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There's one in every crowd...  

rm_bonogirl1 56F
4688 posts
3/5/2008 12:51 am

Last Read:
3/24/2008 8:02 pm

There's one in every crowd...

Soooo...i debated on even writing this post,but the asshole just pissed me off so bad that i think
im going to post his whole email...in a lil.First
i wanted to say-i do get a lot of email...thats not bragging,most women on here do.And i really do
try to at least write a short note back and tell
whomever it is that im NOT interested in meeting.
If i have a dick pic-well,those i dont reply to at
all.This site-you see one,youve seen them all.So
anyways im online yesterday AM and i had just got
done blogging and saw that i had an email.Dummy
that i am,i read it.This is a lil long and if you
dont wanna read it you dont have to,ok?Im just so
pissed that he assumed so much about me when he
knows jackshit about me.

"U will never ever meet anyone like me. I didn't read anything in your profile about anything you like to do. Here is a link about part of a trip I took last summer."(He leaves a link that i didnt
care to check out).
Your photos are beautiful but profile is beating me with a whip.
Larry (aka Rocketman aka Santa)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
THIS is my reply...tell me if i fucked up...lol

hi,,
well,yea im a real person...in fact i thought
i had my profile filled out pretty well...lol.I
didnt give a lot of personal details because ive
been major burnt online.In fact i should probably
just delete or hide my profile since im not planning on meeting anyone.I admit i was when i
first joined, but a few months later i met my Bf
and well,im really only here for the blogs,i dont
chat too much but when i do its in the Philly room.
Thanks for the compliments on my pics..that was
nice of you to say.

Your profile-you seem like a decent,nice guy,but
the married part would stop me if i were looking.
Im not going to be nosy and ask why your wife is
in prison,but i think if i were you,i wouldnt have
that in my profile maybe.Im not being mean here--
its just that a lot of women might see that and wonder WTH?..ya know?

Thank you for the email hon...and i hope that you
find what youre looking for..
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

And HIS reply to that...
"I appreciate the decant reply. My wife is a 50 year lady who never had a parking ticket. She hit a guy on a bicycle at 11:30 pm last feb 11 in 10 degree weather and killed him. The nazis say somebody must pay.

I believe in honesty. So I don't think I should hide a major event in my life like you do. People can either be interest in the real me or not.

You don't want to reveal much of yourself because you don't want to be honest.

I don't care who you have met. U can still gain from knowing me.

At least we are up at the same time.

Did you see my pics?"
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Why i even bothered to reply again i have no idea
because it didnt get any better....

MY REPLY:

im not sure that you took what i wrote to you the
> right way.I wasn't being mean to you...
>
> About the honesty however...you have no idea of
> what you are talking about when you say that I
> have something to hide.I dont have anything to
> hide.Im not meeting anyone because i was burnt
> from here by thinking someone was HONEST and he
> turned out to be a total fake and an idiot to
> boot and it takes a lot to get me to get pissed
> off.I DIDNT reveal his name because he's not here
> anymore and what would that point be?
>
> And i didn't recommend NEVER telling a woman that
> you might meet that your wife was in jail...i was
> just saying that i wouldn't personally put that in
> a profile.
>
>
> "(You don't want to reveal much of yourself because you don't want to be honest.)"
>
> "(I don't care who you have met. U can still gain from knowing me.)"
>
>
> These two points i take issue with.Like i said i
> dont reveal everything about me because im not
> interested in meeting anyone.Not because im trying
> to hide something.If i were meeting someone then
> maybe i would reveal a lil more,but like i said it
> has nothing to do with honesty.
>
> And the second point-Im NOT meeting ANYONE.Whether
> you dont care that i was burnt,that's no biggie-you
> dont know me,nor i you.But i fail to see what i
> COULD gain by knowing you...again...i have a BF
> and i have several real life male friends...i dont
> think im missing out,especially when you attack me and my
> profile and assume things that you have NO idea of.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

This was his last email and the one that really
infuriated me.....

