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Squirting Okay, with permission I have posted this from CindyLou2008. It is a post on female ejaculation. Squirting. My experience with this was one of total embarrassment as the man I was with accussed me of pissing on him. I KNOW I didn't pee. And to this day I have yet to repeat this. I always tense up and the 'moment' passes me by. WELL< after reading this.. watch out.. will be trying to repeat this again  .. My Personal Experience The first blog post I ever did was about my first experience squirting. For the longest time I believed that squirting was an urban legend. I thought the porn stars were somehow rigged with a clear hose...I thought it was fake. I was shocked the first time it happened. I squirted all over J's tummy and thighs...the bed was soaked clear down to the mattress. It was the most intense orgasm I recalled having. I freaked out thinking that I had peed on him. I bawled my eyes out thinking that I was developing an incontinence issue. I made an appointment with my ob/gyn. I called my mother in tears and told her what had happened. She laughed at me and told me that I had a female ejaculation. She shared her experience with me and said that the same thing happened to her in her early 30's. I kept my appointment with my doctor because I was not convinced that what I had experienced was normal. He explained a part of my anatomy, that I never knew existed. He told me that based on studies, only a small percentage of women could have female ejaculations. I was concerned because it wasn't just squirting...it was more like gushing. He gave me a few links to credible websites that further explained what was going on with me. Over the years there has been quite a bit of research on this subject. If your mom is a squirter, you more likely to be one. Give Me a Fucking Break **At least once per week I run across a man's blog where he claims that he has "The Secret" to making women squirt, which I find most amusing and ignorant. It's like a cheesy infomercial. They always include detailed instructions in regards to the g-spot. I can squirt using a silver bullet without ever touching my g-spot. The clitoris probably holds the key to female ejaculation for most women, according to Sexologists (not dudes on a sex site). If the clitoris is not stimulated a woman is less likely to become highly aroused. If she is not highly aroused her prostate may not fill with increased amounts of fluid. If her prostate is not swollen she may not have a G-Spot. If her clitoris is not stimulated she is less likely to experience orgasm and the rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles that expel and release the ejaculate. So quite simply before you can go exploring for the G-Spot you must master clitoral stimulation beforehand. There are women who are orgasmic and ejaculate when their G-Spot or vagina alone is stimulated but the majority need direct clitoral stimulation if they are to experience orgasm. Squirting has nothing to do with HOW an orgasm is reached, but rather what she decides to do when she reaches that point. Let me tell you men something, a woman that can squirt, can do it without you even being present. I have been doing it while masturbating for a few years now. You guys ought to know by now that all women are wired a bit differently. What makes one woman scream, may put another to sleep. Men who brag about knowing the secret to squirting need to remove their false advertisement and educate themselves...because only women can make themselves squirt. You can only contribute to the events leading up to an orgasm.** Can You Teach a Woman to Squirt? **You can teach a woman THAT ALREADY HAS THE ABILITY...how to squirt and how to control it as well. Not all women can. First you need to be hydrated. Every woman is wired differently, so whatever works for you to reach the point of climaxing...there is no specific way...we are all different. Ladies, you know how it feels right before you climax...you start to tense up. You know that tingly feeling you get...almost like you need to pee? Normally we flex our kegal muscles out of habit. If you don't tense up and bear down instead...leaning into it...you will squirt, if you have the ability to. The nice thing about it is that you can choose whether you want to squirt or not. You can hold it, to avoid making a mess, or you can let go. It is not at all abnormal to ejaculate well over a liter or more. The first month that I discovered my "talent" I created enormous wet spots...generating more laundry than I really cared to do. It's different every time, it seems. The amount that you ejaculate is in direct proportion to how hydrated you are. Sometimes I squirt a little and other times I am the volunteer fire department. At times I have came so hard I've squirted across the room, and other times simply gushed. That's one reason why I like sex in the shower...easy clean up!! I have became dehydrated from squirting...leg cramps, so it's important to drink lots of water afterwards. The female prostate fills up at a rapid rate, so if you are multi-orgasmic like I am...you're gonna make a big mess sister!** Female Ejaculate 101 Some people confuse female ejaculatory with urine because it is expelled from the URETHRA, not your uterus. (So no guys, you didn't make her pussy squirt, sorry) Where does female ejaculate come from? The Skene's gland, which is located on the upper wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra, and is said to also be the biological mechanism behind G-spot orgasms. It drains near the<b> urethral opening. </font></b>How does one locate the female prostate? Quite simply, you locate the urethra, as the female prostate is located within the wall of the urethra. The urethral meatus, or orifice, is located directly above the vaginal opening, below the clitoris. You can see it with your bare eyes, though it can be hard to locate in some women. The urethra extends back from the urethral meatus into the body along the front or upper wall of the vagina for 1.5 to 2 inches. While you can see the urethral orifice you cannot see the female prostate gland, though it may bulge visibly out into the vestibule and/or vagina. The female prostate has two primary functions. The first is produce and store prostatic fluid in ducts, which is the function of an exocrine gland. The numerous ducts of the prostate drain into the urethra. The second function is the releasing of hormones into the blood stream, as a result of stimulation by the nervous system; a process performed by neuroendocrine cells. The only hormone known to be produced by the female prostate in this way, as of the year 2000, was serotonin. Serotonin plays an active role in many functions of the body. The female prostate is thought to be influenced by estrogens, as the male prostate is influenced by androgens, but the male prostate is also influenced by DHEA, a precusor to both estrogens and androgens. PAP has been found on the underwear of women when it has been in constant contact with the vulva indicating the prostate is always producing prostatic fluid, and this fluid production begins with the onset of puberty. What a female eats contributes to how her cum tastes, much like a man's. There has been a bit of backlash and controversy. In their book, "Human Sexuality" (a must read), Masters and Johnson assert that Perry and Whipple overstated their case and that only around 10% of women have sensitive g-spots. "At this point, we simply need to acknowledge the existence of this organ and that it plays a role in the normal functioning of the female body; it isn't a figment of any one's imagination." CindyLou2008   T          |
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The wife recently discovered that she is one of the lucky ones who can. It happens rarely enough, some of it is on her end, to relax and allow it to happen, and most on my end, to have the patience to help the process! But oh god, when it does... its more intense for her, for me, its just all around awesome!!
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I thought Cindy did a great job with this post. I'm glad she's allowing others to spread the word on her heels. Good job!
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Your to good for him it is a true gift for a woman to feel free enough to express her excitement. So any women stop themselves short of ejaculation for fear of embarrassment thus not for-filling there true climax leaving them filling unsatisfied. He is just to immature to truly understand a woman.
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