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Sexual favours - worth it? Has it ever worked out?
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Sexual favours - worth it? Has it ever worked out? I wanted to post about something else but I've been having a few blasts-from-the-past in the past week so let's run with that. The first one is downright irritating  Late last evening I was sitting at my dining table working on my laptop. My dining area is outside, meaning it's sheltered but there are no walls. (I don't know how else to explain it ) It gets a bit chilly and very windy here in the evenings so fortunately, as it turns out, I had on an oversized t-shirt. This was slightly after 9pm last night. I had the main lights off but had the light from the inside of the house on so I could see, plus the light from my laptop, but it was still dimly lit, which was the point. All of a sudden I hear voices, like ' voices behind the main door. I ignored it figuring it could be the neighbours, then all of a sudden, I see heads popping over the wall. A few of them climbed up to peep over the wall. That freaked first, then I got mad . I got up and screamed "HEY!!" expecting to scare them off, or find what the fuck was going on. I did not expect a female voice to reply. LOL. I switched on the lights outside and inside and asked over, and turns out it was my old neighbours.  They were our neighbours we had the first time we moved here years ago. It was just the mom, her 2 , and 2 of her ' friends. Her husband was not there last night. I was staying in a different area back then and she actually went round searching for , and found . And this while on holiday! LOL. So I HAD to invite them in. It was a bit awkward considering I only had a fucking t-shirt on. . Every time I thought I'd excuse myself to go put something else on we get distracted by one of the (who were all less than years old). They moved away years ago but decided to come back on a holiday and then decided to come for their old neighbour. How sweet right? But for fucks sake, the climbing over and peeping into other people's homes is a little....irritating. It would be creepy, but then they were fucking lil ones so....irritating :SAnyhoo. Over the weekend I also met up with two old friends of mine who had left the island but have since came back. We used to frequent the same and they'd lend their surfboards and teach to surf (I still can't ) and such. I always thought they were very to be living here (well, they still are They're in their early to mid 20s now) But anyways, we were talking about a few things and it kinda spurred into thinking about sexual favours. By definition, sexual favours would mean that you get something out of a sexual act. So by definition, I guess I can say I have done it. The first one was a complete dud. At the time, I didn't feel like it, but in hindsight, I got completely taken advantage of  . I had a fairly charming (ok...ok....I was completely swooned at the time ) teacher in and leading up to one of the holidays, after our final year exams, he kinda showed up a club that we said we'd be at. I ended up back in his hotel room (which was coincidentally close to the club ), we had sex, which was not fantastic if honest, and I got for it. Mofo actually offered . I didn't know how to react the time so I took it. Fuckin'ell. Ah well Second one was sleeping with the boss (okaaaay. This, admittedly, I've done one a few occasions. But this one I got something of it so....let's just count this one ) This was one of my earliest jobs. I got promoted as a result, and was clearly not equipped the time to handle the extra responsibilities. Needless to say, things started fucking up and wasn't long before I kinda had to cut ties with that place.Haha! Good times So anyhow, let's leave it at that for the moment. Gotta get back to work. Again, thanks for reading! 
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Now, do tell. Have you done any sexual favours? Has it ever worked out well? Have there been any that was unpleasant?
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I admit i have. The ' i scratch your back and you scratch mine.' I did this for a few reasons. 1 i had already been intinate with her several times and we always had fun but we both had a good understanding that we were not what the other wanted in a relationship. I have very big fear of STDs so im not the type to sleep witj someone unprotected that im unfamiliar with. I was very selective as was she. So we worled out a deal to where we had each other for sexual activities when needed. The circumstances were not always ideal but it worked. I have slept with a boss before but not for a promotion in which i did end up getting anyway. I did have a friend at one point offer me oral if i fixed her car for her. We had been intimate several times before but at this point its was like a year later and had hardly spoken since. I did agree to fix her car but told her i didnt want her to blow me for it. I didnt like the way that felt. Im not the type to buy sex or sexual activities so i agreed to do it as a friend doing another friend a favor. But the day after i fixed her car she said it was making a funny sound and asked me to drive it and see what i thought. I did. There was no noise to be heard. The car was like new. So she asked me to pull into a parking lot of a business that was closed down so i did tjinking i was going to look under the hood. That didnt happen. She began unzipping my pants and doing her thing so i let her. Just like old times i thought. But after on the way to take me back to my truck she said thank you so mich for fixing my car it hasnt ran like this since i bought it. I honestly felt like a piece of shit for completelly misreading the situation. But the worst i would say was being blackmailed into it. Not by her though. That was terrible. Sorry for the long comment
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Sadly cannot say i did any sexual favors, but love your post
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Nope, never done any sexual favours. Never been in a position at work where that would kind of present itself and I'm not sure I'd even pursue it if it did - they say don't mix business with pleasure as it never ends well.