"WHO the hell is BONO and why should he be such a
strong part of your life?"

""U are oviously still only interested in yourself. I'm not looking for just one women. I'm looking to expand my horizons.And meeting a woman
in April also.

As for music, I was a professional musician for six years. Put myself thru college, had a baby and a wife. Support playing three nights a week. So you can listen. It's so easy to listen but can you play?

Your little experience may me meaningful to you but in the big scheme of things they are just small.""
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
My final reply...

If you are planning on meeting this woman in April
> why are you emailing other women?Did you really
> even READ my profile?Somehow i dont think that you
> did or you would see my preferences on age,locale
> etc,etc.WHEN i was looking--and it says this in my
> profile---i was looking for someone near my age..
> near my location....with long hair and a huge huge
> interest in music.I wasn't looking for someone who
> could do things for me...a<b> sugar daddy </font></b>or a fuck
buddy,and God youre older than my dad.
> And its my right to have these preferences..
thats why the questions are there.I didnt come to
your profile and blast you for you looking for a
certain something.

> Bono....is the singer of the band U2---and while this will sound stupid to you..its totally HONEST.
> When my uncle Bob died 20 years ago..i started to
> listen to U2,and the spiritualness of Bono and U2's songs meant something to me and helped me in
> a big way when i was hurting.Bob died the day before my birthday and it about killed me.THAT is
> honesty and THATS why i care about Bono...

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Man....he just pissed me off,attacking me for no
friggin reason.I shy away from the drama here all
the time,i dont wanna be a part of it.I DIDNT name
his handle because then he'd start shit and hell he might see this blog anyways,but Jesus...its the
attitude of men like him that give soooooo many
guys here a hard time,because most of us women get
these emails everyday or at least several times a
week.And i did change some of my profile a few wks
ago,saying that i wasnt meeting anyone.Why send me
an email saying im missing out?I dont get it..

And i was just thinking about the pics on my profile,which wasnt the problem here because he
wasnt sexual in his emails....but my pics are all
except one, of my face.And even the boobie pic isnt all that revealing...hehe...i hate to think
what kind of shit he'd said if i had a nakey pic
up.

God i gotta change the subject like now!!.....

My PC is messed up,so im on the laptop again....
i really hate to think about buying a new computer
again.Its older,i think ive had it for 3 or 4 years now,and it really hasnt given me a lot of
trouble...but right now,it wont stay on.I dont mean that it wont stay connected--it wont stay on
period.It will come on and before the windows screen comes on,it clicks right back off.I dont know what the hell the trouble is....like i said i
have had it for awhile but i really dont want to
buy a new one....but i dont wanna put money into
this one if its gonna cost a shitload to fix..lol
So if any of y'all know what im talking about or
about computers in general(cause im just dumb that
way)maybe you can tell me what to do....

God,i had a hard time concentrating on the New
Amsterdam show..hehe.I was looking forward to it
for awhile now,and while it was a lil hard to get
into...i swear i couldnt stop looking at HIM long
enough to pay attention to the storyline..lol.And
he's sooo not my type but something about him just
is WOW!!...

Ive been a bad commenter lately.Havent made it to
all your blogs yet...and i really gotta do that.I
hate gettin behind because then it takes forever
to get caught up...

And i need to figure the Shenanigans out...even
though i havent a chance in hell of getting it..lol.

