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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011 & things I have learned the HARD way :)
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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011 & things I have learned the HARD way :) Hello all, Welcome to the end of 2010..been one hell of a year hasn't it ? One I would prefer to not repeat into 2011.May I wish all my faithful readers/followers/fellow members/bloggers all the best for a healthy and very happy New Year in 2011. Thanks to everyone who shared in my grief over losing my best friend Alex and the many prayers for her sister Rhonda who is ill with lung cancer..Thank you for the united prayers and hope for my own brother Tom who fought the battle with kidney cancer and came out of it whole, minus a kidney but alive and cancer free. To my dear friends who have passed away from this mortal coil and are now kicking back in heaven and more than likely raising some hell of their own up there in the great beyond. I will miss you always..My life was better and brighter for having known and loved you and been loved by you.  The things I learned the hard way...wow where to begin ? How to tell a fake friend from a real one..How to know when a person tells you one moment how much you mean to them or how much they care about you,even offsite, only to learn how much they lie and how fake they truly are..To these fake people you are only as good as whatever they need you to do..and if you refuse..than so long bye bye and do not let the door hit ya on your rear as you leave their presence. I learned that making folks laugh and feel good is a gift well shared..I learned how to avoid the dreaded trolls and the spies they hire to threaten members here..I learned that even when the trolls think no one cares..this site does care..and it does protect all of its members to the best of its ability. This is why my motto was and is and always will be.."Copy..paste.report..ignore"..let the site sort these ancient monsters out..My time means more to me than sifting through their garbage.. One last thing..I just ended a friendship with someone who I feel was like a vampire..sucking the life/energy out of me..."Help me" "Protect me" "Fix things " I was the good go to guy as long as she was helped and others suffered..In the 3 to 4 years I have known this "handle" she has been in more fights, more abuse, attacks than any other group of members combined. I thought she knew how to behave correctly..I was wrong. She has now become one of the trolls..getting other members to gang up on anyone she does not like. She is as bad or worse than the trolls we have all been fighting/ignoring for years. This same woman yelling about how bad folks are or how rotten has now become the very thing we all despised. I pity those who are still caught in her web of abuse. Once I ended this mess of a friendship, I felt so much cleaner and stronger. I could breathe and relax..I know the high count of friends I lost by being her friend but now I can at least breathe deeply knowing I will not lose anymore of those I love because of her. First lesson of 2011..DO NOT LET FRIENDS OVERWHELM YOU TO THE POINT OF SUFFOCATION. Do not lose yourself or your ideals because of someone you care about who is not worth the time it took me to write all this down. I "lost" this so called friendship because I refused to be mean to a man on my friend list and to remove him from my list because he rejected her. I went from being a "best pal/sis" to a nothing because I refused to abuse others. I shall always be proud of myself for that. I would not abuse someone for her..I won my freedom by standing up for others..and saying NO. Hugs and Happiness  Your Favourite Journalist.. Anaaaaaaaaaaaaa  I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart  |
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1/3/2011 5:18 am |
happy new year ANA I know u r going to make much more friends than the ones u lost last year...
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Thank you my dear Ahmads.. YOU are a wonderful friend and thanks for coming here to have a peek and to post.. Happy New Year Babe.. XX/OO, Ana I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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