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RESPECT : WE all NEED to do Better  

txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
8/19/2016 7:07 am

hmmm i went back to were i read your helping sandra last year... funny today i am blocked from reading it... lol so now i cant give exact date... but it is in her chat room blogs or pages well it was in there...lol so i just wondering was all


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:08 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    andrew is worried about declining numbers... number of reasons i dropped my gold after 10 yrs plus... things not working here... an now the points thing... cost to IM someone if standard, even after conversation is started im freeze up an have to restart conversation an pay the toll again... unable to read a email a gold has sent a standard is also a bad idea.. takes standards to help in keeping interests going, why pay gold an not have the benifit of emailing who you want to knowing they can read it?????/ another thing, i was given 10,000 points last week..but only recieved 956 of them... i have wrote FriendFinder-x probably 4-6 times so far... an havent yet been told where the other 9000 points went, an yes i asked the person who gave to the points if FriendFinder-x took all the points away from her an she said yes... so its many things that need to be worked on .. it is a great site... but it needs to fix things so it keeps its memership up an keeps attracting new members
Tx,

I hear you loud and clear. I am sure everyone at Various Inc is worried about declining numbers. In fact , you must have been reading my mind as I have just pointed that out to Andrew. I know the glitches on the site can be frustrating and I am sorry about that. I know how hard the tech dept is working to fix things. I have never been a fan of or supported the standard email situation. To quote a friend of mine ,stopping standards from reading their emails will not entice them to upgrade to Gold. Giving standards back their emails is something I keep asking about. I am sorry for your point situation and will make some calls to see if we can find where they are..those points are yours and you deserve them.

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:17 am

    Quoting  :

Dear What fun,

Thank you Sir for standing up and apologizing. That is so Brave of you. A lot of other people would have stayed silent or in the shadows to see which way the wind is blowing..YOU stood up and did the right thing.

Thank you for being You & I am so proud of you,

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:21 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    Ana,
    I'd like to pimp this post the next time I post.
    Is that OK?
Good,

Thank you Sir and feel free to " Pimp " this post I am hoping we can unite all the bloggers we can find because we are stronger when we stand together.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:31 am

Dear Proteus,

Thank you Sir for caring enough to stop by my blog & leave a compliment/comment.

Have a Great Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:33 am

    Quoting rachel0718:
    I would really like to share this on my blog. Please allow me to do so. Thanks!
Dear Rachel,

Hello & Happy weekend. Thank for asking & please feel free to share the post as we try to unite the blog community against bullying & abuse.

Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:40 am

    Quoting  :

Dear Zara,

Thank you for this lovely & lyrical post. I think the reason this subject is touching so many hearts is because Nice is a beloved member here, the abuse was obscene and it could have been any of the female bloggers who by no fault of their own , is popular and loved..This attack was an attack on all bloggers.

Asking all members to use respect and Unite is a very positive message and an important one too so that NO member has to live through what Nice did..

Happy weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:53 am

    Quoting  :

Darling Buni,

You are going to make me cry aren't you ? I will always think of you as a dear friend and I am glad I could help where I did. My own Trust factor was blown to pieces in 2014 when Prince Not so Charming turned out to be psycho/liar.

Thank you for liking my words. I believe in the power of Positive Karma and defeating negativity. If we can get all the bloggers who believe in Positive vibes and respect to Unite..then the bloggers who seek to drive other bloggers off site with racist abuse...will themselves be driven from the site.

#AllForOneAndOneForAll is my Motto

Happy weekend Love & Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 7:59 am

    Quoting scott6250:
    I absolutely agree with your post. Everyone should be respected.
Dear Scott,

Happy Friday Thank you for sharing your thoughts with Us. #EveryoneShouldBeRespected is a Great sentence and hash tag. I might have to borrow that to share on Twitter . I wish everyone felt the way you do.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 8:07 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    hmmm i went back to were i read your helping sandra last year... funny today i am blocked from reading it... lol so now i cant give exact date... but it is in her chat room blogs or pages well it was in there...lol so i just wondering was all
Tx,

Thank you Sweetheart for reminding me. You were so kind to go check and rattled my brain..You are right Sir. I am oh so tired..Caring for Dad after his stroke and have not gone to bed yet..I wanted to reply to all of the wonderful people who took the time to post to this blog. I did not want to let anyone down.

I understand you were just wondering and hope I was able to answer you.

Happy Friday,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/19/2016 8:09 am

    Quoting bestfriend2156:
    thank you for your thoughtful post. Respect should be viewed as a basic human right.
Dear BestFriend,

Happy Friday You're welcome & Thank you for taking the time to visit my blog and share your thoughts. Respect should be thought of that way. Perhaps one day it will. We can do our best on site to treat each other this way and perhaps it will catch on.