Im just feeling in a bitchy mood...and even the Bf
just pissed me off.Pretty badly yet...and dammmmit
i hate getting mad at him cause im the one that
finds it hard to forgive and forget(cant do either)his attitude when i called him a lil while
ago was like 'why the hell are you calling me?'
dont know where that came from...lol...so i let him have it....he got pissed off cause i let my
grandmother use my other cell phone during the week.Like i really need 2,when i hate talking on
the phone anyways.He said that he called THAT one
and he just was a dick.Sometimes i wonder....lol

He did say something funny over the weekend...we
were alternating CDs to listen to,so when it was
my turn i wanted to hear a lil Pearl Jam...and he
just turned to me and said..what the hell did he
just say,i cant make out a word of it...lol.And
that made me think of the PJ videos that i watched
on youtube,where they made fun of some PJ songs
because they couldnt understand the words either.
I knew cause ive been a fan for a long time...but
it was just funny.Doesnt sound funny here as im
writing this,but it was.

And im thinking that this has got to be in the top
3 of my worst posts.I should just go back and do a
reposting of a few til i get something in my head
to blog about.

I need to a blog...but i cant in this post...
on the laptop i dont have the right stuff to do it
the right way...lol.

Methinks im gonna go and get to a blog or ten til
its time to get the kiddo up...im sure that ive
put some of ya'll to sleep already...hehe

Sorry bout the long ass rant about the emailer ass
but i had to get it off my chest...

As always...ya know i love ya...


She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 1:37 am

    Quoting  :

omg...hehe..i know...i should probably delete this
damn post,but he just pissed me off so bad.
Thanks hon..

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


__Maria__ 58F
8252 posts
3/5/2008 2:38 am

that fella reads like a player, he changes too much. How will anyone know what he wrote in his profile is real? One has a privacy right, one should not disclose everything about one on the net, that sure ain't good. Even meeting a person face to face doesn't proves you he or she is still faking.

