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Are You Kinky?  

akawarmwetone 64F
336 posts
10/5/2008 9:24 pm

Last Read:
5/4/2009 7:22 pm

Are You Kinky?


I was reading a fellow bloggers blog and he stated,

“I've come to the conclusion that there is just no way for me to enjoy just plain old, 'vanilla' sex anymore. I can't do it. I guess I've become so jaded or something, that just plain vanilla sex doesn't really do much for me. I've GOT to have something out of the ordinary going on. Some kind of kink or out of the normal or even weird incorporated in or else I'm just not satisfied.” Sexy is using a feather, kinky is using the whole duck

That got me thinking about KINK ‒ Yes, smoke was coming out of my ears as the wheels of my mind were set into motion…lol. Anyway, what exactly does kinky mean?

Well, according to the free encyclopedia, kink is a term used to refer to a broad range of sexual practices (sometimes referred to as "kinky") such as spanking, bondage, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism (BDSM). Kink sexual practices transgress what are considered "normal" sexual boundaries as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well.

For that exactly that reason - the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely, when I am asked if I’m kinky, I never know quite how to respond. By my understanding of the word, I consider myself kinky and respond yes to the question. Of course, the next question is, “how kinky are you” or “tell me about your experiences.”

The following thought often crosses my mind ‒ Don’t you want to be surprised. Ok, when it comes to sex, most people like surprises but don’t want to too big of a surprise. For example, being submissive and finding out the other person is also submissive. Two dominants can have a good time but not 2 subs. Wanting to avoid such a mismatch, though I feel like I’m on an interview, I truthfully answer the questions. I prefer to talk in general terms about my sexual habits and preferences.

Looking at the BDSM category (only a snapshot of sexual practices), on a scale of 1 ‒ 5, I rate as follows: 1) spanking ‒ 3.5; 2) bondage ‒ 5; 3) dominance and submission ‒ 5; and 4) sadomasochism ‒ 3.

Spanking ‒ I show the “doubting Tom” a picture which usually provides the response, Damn that looks like it hurt. Lolol. There is a point where pain is pleasure and pleasure is pain. Not everyone understands that sensation.

Bondage ‒ I produce more pictures. (Thanks to my voyeur friends with digital cameras…lol).

Dominance and submission ‒ By this point, I feel like asking, Shall I give the names and telephone numbers of some of the previous Dominants in my life…ROFL!

Sadomasochism ‒ If the person is still asking questions, I just shake my head.

The Fetish Checklist on alt.com listed over 80 activities (see below) - So many practices and so little time…lol.

24/7 (Total Power Exchange)
Age Play
Anal Sex
Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play)
Ass Play
Biting
Blindfolds
Blood
Body Hair
Bondage
Branding
Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.
Bukkake
Candle Wax
Chains
Chastity Devices
Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads
Cling Film
Clown
Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.
Collar and Lead/Leash
Confinement/Caging
Coprophilia (Shit Play)/Scat
Cross Dressing
Cuckold
Cupping (Suction of the Skin)
Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)
Defilement, seeing a partner dirty or wet
Denim
Depilation/Shaving
Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)
Discipline
Doctor/Nurse Fetish
Domination
Ears
ElectroTorture (EMS TENS units)
Exhibitionism/Sex In Public
Feathers
Fire Play
Fisting
Food Play
Gangbangs
Hair Pulling
Handcuffs/Shackles
High Heels
Humiliation
Infantilism/Diapers
Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema)
Knife/Needle Play
Lace/Lingerie
Lactation
Latex
Leather
Making Home "Movies"
Masks
Masochism
Massage
Master/Slave
Masturbation
Mutual Masturbation
Nipples
Oral Fixation
Oral Sex
Pain
Pantyhose/Stockings
Participating in Erotic Photography
Piercings
Pinching
Play Piercing
Podophilia (Foot Fetish)
Pony Play
Power Exchange
The Rack/Medieval Devices
Religious (Nunplay, Priestplay)
Retifism (Shoes or Boots)
Rimming
Role Playing
Rubber
Sadism
Scent
Sensory Deprivation
Sex During Menstruation
Spanking/Paddling
Talking Dirty
Tickling
Tongue Fetish
Toys
Transvestism
Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine)
Vibrators
Voyeurism
Whips

My question is, WHICH ONE(S) ARE YOUR FAVORITE(S)?

Have a kinky day!

AKA{=}

AKA


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10/5/2008 10:00 pm

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tazzerman2000 66M
18912 posts
10/7/2008 2:38 pm

I will try just about anything that doesn't involved urine/poop or blood. Beyond that, I'm like you: Surprise me baby! -tm

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rm_indydirtydog 53M
700 posts
10/8/2008 8:13 pm

Kinky yes, I have done more than I ever thought I would, but if the time is right and turns your partner on....well there is not much that I would turn down. There is still so many good things to try.

Let me add one note - a very clean partner.

Women Women everywhere and not a pussy to eat......


rm_varre61 62M

10/10/2008 11:40 pm

I recommend a little "light" reading: Different Loving, by Gloria Brame. Google Gloria Brame


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