Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Forgot password?
Blogs > rm_Got42DDD > Got42DDD's Blog WHY am I HERE?

Why am I here?  

rm_Got42DDD 57F
90 posts
8/1/2006 12:26 am

Last Read:
2/10/2013 5:41 pm
Why am I here?

My ultimate goal was to find a person, who was open minded and sexual, for a long term relationship. Many people have told me that Passion is not the place to find a relationship. I was attracted to Passion because it advertised "Sexy personals for passionate singles" which is what I was looking for. Not knowing it is the same site as FriendFinder-x which is a hook up swinger site.

Maybe match is a better place to find love, but there are certain things I am into that I can't put on a match profile. Such as... Strapons, threesomes(mmf), swinging as a couple etc...

Hook ups are not a problem for me - it is finding a partner who wants to do things together inside and outside the bedroom. Something with a future.

I don't understand some men on this site. No one seems to want a relationship. Seems like they are content with jerking off at home by themselves rather than date someone.

I have enough friends and booty calls I could make if I wanted that. It is love that I am seeking.

Hope I explained why I am on here.

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD


rm_lickdpussy 63M
1 post
5/28/2010 10:17 am

 You have a guy on here thats jerking off at home, looking for woman
and coming up empty. Yes I tried adult friend finders but to see what type pf person is out there. I believe that you can go out to a pup and have a great time with someone and then take her home ,kiss her goodnite and go to bed. Thats what I want. She has to be smart. Someone to talk to. Dont give up on the world, there are a lot of nice guys out there.

John


wecan1965 58M/57F

7/20/2008 9:17 am

 hey! i met my significant other on a dating site, and we don't look back, sex is great and now we swing with others, we look forward to the next meet and greet. all though it took a while to for us to open up about what we wanted, but once it did, BOY! i am one lucky fellow! and she is one lucky gal!


rm_Got42DDD replies on 7/22/2008 11:12 am:
Another success story - I am going to wait also!

BadAngelCpl 52M/51F
11 posts
7/9/2007 10:13 am

 I met my husband on FriendFinder-x and we are now happily married with kids. So it is indeed possible to find love on here. I have also met many great friends on here which is just as important. Stick to your guns and you will find what you are looking for, along with some fun along the way I am sure .

What I like best about meeting people on FriendFinder-x is they are open minded. Since me and hubby met on here, we know we are both open minded to new ideas. Who wants a stick in the mud that they found on Match or Harmony? They might work for straight and narrow type of people or for relationships with no sexual zest....but I was looking for a complete package.

As long as you are honest and upfront, which you are, with what you are looking for then GOOD LUCK ON FriendFinder-x....it is possible to find true love.

Beth


rm_Got42DDD replies on 7/10/2007 12:37 pm:
YEAH!!! Finally I hear a success story about this site. Most women have had only bad experiences with the men from here. I am so glad you did find your true love. Hopefully I will one day be as lucky as you two are. Thanks for stopping in and raising my spirits today

rm_ironmantee65 58M

6/19/2007 10:01 am

 Not Spam,btw,just to be clear,lol.. Yea,most the guys are right about here,as or meeting that someone,I have known more than a dozen couples who've met on Bookof matches & married in the last 2 years.


rm_Got42DDD replies on 6/21/2007 7:29 pm:
Are you getting a commission for promoting the other site LOL Just kidding. I don't know if that other site is just a dating site, and I don't know if they allow all of the sexual stuff on there - but it seems to me that because I am on this site as a sexual woman, I am expected to sleep with just anyone. If the guys on this site would try to understand how a woman thinks, they would get laid more often LOL !!!!! Thanks for stopping in!

rm_ironmantee65 58M

6/19/2007 9:59 am

 Do you have a bookofmatches profile? I'd swear I saw you there. Well theres a very similar looking woman whos from the Island on there..


rm_Got42DDD replies on 6/21/2007 7:25 pm:
No that is not me - because I have never heard about that site - but I would be interested in seeing who this look a like is. Maybe her and I could double date LOL

rm_Got42DDD 57F
159 posts
4/1/2007 11:26 am
    Quoting  :
Well actually - I tried to get a more purple color - because one of mine is purple! LOL

I made those blings in the beginning, I am better with colors now.
Happy Hunting, Got42DDD


nycsnapper126 57M

3/23/2007 5:13 pm

 If you are seeking love, FriendFinder-x definitely isn't the site for you. I hope that you find what you are looking for. I have been there a few times and it is magic when it happens.


rm_Got42DDD 57F
159 posts
11/30/2006 5:39 pm

 am0r0us It is true, I joined Passion.com - you can go there and log in with your FriendFinder-x username/password and wa-la, same site. So you see my confusion in the beginning when men where emailing me about swinging. LOL
Happy Hunting, Got42DDD


am0r0us 53M
Ask me for a photo
46 posts
11/29/2006 11:50 pm

 didn't know that FriendFinder-x and passion were the same site.
it may be more rewarding if seeking lust here, not love.

good luck to you!

a


rm_Got42DDD 57F
159 posts
11/3/2006 6:22 pm

 This is the best way to describe why I feel like I do when it comes to a "no strings" thing.

If I have all "fun" buddies, then my kitty is full but my life is empty.
Happy Hunting, Got42DDD


rm_Got42DDD 57F
159 posts
9/15/2006 7:04 pm

 YOU are completely right Girlfriend! I knew we thought alike.
Happy Hunting, Got42DDD


SEXYnFLEXY60 38F
Ask me for a photo

9/14/2006 5:56 pm

 Got42DDD, my friend... You say you want a relationship, and that would be great, I feel similarly. But what I found here is men saying they are willing to find a relationship but all they want is sex. Quick no strings sex would be fine, if they took a moment to know us, as sex gets better when the two players learn about each other; but what they say and what they really want is to just find a live body to spill their dribble into, not a mutual partner. Sometimes, NICE people end up here by chance, and that total HONESTY they claim in their profile has nothing truthful with the exception of one thing or two unimportant items, therefore most of it a figment of their hallucinogenic imagination. At least they have imagination! As for you and me, I know WE are real, and we both want similar things. Its the men that cannot live up to our standards. So guys, if you want a hole to drip into, dont use us, find a blow up doll, she will serve the same purpose and is hassle free. Love Ya Girlfriend... Im4Real!!!!


NiceManners 62M

9/4/2006 8:49 am

 What a NICE LADY, beautiful , sweet and HONEST. I look forward to meeeting and seeing IF FriendFinder-x can actually introduce two NICE people to each other and .............Another "deal" from your "favorite Wall Street Guy. You are a truly Sweet Lady and I appreiciate that , more than you know


rm_Got42DDD 57F
159 posts
8/7/2006 4:47 pm

 Well some men on this site (some of the one's I have come in contact with) expect that a woman would meet them in a hotel and have the wildest sex ever before exchanging names. Now if you think about it, how many times has that happened in your lifetime when meeting someone in a bar or club?

EXACTLY, none or very very few... why should the internet women be any different?

I guess the point I am trying to make is: Be honest about what you are looking for upfront. (I am totally honest and if someone is looking for something different, I do not meet them - why waste eachother's time)
Happy Hunting, Got42DDD


Become a member to create a blog