I get many of those emails too, i just delete them and block, if they cross the line I report them.



~~~*I* only blog for entertainment and for practicing my Inglés~~~


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 2:53 am

    Quoting __Maria__:
    that fella reads like a player, he changes too much. How will anyone know what he wrote in his profile is real? One has a privacy right, one should not disclose everything about one on the net, that sure ain't good. Even meeting a person face to face doesn't proves you he or she is still faking.

    I get many of those emails too, i just delete them and block, if they cross the line I report them.
hi sweetie..
i know...and i made the mistake of
even replying in the first place.I thought that
my reply wasnt bad-but it just progressed from
there...ive had to block a few too...
thanks hon..

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


cableguy20042 53M  
8823 posts
3/5/2008 6:45 am

Amazing!! Some guys don't use the gray matter between their ears to think. It makes men, in general, look bad. I read your profile & others that clearly state "I'm not meeting anyone" & respect that. It's ignorant to try to force an issue with someone who's not interested. I wonder how many other ladies he's contacted?
I think you handled him well. I hope he gets the message.
Sorry to hear about your PC. I know enough about computers to be dangerous. I've never heard of that sorta problem, though. You could try shutting it down & unplugging it awhile to see IF that straightens things out.


rm_metalmama69 49F
3878 posts
3/5/2008 10:35 am

It really bugs me when they don't read the profile. Or send out obvious mass e-mails to who knows how many women. It just tells me that if they can't take the time to actually read the words on my profile then there is no way they could take any time in real life to really get to know me. It does not make for a good first impression


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 1:14 pm

    Quoting  :

hi sweetie..
hehe,dumb as i am...i did fix it myself...but thanks
for the info in case i need help,cause i usually do...lol.Ill be
by your blog later,havent been able to blog comment in forever.Hope
things are well with you sweetness...

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 1:17 pm

    Quoting rm_metalmama69:
    It really bugs me when they don't read the profile. Or send out obvious mass e-mails to who knows how many women. It just tells me that if they can't take the time to actually read the words on my profile then there is no way they could take any time in real life to really get to know me. It does not make for a good first impression
hi sexy...
thats very true.And i know that sometimes people
cant read other profiles due to being a standard and all-
but apparently he was able to see it,just didnt READ it.
Im usually not surprised anymore,but damn he pissed me off.
thanks babe..

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 1:20 pm

    Quoting  :

hi babe...
aw man,how the hell did you figure that out?
I thought that i hid it pretty well...lol.
You can duck the punch,but i have something else
for ya...hehe

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 1:22 pm

    Quoting cableguy20042:
    Amazing!! Some guys don't use the gray matter between their ears to think. It makes men, in general, look bad. I read your profile & others that clearly state "I'm not meeting anyone" & respect that. It's ignorant to try to force an issue with someone who's not interested. I wonder how many other ladies he's contacted?
    I think you handled him well. I hope he gets the message.
    Sorry to hear about your PC. I know enough about computers to be dangerous. I've never heard of that sorta problem, though. You could try shutting it down & unplugging it awhile to see IF that straightens things out.
hi babe,,
it does make other guys look bad,and if i were looking
it would totally make me not want to meet.There are decent guys
here,i know that just from all you guys who read me...just seems
like the dickheads are everywhere.
Thanks for the computer help darlin...

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 1:26 pm

    Quoting  :

hi babe..
ya know,my first mistake was in replying to begin with
but the first email wasnt bad and i try to be generally nice and
reply when i get a compliment-just that he didnt get what i was
trying to tell him.And i had questioned his claim of having his wife
being in jail on his profile and that just pissed him off i guess..
i did keep the email.But i dont think he can report me for abuse as i
only said to him what i wrote in the post,word for word.
Ah...so many assholes.Thanks darlin girl

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 1:29 pm

    Quoting  :

hi hon...
exactly.And im actually tooo honest,like i was saying
shouldve never bothered replying.Thanks sweetie..

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


SleepyAngel23 41F

3/5/2008 7:45 pm

Wow. What a moron.

Sleepy Angel

I my friends!!


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/5/2008 10:22 pm

hi babycakes...
i know,,,he sure was...

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


outtherelinda 57F  
18868 posts
3/6/2008 2:27 am

Hey hun, I got an email from a 29 year old yesterday in another state. He expressed an interest in me and I politely replied and I told him I wasn't interested in anything long distant. I got home today to find another email from him telling me that women from the top end of the country had flown down to meet him. I replied back and told him that I am not other woman and asked why he couldn't just accept no. He replied back and said some shit about us women getting it easy and not having to pay but the guys have to and that us women take that for granted. WTF?

Now if this guy that emailed you is any sort of musician I would have thought he would know instantly who Bono was, dickhead. I guess there are many dickheads and wankers floating around this site. Thank god there are some decent ones to balance them out. Take care hun.

Linda xxx


