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Have a Problem ? Need something Fixed At AFF ? Here is where to go  

anastasia666 46F
856 posts
3/12/2013 1:26 am

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Have a Problem ? Need something Fixed At AFF ? Here is where to go


Hello,

Just thought I'd share these helpful blogs and one group. Now that Andrew the Founder is back and things are moving quickly on repairs it is always good to keep this information handy to help others.

Thank you,

Ana6



1) Live from FriendFinder-x group :

Live From AFF

2) Community blog :

community

3) Site Support Blog :

sitesupport

4) Andrew blog :

Andrew

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart



JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
3/16/2013 9:59 am

It's always good to let people know that there are alternative contacts (where English is comprehended) other than having to go through the frustration of dealing with CS.

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anastasia666 replies on 3/17/2013 1:49 am:
JN,

Thank you for your comment and great advice to me when I first mentioned to you that I wanted to make this post a reality.

Happy St Pat's Day Hugss,

Ana6

rh1972 51M
609 posts
4/11/2013 4:27 pm

Do you know anything about the problems with voice messages? Apparently we can send them to other paying members but they don't appear at the other "receiver" stage.


anastasia666 replies on 4/11/2013 4:34 pm:
Hi Rh, I have not heard of this problem and I am talking to the tech dept right now about the issue as soon as I get the answer on what is going on, I will repost it here. Thanks, Ana6

anastasia666 replies on 4/12/2013 4:16 pm:
RH, My apologies I thought this post went through and was posted as I clicked yes on it ..arrive today on site and see it posted now..My bad, sorry about that. I know the voice msg issue is being worked on as I talked to the dept in charge several times yesterday. Happy Weekend, Ana6

Hrdfreaknthesack 62M

4/15/2013 1:06 am

I tried to get the tech team to fix a chat and IM problem and all I got was the run around. I even had them go into my account while The problem occurred and couldn't see my problem. My problem is in chat.and IM I get a message that state I have invalid characters in my user name. I don't see why since FriendFinder-x approved my handle in the first place. I tried and had to live with this and I'm paying for this. I hope this will put something under FriendFinder-x ass and fix this problem. We will see????


anastasia666 replies on 4/15/2013 2:12 am:
Hi Hrd, I am just seeing this post now and reporting it to the tech person in charge of fixing things on site. I am sorry you are having difficulties and I will keep looking into this and hope you will soon have an answer to your problem. Thank you, Ana6

anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
11/20/2017 2:50 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Recalcitrant72..

Thank you for taking the time to look for my blog and reporting this to me & the site ,abuse dept..etc. I am grateful for all your effort on behalf of all members. I did view the blog in question..saw the meme and saw that the blog posting had a number of comments, some from women and they were laughing at the meme. I must tell you that I looked at the meme which I had seen before on Facebook and other sites but did not see any mention of violence directed at women or anyone. It does mention telling a woman to calm down is about as easy as Baptizing a cat..I do not know the blogger in question or what was on his mind when he composed his blog. post. You might want to comment on the blog itself and ask the member/blogger. The meme is not stating if a woman does not calm down you can " smack " them down. I am sorry this posting obviously upset you and I know it will be a shame if we lose you as a member because a bloggers attempt at humour upset you.

Happy Mon,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
11/21/2017 2:43 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Recalcitrant72 ,

Thank you Sir for clarifying this issue for me. I read your post to me quickly and went to look at the blog. I thought you meant the blogger who wrote the post..NOT a comment written by another member. Thank you for taking such swift action when you saw something you knew was offensive and would offend many members expecially women.

Thank you so much,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
11/22/2017 2:53 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Recalcitrant72,

Happy Wed from the USA !! I understand what you are saying and behavior such as you witnessed is one of the many reasons women members give as examples as to why they do not rush to meet a man or reply to his nude photo sent in the first email message..I am sure your concerns were being looked into and it might be a case of the employee thought it had been handled by higher ups..The member who made the offensive comment might have simply thought he was being amusing when instead he made the worst possible impression on both men & women, I understand this member is no longer on site using the original handle name that is.

In your posts here to my blog you've mentioned twice if I could understand DV or how I'd feel if a man I trusted enough to meet had made such comments..how would I feel ? I use my instincts when meeting anyone for any reason..and I know all about DV as do some of my friends/family members.