Happy Weekend,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
8/20/2016 5:24 am

good morning ana... hope you got some rest... just a couple of thoughts you may pass on to andrew or crew at FriendFinder-x..... 1 . make blogs where anyone who visits them leave a trail.... meaning show the names of all that look at a blog an doesnt comment available to said blogger... i think its fair for a blogger to know whos looking at an reading blogs... especially now that blog land has gone so toxic... Point being i have talked to you here lately, an said things, an when i go back , those things have dissapeared.. so i think someone else who isnt replying to your blogs is passing on info to others , an being not able to see who has been here gives them the rite to cover their own tracts , remaining innocent ... if you get my drift...
2 . thanks for saying you would make a call about points.... yes it was a gift, but its not really my points, its the givers, an after all the emails i have sent, an the giver says she is also looking into it... if they only want to acknowledge i recieved 956 then give her back the 9000, as they are hers....They have records, they can see what we all are doing here... time for them to act
ok my random thoughts..... lol hope you have a great day an weekend

ps i have still not recieved a email from FriendFinder-x... so i guess just another thing that got pasted onn... its no biggie as i am sure they are busy an dont care to look into finding out the truth about a blogger they keep reinstating for breaking rules anyway...


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
8/20/2016 5:26 am

i really do hope you have a good weekend.. i promise to quit harping on your blog page... not fair you taking the blunt of things as your only trying to help people when you really dont even have to...


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/20/2016 6:33 am

    Quoting  :

Hello RB,

I know exactly how frustrating this situation is for everyone. I have never seen anything this obscene and I have seen some really horrible members over the years. We have lost members who really gave their all to the site & were a delight to know..we have lost prestige because of the racist attacks on OUR LBGTQ community. This is why I am asking ALL Members & Bloggers stand United and together.

I won't give up.
I won't give in.
I NEVER Surrender.
I ALWAYS get Justice for those In Need.

Bullies Are cowards who will never win.

WE are Better then this..WE have to do better.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/20/2016 6:42 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    good morning ana... hope you got some rest... just a couple of thoughts you may pass on to andrew or crew at FriendFinder-x..... 1 . make blogs where anyone who visits them leave a trail.... meaning show the names of all that look at a blog an doesnt comment available to said blogger... i think its fair for a blogger to know whos looking at an reading blogs... especially now that blog land has gone so toxic... Point being i have talked to you here lately, an said things, an when i go back , those things have dissapeared.. so i think someone else who isnt replying to your blogs is passing on info to others , an being not able to see who has been here gives them the rite to cover their own tracts , remaining innocent ... if you get my drift...
    2 . thanks for saying you would make a call about points.... yes it was a gift, but its not really my points, its the givers, an after all the emails i have sent, an the giver says she is also looking into it... if they only want to acknowledge i recieved 956 then give her back the 9000, as they are hers....They have records, they can see what we all are doing here... time for them to act
    ok my random thoughts..... lol hope you have a great day an weekend

    ps i have still not recieved a email from FriendFinder-x... so i guess just another thing that got pasted onn... its no biggie as i am sure they are busy an dont care to look into finding out the truth about a blogger they keep reinstating for breaking rules anyway...
Morning TX,

Happy Weekend Oh yes, got some sleep and here I am still working online..LOL. I will hand in your suggestion on the blog watchers. I know other members have mentioned the same. I see all of your posts on my blog and my replies to you too. I also asked about your points and was told their is a bug for it and if you need to ask about it and do not let this go..send a msg to Customer Service and post to the Site Support blog.

Happy Sat Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/20/2016 6:44 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i really do hope you have a good weekend.. i promise to quit harping on your blog page... not fair you taking the blunt of things as your only trying to help people when you really dont even have to...
Hello TX,

Thank you so much for your lovely words. Very Kind & generous of you. You are not harping you are sharing.

Happy Sat,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/20/2016 7:32 am

Happy Weekend Darlings...

I should have been replying to the post's comments but fell behind answering emails and IM's about the site & other sites I am working on. I promise later there will be more replies..I will get them all done.

One more thing..ANDREW wanted me to write this blog on Respect and since he asked I did. HE ASKED ME TO DO THIS. ( Had to shout so those who are reading it for others will be able to see my wording. )

This Blog post is about Unity..About Respect..about saying NO to bullies, intolerance and racism. WE are standing United with our fellow bloggers in support of our LBGTQ community.

#AllForOneAndOneForAll

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
8/20/2016 7:58 am

i have wrote to them... an recieve a really nice FORM letter that is sent to all that they hope answers any questions, an gives answers to alot of things except what was asked... ROFL


LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
8/20/2016 4:10 pm

Unfortunately, it seems like the bullying and nasty words are coming from both sides of the fence these days. I hope it is all addressed at some point in time so we can all get back to just having fun.


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
8/21/2016 6:37 am

good morning ana... hope your weekend is atleast half way good for you... hope your dad is doing better an again you got some sleep ....