Feel free to come and check out my blog outtherelinda


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/6/2008 3:05 am

    Quoting outtherelinda:
    Hey hun, I got an email from a 29 year old yesterday in another state. He expressed an interest in me and I politely replied and I told him I wasn't interested in anything long distant. I got home today to find another email from him telling me that women from the top end of the country had flown down to meet him. I replied back and told him that I am not other woman and asked why he couldn't just accept no. He replied back and said some shit about us women getting it easy and not having to pay but the guys have to and that us women take that for granted. WTF?

    Now if this guy that emailed you is any sort of musician I would have thought he would know instantly who Bono was, dickhead. I guess there are many dickheads and wankers floating around this site. Thank god there are some decent ones to balance them out. Take care hun.

    Linda xxx
Linda..
hi babe...i know...im to the point where im not
going to even bother replying unless its someone that i
have to...i actually got a sweet email from this sexy guy
i blogged him...hehe...but he's the rare decent email that
i get.
I got really pissed with the Bono remark and i should have
said what you said--that if he was any kind of musician he
HAD to have known who Bono is.Then again,he's 63--so maybe he
played oldies.
And its not that i dont like older men,the Bf is older than me..
but his attitude just sucked..

thank you babe and if i dont see ya..have a great weekend,,,

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


cableguy20042 53M  
8823 posts
3/6/2008 6:12 am

    Quoting rm_bonogirl1:
    hi babe,,
    it does make other guys look bad,and if i were looking
    it would totally make me not want to meet.There are decent guys
    here,i know that just from all you guys who read me...just seems
    like the dickheads are everywhere.
    Thanks for the computer help darlin...
Did unplugging your PC for awhile help?
I hope you don't have to buy a new 1, but fortunately the price of computers has come down from what they used to be.


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/6/2008 1:10 pm

    Quoting cableguy20042:
    Did unplugging your PC for awhile help?
    I hope you don't have to buy a new 1, but fortunately the price of computers has come down from what they used to be.
hi babe..
yea i did unplug it for a little while and was on the
laptop...then i figured,wth and tried it and it stayed on so i did
the reformatt thing and its been working since..so i guess its good
for now.Ill eventually have to get a new one,its just that i havent
got quite caught up since Christmas and didnt wanna just throw money
away yet.True that they are cheaper now...
thanks darlin...

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


teaser3d 58F
3733 posts
3/6/2008 2:24 pm

wow.... sounds like this guy needs a virtual bitch slap! Want me to take care of that for you? I'm feeling a bit mean today. You're such a sweetie you shouldn't have to deal with assholes!

Seriously though, you're right when you say there is one in every crowd. They call them future Darwin award winners. *shakes head as she walks away*

Stress is when you wake up screaming and you realize you haven't fallen asleep yet.


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/6/2008 7:15 pm

    Quoting teaser3d:
    wow.... sounds like this guy needs a virtual bitch slap! Want me to take care of that for you? I'm feeling a bit mean today. You're such a sweetie you shouldn't have to deal with assholes!

    Seriously though, you're right when you say there is one in every crowd. They call them future Darwin award winners. *shakes head as she walks away*
hi babe..
he needs a GANG bitch slap...lol
thanks sweetie..........

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/6/2008 7:15 pm

aww..i will soon hon...

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


ranchomongo1 70M
6672 posts
3/8/2008 9:53 am

OUCH!!!! if the older than my dad didn t get him... LOL... your a sweetheart to play e mail tag with him so long...Kisses..


Face piles of trials with smiles

Moody Blues


Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous. (????)


iluvlustmore 43M

3/22/2008 6:24 pm

i am a little confused abt your blog on sum fool givvin u static...its not worth your time.hit me on a bike!!!!!!!!!u be lucky if u get prison(i am well luvved).contact me fool!!!i did time and will do more for u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!FOOL...contact me.......BOOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tHe WoRlD Is A fUcKiNg MeSs ,WhY CaNt I bE!?!?


iluvlustmore 43M

3/23/2008 11:54 am

sorry abt my last comment(i really shoudnt drink on line...at least not that much!)threats are unacceptable.pleaes dont get the wrong impression abt me.maybe the guy givving u static was drunk or isnt playying with a full deck of cards!

tHe WoRlD Is A fUcKiNg MeSs ,WhY CaNt I bE!?!?


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/24/2008 7:51 pm

    Quoting ranchomongo1:
    OUCH!!!! if the older than my dad didn t get him... LOL... your a sweetheart to play e mail tag with him so long...Kisses..
hi baby..
ya know,it wouldnt have been so bad,but he was just
a dick.I posted exactly what he said....like i was missing out
not knowing him..hehe.Asshole he was anyways...

thanks babydoll...

loves ya...

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


rm_bonogirl1 56F
6913 posts
3/24/2008 8:02 pm

    Quoting iluvlustmore:
    sorry abt my last comment(i really shoudnt drink on line...at least not that much!)threats are unacceptable.pleaes dont get the wrong impression abt me.maybe the guy givving u static was drunk or isnt playying with a full deck of cards!
hi hon..
i kinda understood from the first comment what you were
meaning.Ah,he didnt really threaten me...just was a dick.What you
read was his replies,word for word.just ass.
Thanks hon...

She's Dangerous cause she's Honest-(U2)


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