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RESPECT : WE all NEED to do Better
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Dear RB, Happy Sun morning  Thank you for your kind words. Thank you for saying what I keep saying...ALL are entitled to be here, to be a good member, follow the rules, engage with others if that is your choice and respect boundaries and leave folks alone. I can say that there was nothing reasonable about the brutal attack on Nice. If the blogging world had stayed silent then Nice might not have felt the need or want to return..and the cursed blog list war would be revisited upon the next name on top. How many female members is this site going to lose if this cruelty & bullying is not stopped Once and for all ? Babe, you know what.. if being a part of this amazing blogging community is being part of a United Gang then sign me up LOL. If standing with some of the most intelligent & supportive men and women I've ever met makes me part of a gang..then so be it. I'd rather be here with all of you then over there. If gang is the worst they can think of we got off lucky. #SilenceIsNOTanAnswer #OneForAllAndAllForOne @SayNOToBullies Hugs, Ana6 I realize that some members get heated and don't control their tempers, or their mouths. They need to be referred to this post. But it doesn't taint the whole protest because there are a couple of unruly partisans. That tactic of accusing all of us of guilt by association isn't going to fly. I'm not backing down. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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good morning ana... hope your weekend is atleast half way good for you... hope your dad is doing better an again you got some sleep .... Its always good to read your entries, but things have gone on for so long with no change, NO FriendFinder-x stepping in NO FriendFinder-x stopping the one person who is making FriendFinder-x toxic, not only in her blogs, but in her ability to get others to her harrasment , so that she can say "my hands are clean" But even when she breaks rules , isnt dealt with by FriendFinder-x... giving one day suspension to her is like giving her a day off to rest an plan more... IF...This Blog post is about Unity..About Respect..about saying NO to bullies, ... its easy to talk the talk, an hope for a perfect world... but if you dont do anything to kill or stop the cancer, it takes over an destroys ....If keeping a person is more important than keeping others , then things are fine an no one should wonder why membership is done an or falling... Once things get so bad in revenue that they are forced to shut down site or change , they can ask themselves WAS IT WORTH IT??? An no i am not saying she is only reason, FriendFinder-x has to change other things to gain back its being a great awesome site that others tell others about an to join, but she is one that is effecting alot of people now, an has caused others to drop off here. FriendFinder-x has to ask itself " If one person cost us $1.00, is her being here worth it after all the chances she has been given..... I know that employees of FriendFinder-x arent suppose to blog..BUT>>>BUT MAYBE .. a simple BLOG from Andrew saying things are going to change .. give the members something to see RITE from his own words, show us he cares about what many are saying, show us all if you talk the talk ..you walk the walk.. so us the rules have some meaning an some back bone, an FriendFinder-x will live by thier own rules and there are true penalties for breaking them. ok ana, my 2 cents again... this is one you dont have to respond to, as so many things here you cant answer or speak to... i understand that..but hopefully it will bring more replys supporting my thoughts here ... Again thanks for your help here, an i hope whats left of your weekend is great!! Thank you Sir, I did sleep well and Dad is up watching " Breaking Bad season 3 " as he is just getting into watching the shows on dvd. I know what you mean. I've been here and can remember the Great days of this site before it became a war zone. I will ask Andrew to see if he can do that blog post you mention. I think after this racist petition and the fall out a simple explanation via blog post would be greatly appreciated and offer reassurance to ALL members that this kind of inhumanity will NOT be tolerated on site. Have a Great day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart 
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my take on it is... its like a bad neighbor throwing garbage in others yard thinking they can do it... an the neighbors are picking up the garbage an throwing it back to the yard it originated at LOL...My friend I do like the way you think. This can sum up the whole bullying mess and now I understand that by me posting this and asking all members to say NO to racism and intolerance, that somehow for just asking for respect for all men and women members...somehow my dear readers...WE have become the bad guys and the bullies. I think we are being accused of being a Gang too instead of a United group of bloggers. I am confused by this but I do thank you all for being smart enough to see through the propaganda and lies of the true bullies. Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Missy, Happy Mon Darling & You're welcome. Thank you for ALL you did to protect members & bring this horrible issue of bullying/intolerance to light. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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I do agree with Resident Bitch. I am new to blogland so it has been difficult for me to understand what is going on. I did stand beside nicelips and her supporters and still do, steadfastly so. And against other threatening, harrassing, bullying behavior. I would rather not see hate-filled blogs from my friends but I do understand where they are coming from. It is just my opinion that such blogs add fuel to their fire. again, just my opinion. I stand with my friends while still hoping for a peaceful solution but a solution nonetheless. Happy Mon I have been blogging here for awhile but when the last so called " Blog War " hit and the member who started that mess was banned for life. I was blogging around that time and NEVER ran into her or her mess. Lucky for me. I know the blogs are taking a hit because of this bullying behavior & racist petitions. That is why we are trying to unite ALL bloggers for the common good. Every member with a blog is equal to every other member . No one is better or less then any one else. Thank you for standing with the innocent victims of cruelty, bullies and abusers. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of us, Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Absolutely we need more respect for women. Thank you Sir for your kind words. Thank you for taking the time to share them with us all. Have a great Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Missy, Brilliant...Exactly what we've been trying to say. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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good morning... No rants, No complaints... sure your pulling your hair out , an neck muscles are sore from shaking your head...lol So take the day off an do something that brings a smile to you... HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!!!!!!!! 
