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The Time for Cowardice is NEVER  

anastasia666 46F
856 posts
11/21/2009 12:11 am

Last Read:
5/24/2013 3:12 am

The Time for Cowardice is NEVER


Hello My Readers..

I have been trying to find a way to thank my friends who stood by me when I lost my Best Friend Alex..and who are praying for her sister Rhonda to be healed from her cancer. These are amazing folks who came here to chat and have a good time, yet when death stared us all in the face and took away Alex..they were here for me..I have told them thank you and was realizing as we face yet another FriendFinder-x TROLL problem targeting them, that the time for me to stand was NOW..

Over my years here I have always tried to do what is right, good and helpful. I have listened, comforted and supported. I have never insulted anyone nor taken any pleasure when it is done to someone, even those trolls we so often as forced to deal with. I am the journalist of all the trials we have seen and suffered through over the years. I have often stood amazed at what cruelty can be masked by a fake handle..Even more amazed, I have watched MEN..grown up men seeking women here..sit and stay silent as evil trolls abuse, harass,stalk and threaten the very women they are begging to talk to them. I have always been the one folks call on when they needed questions answered about the site, or a problem fixed with the site as I always seem to know the right folks to contact. I do not mind lending a hand as long as a fellow member benefits from whatever I do. Being here to me is a priviledge and not a given. So I ask myself..why do these grown men sit and stare while harpies and trolls/villains yell and scream their threats at innocent men or women ? Is it because they are to timid or frightened if they stand up for the innocent then they too will become a target of the very trolls ? Is it because we have all become to afraid to stand for even 1 innocent person ? What happens when it becomes their turn to be picked on ? Who will stand for them ? Will there even be anyone left to stand and say "THIS is wrong" ?

When did it become okay to attack someone for the colour of their skin ? Their nationality ? Their sexuality ? Their religion ? When did being as cruel and as viscious as you can be become the norm ?

In our chat room, I am a member of a group of friends who have come together and said "Enough is enough." We gave ourselves silly nicknames..ask each other, how are you ? the family ? how is work going ? When any of us suffers a loss like mine, or illness we come together and pray for a remedy. We do not attack others nor do we condon the attacking of anyone, not even the trolls who are helping to destroy this site. Yet on most nights, if you venture near our room, you will see Me, Ana, with our friends and if the female trolls are on the hunt you will see bloodshed/lies/obscenties/threats. We do as the Legal dept of this site asked us to do.."IGNORE THE TROLLS". I am thinking of having t-shirts made with that logo on it. We say it to each other on flash or IM to remind ourselves that we are not the bad guys nor do we wish to follow any of their examples.

The trolls on this site seem to think by "virtue" of their age (almost 60 in most cases) that they can run this site and order others to do their bidding. We do NOT agree with this. The trolls think if they target you long enough and scream threats at you, you will leave. NONE of Us have left nor do we intend to. The trolls believe if they tell enough lies someone will believe them..or listen to them..Or if they can find a friend of yours, take them away from you and turn them against you. Sadly, all they have done is to break up a number of men/women who had a real nice shot at a relationship and crush those dreams into dust.

They have even made terrorist threats on this website and threatened to kill women by slitting their throats..So tell me all, please..what did this woman do to deserve that ? Nothing..She did nothing..the innocent never do..and since we won't be quiet or silent to their criminal ways, we must be threatened and our countries also.

I know what you must all be thinking..why not leave ? Why not flee for the nearest hole in a wall and hide ?? WE did nothing wrong so why should the innocent flee why the guilty thrive and punish decent people just trying to enjoy a website ? WHY are we letting the trolls tear down and destroy a site that was created for all and not just these older sad women and men who think they are above all of us ? WHY are folks just sitting their while these criminals scream their lies and abuse ?

Hacking, stalking , death threats, terrorist threats..lies, abuse..identity theft..I have seen it all here and now am asking to see something else..I want to see US all stand as ONE and say ENOUGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH..as loud as you can...Enough with these horrible trolls and their attacks..STAND up and be counted when you seen someone being targeted by these trolls. (I know every room has trolls..I get that..Our Trolls seem to only be strong when there are more then 1 of them around..Just like the cowards they are they wait until they have someone else to scream with them)Stand up and say NO..don't be Nice to them..don't greet them with hellos and civility because you are afraid you will be targeted or seen as the bad guy for talking to us instead of them. If enough people have the courage to stand as one..we can defeat any size enemy..Our forefathers did it and theirs before them...If enough people see through them and their lies we can show every troll/stalker on this site that their kind of behavior will NOT be tolerated..

Remember if you do not stand for others in their time of need..who will be left to stand for you when it is your time to be attacked or abused ?

DO what is right and do it because you know it is the right thing to do.

All for one and One for all..

I am standing..
I am saying Enough..

Who else will stand and say it with me ?

Your Faithful FriendFinder-x Journalist,

ANASTASIA666...

JUST CALL ME ANA...

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart



didyoureally 47M

11/21/2009 12:54 am

Anaaaaaa Stand up in what u believe in! I'm behind you all the way.


Silkensoftness 60F

11/23/2009 7:17 am

someone sent me to here and I want to say thank-you for stating your case .

I was raised that if someone was doing something , and you watched it and did nothing ...then you were as guilty if not more guilty than the one doing it . Afterall you knew it was wrong and did nothing to stop it .

I have been accused of being a cyberbully on this site because in an open room I would not just standby and watch some others post out another's personal information . I had been out of the rooms at that time for quite sometime . Another told me what ws going on . I was shocked and stunned to see that the person having this done to them was standing alone . In fact she had many onsite claiming to be her friends , but as she was being attacked they all moved away and did nothing . I said something ...oh yes I did , and the next day I brought two other ladies I knew would have very opinions on such things with me . And we were able to stop that assault .

So yes one or two can make a difference ...but bravo for wanting to join all those willing to make those stands for those who can not ...

sirens bring you to your knees


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