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What. A. Buzzkill. :S
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What. A. Buzzkill. :S Right. So today started out pretty good. It started out with a plan. I would get all my work done in the morning, meet up a friend at the beach, hit the gym, then head home to do my laundry, cleaning, and even cook myself a meal. I got all scheduled work done by noon, then met up a friend on mine for lunch before we went to the beach. We haven't caught up in a few months so this was a good catch up. The beach was empty too, so that was a real bonus. We sat in the shade mostly but it was still good to be nude outdoors again. I'm also a little inspired to let the bush grow out...  I'm never gonna admit it to her but.... Heheh...full bush...kinda digging it for now. Anyhow. She was telling me about how she really likes being thrown onto the bed. Or anywhere soft I'm assuming, when she and her husband are having sex. It's the notion of danger...I guess, but also knowing you're not in real danger...? I suppose it's the helplessness too. And I kinda get it. I mean, I DO get it. I guess similarly, that's what I like in a group setting. Like it takes a LOT of trust to be focusing on a dick in front of me and just letting another person stick whatever it is he's ticking behind me. Right? I was also trying to explain to her how I kinda get confused on who's legs or hands it is when we're all together. I don't know if she got it but...anyway. So the mood was setting up to be one of those "watch porn and magic bunny" evenings, which was nice. Some me time is always good. We spent about two hours just lazing around and catching up before we got our asses to the gym Squeezed in a good 90-minute workout and was really feeling good and productive. And I don't know about you, but going into the gym with all those thoughts at the back of my head....and then getting a good workout, it really got me horny. I was literally already working myself up while cooling down on one of the bikes.  So it was all good, and then I had to check my phone. There was....quite a major fuck up at work and someone from my team had given me 6 missed calls. That Kinda started killing the mood already. I ignored it and rode home, figured I'd deal with it then. I get back, strip, throw all my clothes into the washing machine, and y phone rings. Apparently someone had fucked up and it kinda required me to call in for a meeting. My inbox was exploding. So in the last....lemme see, two and a half hours, I've been on the phone, pacing up and down trying to sort shit out. I was pacing so much it got cold and I had to throw on an over sized t-shirt. SO now I'm left with still trying to sort out this mess, setting my laundry to wash and no time to clean up or prep my own dinner. It's also safe to say magic<b> bunny </font></b>time....has to be pushed. Which also got me thinking...work, regardless of what it is (even pornstars, I'm guessing) as a notion, is a real buzzkill. It's the...frame of mind that you need to adopt for it...that....really kills the libido. Doesn't it? Anyone has other notions about this? Oh please do share... 
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Oh! More importantly, anyone here has a job that actually turns them on? This I really wanna know. As usual, thanks for reading!!
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Yeah, work is a Buzzkill........Big time. It's only good for building up frustration that you need to release by Spanking and Pounding someones Ass The only Job that turns me on is a Blow-Job 
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Work does tend to stifle urges but it pays enough bills to allow for free time to respond to things.
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3/27/2019 5:18 am |
Yep its called retirement that's my job lol..worked hard all my life and now its time for moi !!
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Well I was a lucky one I worked for a bus company when we where young and lonely and it was cold at night we invite the corner girl in to warm up. If I was feeling lonely i'ld call s fee GF and we have a long hard chat on phone. All work and no play makes for a bad day. Hope you got to relax with your bunny.
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3/27/2019 6:42 am |
Hello
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Yup
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I work as a data center engineer, and I remember one time I had set up a wonderful date for a woman I was seeing. We were all set to "seal the dirty deal" as we walked into her place, and then work called and informed me I had to come back into work (I was on-call that week and had no choice, I had to go in as ignoring a call out can cause a person to be fired). I went from being rock hard to limp as a wet noodle, rushing in to work, fixing the problem as fast as possible, then rushing back to her place only for her to have already buzzed herself silly with her toys and she had fallen asleep. And she was sore from all of the toys, pissed at me for going into work, and she kicking me out of her place, never wanting to see me again. Work can be a major fucking buzz kill and what's worse was my boss that next morning ripping me a new asshole because I was 'terse' with the customer. Needless to say, I got back on the job boards that day, and found another job. When I job interferes with a relationship, it's time to find a better job. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent 
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I'd say unless you work with some really Hot people, most works world be a complete buzz-kill!! 
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I've worked as a farmer and in IT - not the most "sexy" of vocations. Work also interfered with my "play time" on a few occasions. I was on-call one Saturday and had planned to go water-skiing with some members of the family, but got a call about 8am and asked (well, ordered more like) to join a conference call even though it wasn't even my area that was affected. I had to sit and listen to others blether on about stuff that didn't concern me for hours. I even got called back when I hung up to have a spot of lunch without disturbing anyone and told to get back in the conference call. A conference call where I contributed absolutely nothing as it wasn't my concern. What a complete waste of a day. Hope you get time to catch up with your friend and reverse the buzzkill.
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Yeah, work is a Buzzkill........Big time. It's only good for building up frustration that you need to release by Spanking and Pounding someones Ass The only Job that turns me on is a Blow-Job Good one
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Work does tend to stifle urges but it pays enough bills to allow for free time to respond to things. That's exactly it. Thanks for chipping in
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Yep its called retirement that's my job lol..worked hard all my life and now its time for moi !! Glad you're reaping the rewards.
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Well I was a lucky one I worked for a bus company when we where young and lonely and it was cold at night we invite the corner girl in to warm up. If I was feeling lonely i'ld call s fee GF and we have a long hard chat on phone. All work and no play makes for a bad day. Hope you got to relax with your bunny.
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I work as a data center engineer, and I remember one time I had set up a wonderful date for a woman I was seeing. We were all set to "seal the dirty deal" as we walked into her place, and then work called and informed me I had to come back into work (I was on-call that week and had no choice, I had to go in as ignoring a call out can cause a person to be fired). I went from being rock hard to limp as a wet noodle, rushing in to work, fixing the problem as fast as possible, then rushing back to her place only for her to have already buzzed herself silly with her toys and she had fallen asleep. And she was sore from all of the toys, pissed at me for going into work, and she kicking me out of her place, never wanting to see me again. Work can be a major fucking buzz kill and what's worse was my boss that next morning ripping me a new asshole because I was 'terse' with the customer. Needless to say, I got back on the job boards that day, and found another job. When I job interferes with a relationship, it's time to find a better job.
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I'd say unless you work with some really Hot people, most works world be a complete buzz-kill!!
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I've worked as a farmer and in IT - not the most "sexy" of vocations. Work also interfered with my "play time" on a few occasions. I was on-call one Saturday and had planned to go water-skiing with some members of the family, but got a call about 8am and asked (well, ordered more like) to join a conference call even though it wasn't even my area that was affected. I had to sit and listen to others blether on about stuff that didn't concern me for hours. I even got called back when I hung up to have a spot of lunch without disturbing anyone and told to get back in the conference call. A conference call where I contributed absolutely nothing as it wasn't my concern. What a complete waste of a day. Hope you get time to catch up with your friend and reverse the buzzkill. ) with my headset on. 2 hour calls and I'm chipping in for....15mins, maybe. What a waste of time indeed Thanks for popping by
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Self employed is the way to go but all employment has problems that must be dealt with. It appeared you enjoyed your friend bush on the beach, did you decide to let it grow out? Love to see it.
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For us it seems like the biggest buzz-kill is house work that needs to be done, as opposed to things that are easy to defer for later.
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