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Sign me up too. The charges of bullying by the bully is standard operating procedure for that blogger. It lowers the caliber of the conversation down to schoolyard level: "You are!" "No, you are!" And this is done on purpose because it's so infuriating. To make members angry is the only reason that blogger does it. It's an old, old M.O. and veteran bloggers here will confirm that. I realize that some members get heated and don't control their tempers, or their mouths. They need to be referred to this post. But it doesn't taint the whole protest because there are a couple of unruly partisans. That tactic of accusing all of us of guilt by association isn't going to fly. I'm not backing down. Consider yourself signed up my Friend. Oh I know how we can all lose our tempers when we are angry and when we are furious at the obscene attack on Nice & Our entire LBGTQ community..It is truly astounding to me that somehow the good guys are now being called the bullies..for WHAT ? For Telling the truth & standing up for innocent members under attack. I hope folks remember that petition was directed at Nice & the LBGTQ members but it could just as easily been directed at ANY of US. #WeStandWithNice #SayNoToBullies #NeverSurrenderNeverGiveIn #WeWontBackDown Hugss, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear Aroused, Thank you for your kind words & for finding this blog and being brave enough to share your thoughts with Us all. Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear MMMMMM, Thank you for sharing your thoughts & agreeing with Us. I hope we can all spread the word "Respect" all over the Blogging Universe here.. Have a great Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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 Thank you Sir your applause..I can hear your generous applause spreading all over the site and embracing the word Respect & ALL Our United members. Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear KtMnDu, Thank you for your eloquent post. I really appreciate it. Thank you for standing up for the innocent & shedding that light on bad behavior. As I stated some people prefer to stay hidden and let others speak. That's ok..I can stand for all..Mom and Dad raised a Pepper Pot In me..LOL. I stand when I see bullies and abusers hurting innocent men , women and children. We have to push back against intolerance before those who believe they are better then anyone else target Us all. Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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I totally agree with you. We all need to respect one another and we are all here to have fun, make new friendship, new lovers, and new relationships. Thank you so much We all appreciate your words. You hit the nail on the head..THAT is why this site exists so men and women can make connections, network & Have fun Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear Clit, Thank you so much for your kind words. Thank you for finding my blog & for making the word "RESPECT" resonate through out our Blog world. Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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what a great post! I love your handle name I said it out loud and just laughed and smiled You are a delight. Thank you for your generous words about this post. Thank you for sharing & visiting,Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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absolulti right every one should respect each other Thank you for visiting, YOU are so right Everyone should respect each other. We should respect all life and never do unto others that which we would not want done unto Us. Have a Great Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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This is a wonderful, well written and well meant, RESPECTFUL post. I try to be always polite even with nastiest commenters, but there are times when my patience gets exhausted and I just block them. That despicable business with "petition" and recent "beauty contest" should not be allowed here. Bullies and bigots should not be allowed here. Recent events that created such a turmoil made my blood boil and I posted my frustrations on my blog. I didn't call anyone names, didn't spew out insults. I simply expressed my opinion about bullying and bigotry that ignited the war in Blogland. Perhaps, I shouldn't have done that but... it was impossible for me to stay quiet. With your permission, I would like to promote this post. Thank you for your beautiful Post. Please feel free to share it anywhere you like. Thank you I 100% agree that the horrible petition and so called Beauty contest should NEVER have seen the light of day. You are very brave standing up to what we all saw was racism, abuse and bullying. YOU had every right to speak your mind & heart. I am grateful you did that. If you feel it, speak it. Never stay quiet. Your voice is one of many who will see and receive a Change here on site..and all the lies, abuse, threats will slink back into their hole where they belong. Thank you for being Brave & Intelligent, Thank you for finding my blog and adding your voice to shout RESPECT from the members homes all the way to HQ, #WeWillNotBeSilent #SayNoToBullies #WeStandUnited Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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good morning... No rants, No complaints... sure your pulling your hair out , an neck muscles are sore from shaking your head...lol So take the day off an do something that brings a smile to you... HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!!!!!!!! I Love this post !! Thank you for making me smile. I hope you have a fantastic Day & the start of a great, happy week. