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Blogs > partygald > this way to heidi

Lazy blowjobs - sometimes you just can't help it :P  

partygald 41F
3085 posts
8/31/2015 9:46 pm

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4/27/2016 1:30 am
Lazy blowjobs - sometimes you just can't help it :P

I logged in earlier today when I got into the office and I was sifting through my email when I noticed this one mail from a certain guy. He told me about himself, what he likes to do, what he was looking for and then gave me his number. His email was nice and polite (which was why I read it), and even had a picture of him attached. It was discreetly taken, and the face was omitted. The thing is, I recognized the number. (I know a lot of people these days don't, with name recognition on our phones and all. I guess I'm one of the few who still remember numbers). Sure enough, I sift through my phone and the number matches one of my friend's husband.

I only got to know him through her. We used to work together a few years ago and we used to go out after work for drinks. Not someone I'm very close to but, more than an acquaintance. As far as I understand, she just delivered, and this is their first . (I only know through a mutual friend of ours). In his email, he mentioned looking for something discreet, so I'm guessing he doesn't want his wife to know. I'd normally try not to judge. But can things be that bad that he's looking elsewhere? Or has he always been looking outside his marriage? I don't, and wouldn't know. I'm also trying to fight my instincts to drop her a note to see if she's ok. So I won't. I'm gonna take the "really none of my beeswax" stance on this one. Ants nest, this one.

I took a day off last week and went to the beach with an ex boyfriend of mine. He was here two weekends ago, then fly off for work, and had come back for a day and a half and asked if I had time. I'm leaving my job so am now clearing my few days of leave left, so I told the fiance I wasn't going into the office and was going to the beach with a friend, and he said ok and would meet me back at my place for dinner. So off I went. It has been a long time since I went to any of the beaches here, and it just reminded me what I haven't been missing We didn't spend too long at the beach and was having a drink when I complained that I actually wanted a tan but the beach wasn't enjoyable. Of course, he mentioned that he hotel room had a balcony that had a lot of sun, and if we hurried, we might still make it there to catch the day's rays. LOL It was lame, but we went back to his hotel room anyways. Sun tanning in his hotel room balcony was a washout cos there was a building right opposite that didn't offer up much privacy. We did spend two hours fucking each other silly though. This ex boyfriend of mine is a black guy and, as much as I hate the stereotype, he's fairly large. Not to much lengthwise, but thick. Like really. Thick. Which is not a bad thing. But BJs is challenging. I must have been a little too enthusiastic cos when we left his room, I was a little drained and my jaws were really aching.

I didn't really feel the extent of it until I got home. The fiance was already waiting with dinner and we jumped into the shower before eating. We fooled around a little in the shower but didn't finish cos we were both a little hungry. We got out, dried up and had our dinner naked at the dining table. We were munching and talking, and fooling around a little more and I was feeding him while he played with and fingered me til I came. I sat there panting, trying to catch my breath while he was nibbling at my breasts, and I pushed him back, and slid down and started licking and sucking on the inside of his thighs. I moved up to his balls, and eventually took him in my mouth. A few seconds in and my jaws felt like they were gonna lock out! It was...agony! LOL I eventually just had the head of his dick in my mouth while I jerked him off. LOL (you know the one...the handjob disguised as a BJ) Yup. I gave a lazy BJ LOL

I was drooling and slobbering all over his thighs when thankfully, we moved to the living room, switched off the lights and fucked on the couch by the window. At one point, I was holding the window sill looking into a neighbors flat, watching them watch tv while he was slamming into me from behind. It was a tiring night We finished up, went back to the dining table, and finished our dinner. Took a few days before my jaws felt normal again.

Damn when things are good, they're gooood. Of course that doesn't last forever. We had a serious fight yesterday and I haven't spoke to him yet. Is this what married life is like? AAAAaaannnnd it's 3 months before THE DATE! Whoopie do

partygald 41F
1963 posts
9/1/2015 2:08 am
    Quoting Raraaves:
    Interesting read you had a lot to say in that post. As for the friend email, will he not read this post and figure out who you are and that you are friends with his wife? Sorry about the fight and yes you will get in fights when you are married. It is not all bad, making up is great and you get to work though things that need to be talked about. I was married for 17 yrs and have nothing bad to say about it, but there will be times you will say this is work. The good news it overall it is comfortable, good life being married. Was the fight in reference to your "I believe in the truth, like it or not" and you told you to him about your time in the hotel room?
IF he reads this post AND can figure it out (assuming he can put 2 and 2 together), then good. I hope he does. But seriously, i'm going hands off from this one. He can figure it out, or if he can't, his issues. I just hope they are both doing ok.

