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Taking responsibility for your sexual satisfaction
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Taking responsibility for your sexual satisfaction Often I hear on here that women are GREATLY unsatisfied when it comes to sex and everything that connects to sex. I know sex isnt just sex for women. They have a connection with stress, emotion, attraction...all that. SOME of men do too.. but we wont focus on that now. I think there is a small amount out there who feel self conscious about their sexual QUIRKS. I think you need to EMBRACE your sexual quirks, your fetishes, your desires. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN SEXUAL SATISFACTION. If You like gangbangs FISTING CANDLEWAX ON THE NIPPLES SEX IN THE DARK SEX IN PUBLIC SPANKINGS BDSM BUKKAKE YOU'RE A SQUIRTER NON PENETRATION ORGASMS ROLE PLAY WEAR OUTFITS Embrace it. Own it. Find others who, like you, think outside the box. Being in a relationship, or a sexual friendship where the sex is Lousy is partially your fault if you choose to remain silent in your wants.. or choose not to learn or educate them on something that interests YOU. There will be some who WON'T want to hear those things, or not be open to change. Will you be ultimately satisfied in this arrangement? PERSONALLY i have no problem having "The Convo" where we talk in depth about what we like, and don't like. I WANT you to know what works, and I want to know what works for YOU. That's just how i operate. I remember talking with a woman who contacted me and pretty much DIDN'T read my profile, and proceeded to tell me how we would be a good match to meet. Her profile didn't have anything substantial on it.With the "Discussion", i learned she was NOT into different positions, or lingerie, OR<b> high heels. </font></b>Basically she was a Pillow Princess and had NO problem voicing what she wanted. I''ll admitt- I ignored the signs during the 2-3 times we got together where it was me fulfilling her needs and mine weren't even an after thought. But I grinned and bared it. To say I was NOT content is an UNDERSTATEMENT, and i later ended things. Took me a while to figure out how tiring it gets doing for others and not getting anything in return. I will work through a few moments of awkwardness now, so we can be better prepared in the future. But not everyone chooses to do that upfront... Isnt that a shame? [SIZE4]{LAW and Order Fade to Black} ~Linc was here.~ |
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