Happy Wed,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
11/24/2017 1:55 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Recalcitrant72,

Happy weekend. For years now I have asked members how to do just that..Make the site more attractive to women and convince them to join. Yet when bullying, abusive behavior is seen here and looks like it it tolerated when it is not..then we are fighting a HUGE Uphill battle. Yet, we keep trying because this site and the happiness of its members are worth it.

Thank you for trying to help,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
11/25/2017 2:07 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Recalcitrant72,

Hello. As I mentioned when you first brought this to my attention and the Site Support blog..I never saw the offensive statement as the site deleted it. I do not know the history of the blogger in question..If He has made other statements regarding offensive/violent treatment towards women then the site will be speaking to that member about his comments.

The Blog post where this comment landed was replied to by both men and women and they seemed to be laughing & amused by the blog itself..The comment the other member made which upset you was removed. I do not know what more can be done to satisfy you. I suggest you write a blog yourself and ask members what they think/feel about the comment that was deleted..or try a poll asking members how they feel when they see a comment that advocates violence against men or women. Try writing a comment to the Site Support blog and ask them what is going to be done about a member who advocates violence.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
11/26/2017 1:53 am

Dear Recalcitrant72,,

I do not know why the original comment is back up. I am not the member who wrote the comment or the employee who took it down in the first place. You do not have to shout in all caps the comment it back up. I mentioned that the other members did not seem to have a problem with the meme or the blog/or any of its comments or they would have A) ignored the blog post complained about it to the site support blog or abuse depts. I do not recall seeing comments on the Site support blog about this post /blog except for you. Hence my suggestion about writing a blog or creating a poll to gauge how the members feel about this issue. There was no need for insults directed at me or typing in all caps. I offered advice. I tried to help you and now I am officially done. At the beginning of my blog page there are 2 blogs I wrote about showing Members/People respect . You seem to be unable to grasp that concept.

Happy Blogging & Please feel free to ignore me from this moment on,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
11/27/2017 5:25 am

    Quoting  :

Hello Zara_thustra,

Thank you for visiting my blog & commenting, As I keep saying and not being heard apparently is that the Site Support & Abuse dept is where to report these issues. I recognized the member who wrote the comment that upset other members . Apparently he does this frequently to a lot of bloggers & their blogs. I do not understand the reasoning behind posting trollish comments for attention and with intent of upsetting other members. I also do not understand why members seem unable to respect other members & boundaries. This blog post was merely a place to post the links to ask questions or use the link to reach the Site Support blog link since the site keeps updating the blog page/links I thought by posting/sharing it here it would give members the chance to go to the current link & blog to request help or report an issue.

When Holiday weekends come around as this just was here in the USA..There can be a lag time in dealing with issues. I am sure the site is well aware of the issues with the member in question.

I have been as polite as I can be..Offered as much help/advice as I could and even though I was not involved in this blog comment controversy until someone came to my blog to complain..I tried to help. In the end I offered advice and ended up being insulted for my efforts. I find it very interesting that I posted my feelings on my own Blog only to find another comment here today.

Please address all abuse issues to the Abuse dept and follow up with the Site Support blog.

Thank you,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 replies on 11/28/2017 1:05 am:
Hello, I realized this morning that I left something out of my reply. I had suggested that a good course of action is to blog about it and to do so in way that opens a dialog about how members feel. Naturally I am not suggesting breaking the TOU. Not sure why anyone would think that. When members of our LBGTQ community were under attack from other members a large group of bloggers banned together to fight for their rights/stop the abuse. My " Respect " Blog was created as a response to this abusive issue. We all blogged about the circumstances without naming the member ( now banned for life ) who caused the outrage & we asked members how they felt and those who replied shared their concerns and thoughts/opinions on how the situation could/should be handled. NONE of Us broke the TOU in writing our blogs/comments on others blog posts. Blogging is all about sharing thoughts & communicating with others..What better way was there then to ask your fellow members their opinions about abusive comments ?? Thus opening a discussion on how to make things better..

I thought that making things better for ALL was the reason for all this distress over a comment a member made on another bloggers post.

Thank You,

Ana6

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