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One of  Hello Darling Readers, Happy New YEAR # 2015 xxoo to one and all. I had one of " those " emails and had to share it with you all...Now for all the years I've been a member of this site I've been helping out behind the scenes. I love to see members enjoy the site and do all I can to see to it that the site functions correctly and members who want to meet and connect with others can do exactly that. Women members have told me the horror stories of rude or abusive emails from me..the endless parade of penis pix..the " Hey wanna F Me ? " emails and such. I have received my share and answer back as respectfully as I can..My friends here on site have warned me to never reply back to those emails as once a man is turned down, even nicely done as I do it, they become abusive. That had not happened to me until the one time I'd been exchanging emails with a local guy and sharing advice on site function with him to make his experience better when he suddenly demanded I meet him on a street in a town near me..Middle of the night..2 am ish..ALONE. I replied back thanking him but reminded him I was merely here to give and share news/advice. He did in fact become very angry and abusive and told me I was a total waste of time. I wrote back and thanked him for letting me know how he felt and wished him happiness/good luck on the site. He quit as a member not long after this email exchange. I had told my friends of the men asking me to meet them in hotels as they are out of town and I am within 50 miles of where they are staying and would I please come to Room # whatever to meet them and have sex ..( No thank you but thank you so much for asking me and all our other fabulous Ladies on site..Hope you enjoy your visit to the city 50 miles away from me. They always wrote back, thank you Ana..) Then there are the men who want to teach us female members how to lactate without being pregnant..( Um..no thank you but thanks for the nice email and I hope you find what you are looking for on our sites..) My girlfriends are aghast..WHY are you replying to these men ? ALL you will get is abuse..Well I reply, I tell them, because I am trying to be polite to everyone and respect everyone's right to use the site as they wish to find what they are seeking. I have spent time helping men rewrite their profiles so they stand out from everyone else's. I have been asked for advice on how to approach women, what photos to put on their profile and I am always happy to help where and when I can. Fast forward to this new exchange of emails that happened this week.. I open my inbox to find.. Hi , I'm handsomm and I am coming to Oakland..wanna come to meet me or me to come to you ? OK, No thank you..I am no where near Oakland and I wrote back the usual message detailing why I am on the site, what I do here and offering suggestions so his emails will " pop " when women open them and how he might then be guaranteed a reply. (This mans profile is set without any photos or profile photo and nothing is filled out beyond his age of 25. No location other then a city near Oakland. No idea of who this " handsomm " ( HIS spelling of the word btw ) man is yet he wants women to just show up in Oakland to have sex ?? By the way men..WOMEN really do look at profiles to get a general idea of who you are..and no photos and only a birth date do not tell them much. I sent the email..No reply for a day or two then another one.. Hi I am ( insert his name which is part of his profile handle ) wanna meet and have fun ? Ok..here we go again... Hi Handsomm...You sent this email to me before and I replied..( I re sent my original email which obviously he had not read ) and wished him all the luck in the world and Happy New Year wishes.. He waited a few minutes and wrote back.. ok. sorry. I was about to send an email back telling him he did not need to apologize to me as I was not offended and offering the suggestions so his emails to women will attract the ones he is seeking.. Only to find out.. handsomm blocked me from replying to him.. Sometimes you can help those who really want this site to work for them and sometimes you can't. Good Luck so called " handsomm " man. I hope you find a way to make the site work for you. Guys..Let this be a lesson for you. Women know what a penis looks like..It looks like all the other hundreds of photos she has been receiving. Why not make your profile stand out ? Stand out from the crowd of every other member here. Be unique. Show the ladies what makes you so " handsomm " before declaring yourself as such. Make an effort and perhaps then your emails will be read, your profile looked at and an invite to meet might just follow an exchange of emails. Just another day here at A F F .. Happy New Year # 2015..XXOO, Your Faithful Journalist, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart  |
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I really wish it was just the rude and disrespectful and tasteless guys that inundate this site that make me so invisible from all the decent ladies that are looking for someone.That way I could quit beating myself up.I can't help but too believe I am way past the demarcation age to find someone worthy of a reply. I do enjoy the site for blogging and and the advice pages.Success isn't just meeting someone here to get my bean snapped as it were.I take it serious and am looking for something serious.Anything you could suggest would truly and sincerely be appreciated.I am sure you're busy though have a great new year!JB Using more than all the road!
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I really wish it was just the rude and disrespectful and tasteless guys that inundate this site that make me so invisible from all the decent ladies that are looking for someone.That way I could quit beating myself up.I can't help but too believe I am way past the demarcation age to find someone worthy of a reply. I do enjoy the site for blogging and and the advice pages.Success isn't just meeting someone here to get my bean snapped as it were.I take it serious and am looking for something serious.Anything you could suggest would truly and sincerely be appreciated.I am sure you're busy though have a great new year!JB Thank you for your lovely reply. I have made it a point to reply/answer every email I receive here. ( or elsewhere ) It does keep me quite busy but I think if someone takes the time to write to you, even if you are not interested, the least you can do is reply with a nice message back. My best suggestions seem to be what you've already done. You filled out your profile. Great photos of YOU on your profile & dressed too  You blog and visit the advice lines..there are our local chat rooms..Join groups that share your interests and post. Let folks see the real JB is someone worth knowing & replying to. Your age ? 55..Hell darling , you are just a Kid...55 is the new 35 I hear. Hang in there and Believe..We all get back what we put in and you are doing a Great job. Thank you again for your wonderful reply and taking the time to read my post & reach out. If you need any advice etc..Just send me an email. Happy New Year Hugsss, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Hugs from B... my princess!  Thank you for the lovely message. I have missed you My Prince ( This man is a REAL Prince and not the lying, cheating, abusive Not so Prince Charming one I wrote about. ) XXOO, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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