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Some women have asked me for a sexual favor, I've never yet said "No", but really though, when a woman asks for a sexual favor, isn't she really just saying , "I need some sex, come here and do me". When a woman wants a sexual favor, I can't see how a man could possibly lose in that situation. Still a yes or no, deal. Odd though, when a male asks for a sexual favor from a woman, people sometimes leap to , "Oooo he's soliciting a prostitute". Really? When a woman asks for [solicits] a sexual favor from a man, people sometimes leap to, "You lucky dog". Maybe prostitution should be legal. Some poor soul needs a sexual favor. Still a yes or no , deal.
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It’s only a benefit that works at that time. One wants the other needs it, meaning one wants sex the other needs the benefit. So no it’ll never work in the end. Who knows when he/she will be asked for another favor, will he or she do it?
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10/15/2019 3:49 am |
Can't relate at the moment, although I do have a recently divorced boss so you never know ; - ) Thanks for the post.
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Never went through that.
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Can't think of any sexual favors I've done, but always enjoy your posts.
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10/15/2019 6:36 am |
They have n they always almost work majority of the time
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Firstly....Lucky it was a chilly (26 degC ?) night in Bali, else they would have got a real surprise popping their heads over your wall LOL Sexual Favours?....I can't think of an occasion when i've ever given, or been given, anything directly in exchange for a sexual favour, apart from the need for some ladies in Asia to ask for "Taxi Money" or "Shopping Money". However, there was one occasion whereby a Sexual act brought about the Squaring of the Ledger of a past Infidelity. Some years ago, back in the late 80s, some friends got together to celebrate the birthday of one of our group. She was a very good looking and Busty Girl who had married another one of my ex-colleagues and very good friend. She was pissed-off that he had gone off on an overseas business trip that week and later, when most had crashed at the house some of us stayed, she asked if I had more wine and suggested we retire so as not to disturb the others. It wasn't long before she was on top of me, tongue down my throat and tugging on my belt. I couldn't wait to get her huge breasts out (as her hubby often boasted about them) and we ravaged each other all night. I moved to the couch before the others woke, claiming i'd been chivalrous and afforded her my bed as, in a manner of speaking I did >>! Fast forward to the early 2000s, I was now married myself and my friend had sadly passed away. Having moved to another city and me overseas, I didn't attend the funeral. When I had a chance to make a business trip to that city I of course paid a visit to the Widow, who lived with their daughter. We went out for dinner at a family friendly restaurant and then back at the house the young daughter went to bed, being a school night. Without discussion a bottle was opened and after a few drinks and some reminiscing, she straddled me on the couch and pulled her top off. She was bigger and heavier now, but her Breasts were still magnificent, as were her BJ skills. We alighted to the bedroom and we continued in a frenzy of Oral and Genital Fucking until the early hours. This time I found myself on the couch again in the early hours, but for the daughters benefit, not our friends. The next night we met again alone, but she informed me....."We can't Fuck again tonight like we did last night, I don't want to be the other woman".....thereby leaving it such that her previous infidelity to her husband was matched equally by mine this time. Sorry for such a long post............hope you didn't nod off
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10/15/2019 7:48 am |
I haven’t done any.
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Sexual favors are nothing new, however, simply proposing one to the wrong person could get you a slap or in some serious legal shit. You have accepted a few, Im more curious to know have you ever offered one. 
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Does it count when favor is offered after the sex? When I was in my 20s, I was at a party at a convention. I had a room in a cheap hotel rather than the expensive convention hotel. But during the party, a woman bought me enough drinks that I was unfit to drive, so she and her roommate (who was the one I was actually interested in) let me stay in her room. But the floor was cold, and there weren't enough spare blankets, so when she invited me to the bed I accepted. The roommate and her overnight guest were kissing noisily, which got me worked up enough that I decided to go for it with the woman I hadn't really been interested in. Twice, and then again in the morning. During goodbyes, she gave me some cash, without really saying that it was a "thanks for the sex", though it presumably was. Although the sex itself wasn't all that hot, being watched by the roommate and her guy definitely was.
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