned in our direction to look. It had seemed a little odd to me but didn't think much of it until much later. Then I realized that every time we bent over to check out her , they were looking down our tops. Like wow. At first I was like, 'Really? Nothing's beyond you huh?" I still am not sure how I feel about it.  I didn't say anything to any of the other ladies but we moved off after a short while.... :SOn to more prying-eyes moments. Think I'll lump these two together as oh-so-obvious-but-trying-not-to-be. Or I could also call it "Don't-you-know-I-know-you-peeked-you-asswipe?" One is more the former, the other the latter. Either way, you get the idea. Was in yoga class yesterday morning and we were tasked to use the wall for support. It was a pretty crowded class in a relatively mid sized class so most of us were lined up across from each other with the teacher/instructor in the middle. There was this guy who I've seen from time to time across from me, slightly off to my right. As with yoga, there was a lot of bending forward. Each time I look up, I see him looking. Fair play, I guess, cos we were all in that position. It got a little...funny, I suppose, in this instance, when all of us had our heads facing forward and you see his to one side trying to get a better look, while trying and failing horrendously, to look inconspicuous. I guess I can brush this one off though, given the circumstances. This last one, a little more blatant. Had a meeting with a potential vendor last week. He came by the office and was presenting his stuff, and everytime he was standing close, he was looking down my top. At first, I leaned back, and he, without skipping a beat, looked away and continued talking. But he kept coming in closer each time I sat forward to read whatever he was showing me. Given, he must have thought he was being discreet, but dude...really. We always know. I ended that meeting real quick and passed it on to another colleague to follow up on it. I guess there's a time and place for everything, and clearly we are always in disagreement on what that is. Hmm...clearly I was feeling a lot more 'blueish' this morning when I started this post (I have just re-read the entire thing and was this close to deleting it but I'll let it stand. Why the hell not..). It is now post lunch and I just had the...ok, not THE most inappropriate lunch, but one hell of an inappropriate lunch. And I've just moved from feeling 'blueish' to downright "pissed-the-fuck-off-i'm-ready-to-rip-your-throat-out" mode. This lunch meeting was set last Friday with a recently acquired (not my account) that I had met a few weeks ago while on a business trip to Malaysia. When I first got the mail, I thought it must have been something we had talked about briefly while I met him on my trip. I didn't give it too much thought until yesterday when he called (had no idea how he got my cell phone number) to confirm our lunch today. I spoke with the boss to let him know in case I was going to be stepping on toes, more specifically, the current account manager's toes, given the deal with this particular company was recently closed. Anyways, I found out that no one in particular is managing the account and had thought the meeting was called so this could speak to me with regards to that. Turns out I was brutally mistaken. I show up 5 minutes early and he was already waiting. He had picked a fancy restaurant and even picked out a quiet corner. Fine. Enough privacy for a discussion, I thought. Oh was I right. He got up from his seat to welcome me when I walked over, and surprised me with a hug rather than the expected handshake. Okay. No big deal. Then he showed me to my seat right beside his, all the time one of his hands on the small of my back, sliding lower til he was rubbing the top of my ass. I was still thinking, "okaaay. Maybe he's just..overly friendly...?" Then we order, and he orders wine. And he sits in too close, our legs were touching. I sit a little further back, and he doesn't let up. We start talking, and nothing about work comes up. I'm keeping this in mind, figuring we'll get to it soon enough. We talk further, he laughs and starts putting his hands on mine, stroking my upper arms in a...too-friendly manner. Then I figured I'd say something (before he irks me the fuck out and I stab him in the eye with my fork ) on what must be the 50th time he's stared directly at my breasts. I pull my chair back slightly, sit back said that this wasn't work related at all, was it. Then the ball dropped. Further. Turns out he's a friend of a friend of my ex bf, and had met him at some party recently. No fucking idea how it came up but it did and he found out who I was from my recent ex, and thought he'd try and hit it up with me. Real purpose of this lunch, as it turns out, was that he was planning a gangbang with a few of his friends and was hoping I'd willingly join their party. Throw the effects of the wine in, he also disclosed that he was rather hoping that we'd go off on a<b> quickie </font></b>somewhere, right after lunch. I was sooooo fucking pissed, I almost DID stab him in the eye. I pulled my chair further back, asked him a rhetorical question of who the fuck he thought he was, and told him to go fuck himself. Tip of the ice berg moment. His response to that was, and i quote, "What? I thought girls like you liked parties, and I'm inviting you to one. Look, all I'm offering you is a good time.." He was mouthing off a lot more but I didn't hear him anymore at this time. I, officially, flipped. I stood up, smacked his glass of wine into him, and told him if he ever spoke to me or bothered me again, I'd cut his eye out! Or call the police on him. I can't really remember now. I was soo friggin pissed. THen I stormed out. He got up and mouthed something off and I kept screaming "go fuck yourself you creep!". Or something of the like. In the cab on the way back here, I called and literally screamed into the ex bf's voice mail. In retrospect, no wonder the cab driver was a little...quiet the entire journey back. So yeah, now that I've collected my thoughts, somewhat, I am still fucking pissed. How can some people be soooo fucking full of themselves?! Like really. One more reason to kick him in the nuts if and when I see him. Both of them. Gonna try and get back to work now. Sheesh... The fucking audacity of some people who think that they are "all that". Fucking hell... |
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What a jerk! Don't just kick their nuts. Tie a knot with their penis too!
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simply a case of retard mixed with no tact and obviously alotta stupid!! good on you the way you handled it! 
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hit me up
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Gutted... wow... such an arse exists... felt sorry that you have to deal with such an ass. Totally ruin your day... if not week!
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Okay. Time for me to look for my sunglasses. And maybe a white cane, so I might be excused if i was caught groping. Now... Time to venture out to catch a awesome view. PS: next time, please carry a dagger. I give you permission to stab him or them. Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.
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Wow I must say you've had some varied experience. But in the defence of the guys, sometimes it's just very hard not to look! especially with really nice boobies right at you! I know i've been guilty sometimes of trying to sneak a peak!
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That guy wins the totally clueless creep of all time award. Surprise!!! "We've barely met and I planned a gang bang for you. It happens all the time in xxx movies and the girls love it, what could u possibly be upset about." Sad this small cock is even in the male category.
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