And thanks for the kind words. Fights happen, I understand. And we DO fight. A LOT. And no, it wasn't about my time spent in the hotel room. It's something else that blew up unnecessarily. Doesn't help that we're both hot headed. But I guess these things happen. Thanks for popping by


partygald 41F
1963 posts
9/2/2015 10:20 pm
    Quoting Raraaves:
    Fights do happen, not a lot or even that often for me. I always look at them as a new adventure, you learn something new about the person your with. As long as your not revisiting the same things or they are not irreconcilable differences then married life should be good to you. Good luck, two months away is not long, I am sure you have lots to do between now and then.

    As for the friends husband, maybe they too have some kind of agreement? Although it really doesn't sound like it, in which case you can circle back to the above and it will likely not work because she will eventually find out. Who wants to be a home wrecker? not me for sure mine or anyone else's.

    Have a great week, keep posting new stuff, you are a good writer, your posts make for a interesting read. Thank you for the reply.
Ha..Thanks again for reading


partygald 41F
1963 posts
9/2/2015 10:22 pm

 Oh Rocky Rocky....gonna have to disagree on this one. At least from the receiving end. I'd rather no head than getting lousy head.


FlickSg 51M
182 posts
9/3/2015 10:05 am

 So .... your friend's hubby going behind her back does not square well with you, but you fucking your ex boy friend before another round with your fiance (I assumed you forgot to tell him how the beach outing ended) is fine?


shakeurbonbons 39M  
202 posts
9/4/2015 10:05 am

 So is there truth to the saying "once u go black, you won't go back"?


Storm1001 54M
39 posts
9/5/2015 9:19 am

 Have fun making up for the fight ! And good luck with your new job !


kstaterforfun 36M
284 posts
9/6/2015 1:25 pm

 I don't think you need to fake a blow job for a hand job, guys love hand jobs, especially when the girl giving is into it and knows what she's doing. I definitely would love a lazy-j from you though, still sounds awesome.


Hoshener 39M
Ask me for a photo
13 posts
9/16/2015 6:00 am

 Hah i travel for a month(no i don't use this site on my company laptop!) and come back to this interesting story!
Haha well you know I've always found (and been told) that make up sex, is the best sex so....you can look forward to that!


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
9/17/2015 3:24 am

 I like having a woman hold her lips just over the tip of my dick while I jerkoff and cum in her mouth. Very erotic!
You don't say, in all that you did say, anything about whether you're in an open relationship, or you're just a cheating slut. Just curious . . .
Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


mrhd1 84M
4049 posts
9/17/2015 7:05 am

 Hi baby, I done blame you for liking black guys and I like them. I think they nice big cocks Yumm


mrhd1 84M
4049 posts
9/27/2015 12:28 pm

 You have wonderful breasts sweetheart and I would love to suck them all night


mrhd1 84M
4049 posts
10/4/2015 8:45 am

 I love your breasts baby


mrhd1 84M
4049 posts
10/6/2015 11:03 am

 That's ok. I'll take a lazy blow job baby yumm


ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
3/13/2016 2:04 pm

 GOOD


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
4/11/2016 10:52 pm

 Being free to play while engaged is a bit unconventional.

But way back when I was in university, I ran into my old high school girlfriend, and by that point she was engaged. In high school, we had never gone past breast play and grinding through pants, but upon seeing me again she decided that she wanted to find out what she had missed by not getting it on in high school. So we had sex while she was engaged. I don't think her engagement was an open relationship, however, though I didn't ask.

As for the sore mouth, it's possible when giving oral to a woman too. It took me a while to learn how to give good oral without getting a tongue cramp -- and those are pretty unpleasant. I eventually figured it out, which is good, because I really like giving, and most women I've been with really like receiving. I still occasionally get a stiff neck or sore jaw (from opening my mouth wide) in certain positions, but I can usually resolve that by adjusting position. Having the woman on the edge of the bed, a sex cushion, etc. helps too.


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