Its always good to read your entries, but things have gone on for so long with no change, NO FriendFinder-x stepping in NO FriendFinder-x stopping the one person who is making FriendFinder-x toxic, not only in her blogs, but in her ability to get others to her harrasment , so that she can say "my hands are clean" But even when she breaks rules , isnt dealt with by FriendFinder-x... giving one day suspension to her is like giving her a day off to rest an plan more...

IF...This Blog post is about Unity..About Respect..about saying NO to bullies, ... its easy to talk the talk, an hope for a perfect world... but if you dont do anything to kill or stop the cancer, it takes over an destroys ....If keeping a person is more important than keeping others , then things are fine an no one should wonder why membership is done an or falling... Once things get so bad in revenue that they are forced to shut down site or change , they can ask themselves WAS IT WORTH IT??? An no i am not saying she is only reason, FriendFinder-x has to change other things to gain back its being a great awesome site that others tell others about an to join, but she is one that is effecting alot of people now, an has caused others to drop off here. FriendFinder-x has to ask itself " If one person cost us $1.00, is her being here worth it after all the chances she has been given..... I know that employees of FriendFinder-x arent suppose to blog..BUT>>>BUT MAYBE .. a simple BLOG from Andrew saying things are going to change .. give the members something to see RITE from his own words, show us he cares about what many are saying, show us all if you talk the talk ..you walk the walk.. so us the rules have some meaning an some back bone, an FriendFinder-x will live by thier own rules and there are true penalties for breaking them.

ok ana, my 2 cents again... this is one you dont have to respond to, as so many things here you cant answer or speak to... i understand that..but hopefully it will bring more replys supporting my thoughts here ...

Again thanks for your help here, an i hope whats left of your weekend is great!!


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/21/2016 7:17 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    i have wrote to them... an recieve a really nice FORM letter that is sent to all that they hope answers any questions, an gives answers to alot of things except what was asked... ROFL
Hello TX,

Happy Sun I am glad you received a lovely reply ...even tho form style. The best bet is to post your question about the point directly on the Site Support blog.. ( You will find the link to it on the blog page..called " Support ." Mention you've been given those points as a gift, and you either want the 9,000 + points owed to you or returned to the handle who gave them to you. Get a Bug number too so you can refer back to it with the support blog if this is not resolved to your satisfaction in a timely manner.

Have an awesome day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/21/2016 7:24 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    Unfortunately, it seems like the bullying and nasty words are coming from both sides of the fence these days. I hope it is all addressed at some point in time so we can all get back to just having fun.
Hello Life,

Welcome to My Blog & Thank you for your comment. I agree with you as does most of our blog world..ALL we want is respect to given to all & for the blog world to get back to normal. WE stand united against racism, intolerance, cruelty and bullying.

Forgive me for correcting you but this is truly a one sided bullying situation. A member of our blogging community was bullied and harassed in the most obscene manner. Targeted for removal by another blogger jealous of this blogger and her popularity with all. The entire LBGTQ community came under attack and thus the Bloggers rose as One to defend a woman from being bullied, lied about, threatened, harassed and targeted. When we stand as One we protect those most in need. There is no bullying on this side of the fence. Merely a group of bloggers who when they see horror and obscenity being forced on a innocent woman/member stood tall, stood together and said NO MORE.

Thank you for stopping by & Have a Great day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
8/21/2016 7:31 am

    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    Unfortunately, it seems like the bullying and nasty words are coming from both sides of the fence these days. I hope it is all addressed at some point in time so we can all get back to just having fun.
my take on it is... its like a bad neighbor throwing garbage in others yard thinking they can do it... an the neighbors are picking up the garbage an throwing it back to the yard it originated at


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
8/21/2016 7:32 am

    Quoting  :

Dear RB,

Happy Sun morning Thank you for your kind words. Thank you for saying what I keep saying...ALL are entitled to be here, to be a good member, follow the rules, engage with others if that is your choice and respect boundaries and leave folks alone.

I can say that there was nothing reasonable about the brutal attack on Nice. If the blogging world had stayed silent then Nice might not have felt the need or want to return..and the cursed blog list war would be revisited upon the next name on top. How many female members is this site going to lose if this cruelty & bullying is not stopped Once and for all ?

Babe, you know what.. if being a part of this amazing blogging community is being part of a United Gang then sign me up LOL. If standing with some of the most intelligent & supportive men and women I've ever met makes me part of a gang..then so be it. I'd rather be here with all of you then over there. If gang is the worst they can think of we got off lucky.

#SilenceIsNOTanAnswer
#OneForAllAndAllForOne
@SayNOToBullies

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
8/21/2016 7:54 am

I do agree with Resident Bitch. I am new to blogland so it has been difficult for me to understand what is going on. I did stand beside nicelips and her supporters and still do, steadfastly so. And against other threatening, harrassing, bullying behavior. I would rather not see hate-filled blogs from my friends but I do understand where they are coming from. It is just my opinion that such blogs add fuel to their fire. again, just my opinion. I stand with my friends while still hoping for a peaceful solution but a solution nonetheless.


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