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Respect is Not an Option, it should be a Given  Thank you Sir..what an excellent post. I agree with you. I was taught as a child to respect everyone, no matter what colour, faith or who they love..to respect all Life..human and animal. Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Hello Bob, Thank you Sir for your very kind comment. I did the best I could and just want everyone to feel safe, welcomed, loved and Happy. #AllForOneAndOneForAll Not just a hashtag but a Lifestyle. Happy Mon, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Eliminate the rankings and any other list that indicate popularity. Just have a list of new posts and a carosel randomly featuring bloggers. The rankings have caused nothing but grief in Blogsville. The site hosts a multitude of contests. Attention mongers can actively enter those. Thank you my friend for sharing your thoughts on this issue. I totally agree with you about eliminating the blog rankings. You are so right any list that says "Hey You're Popular " is going to be an issue for some. Not all, but some. I love discovering new blogs and bloggers..I do not need a list to tell me who is popular...The ones I adore are Popular with Me. Thank you for sharing your amazing ideas... Happy Mon Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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The newest form of blog manipulation involves whether or not vag and tit pictures mean "signing" a pledge of sorts...saying you will only receive those naughty pics IF you comment on her blog. And promise to not visit or comment on anyone's blog she doesn't approve of. How can this behavior be ignored anymore? It's rather revolting. If this were the first time she had done something like this...it could be maybe looked over as a rookie move...but it has been repeated more than one time over the years. When does she finally get punished...really punished...not just a slap on the wrist? How many more people does she have to demean...manipulate...shame...bully...all around HURT before something gets done? I know you are doing your best...but honestly something should have been done years ago...and then the people she has currently targeted...would have not had to go through any of this bullshit.. I'm in agreement...the list needs to GO...it is the root of all the problems we are talking about now...and have been talking about for years. Just my take. Smooches
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8/22/2016 12:52 pm |
I agree with you on the respect.. but to tell you the truth.. i think i would settle for TOLERANCE the ability or willingness to tolerate something, in particular the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with: "the tolerance of corruption" · synonyms: acceptance · toleration · open-mindedness · respect should be something attained.. something you work on yourself , for others to respect you. but we should all tolerate everyone , and anyone. if i m wrong, just tolerate my answer you don t have to respect me..LOL.. good blog.. some time these are needed more than funny, sexy, or erotic ones.. face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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Dear Katie, Happy Tues Thank you for your lovely comments for Me. Really appreciate that. Very kind of you.I wish I had the answer you are looking for. I have been keeping Andrew informed about everything from that horrible racist petition up to the death threats/ Death List of members targeted. We should know something this week. I have also asked him to write something for his blog here on site. When we first discussed how this mess had grown because of one person and their racist taunts/petition...he asked me to write up something and said this word was the one I needed to start with " RESPECT " so I did as he asked me to and here we are. He told me what I good job I had done when I told him how many members had come here and shared their feelings/comments. I am waiting along with the rest of you for an answer and finally to just be done with members violating the TOU on a daily basis, the death threats , the criminal behavior of photographing women and loading their photos here without their permission...As soon as I hear anything, I will let you all know. Thank you Katie for being so brave & embracing respect & caring about the members who were targeted. Have a Great Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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