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RESPECT : WE all NEED to do Better
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please understand, we all that have wrote ana , are not trying to run your site andrew... rather stop the ones who choose to ignore the rules an chance, engage others to help in what she is trying to do, skirt your TOU laws , so we are not trying to run your site, but stop others from running your site into the ground..
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I agree Missy. It's beginning to look as if the wheels of justice might not be grinding at all. Ana has my respect too for bearing the brunt of this as the ONLY representative of the site speaking up about it. She's the one voice calling for change who has any connection with Andrew Conru. I have to wonder what's taking so long. Is there some ambiguity about abuse and harassment that i'm missing? Understand, Ana, this is no challenge to you. You've already won me over and you won't get rid of me easily. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Dear TX, Oh Hon I know what you meant. I am just so exhausted and trying to do everything at once and feeling like I am letting you all down. I promise not to give up..I will keep on fighting until this site is SAFE for everyone and those that would threaten to murder members and their families are locked up some place, jail or a mental hospital. Hugss & Happy Tues My Friend & Thank you for explaining, Ana6 Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I think what bothers me the most about this is the way she thumbs her nose at all of us who dare to say anything against her. She doesn't even slow down with all her crazy postings...almost a "I dare you to say anything...I am so special here...nothing will be done"... A kind of nany nany boo boo if you will. " You can't touch me. I am the reason everyone comes here." I personally have had to provide a written apology to her after I dared to quote something she said...I was banned for a week. And she gets a day? She is just as culpable for those death threats as the man who posted them...it was obvious that they had been in cahoots for a while now...just be gleaning information from their conversation. She is not trying to hide the fact that she insists that her minions sign a contract stating they will NOT visit any blogs that she deems "unfit". She did nothing to hide the hideous petition...nothing to hide the post body shaming a complete stranger. She is bold in her actions...and she has right to be...no one says anything to cause her to stop what she is doing. She feels as though she is being victimized by those of us who want to put wrongs to right...and it seems (not only to her...but to some of us as well) that she can and will do whatever the hell she wants...and get away with it...because she has and is currently doing just that. And heaven be damned if you get caught trying to go against her. I got caught talking against her...I guess I'll be next on the "hit list"...she banned me this morning...I can only fear what's next. I never thought I would have to fear anything other than the occasional being recognized in public while being here. Do I have to fear something far more serious now? For trying to stand up for the majority of us...the ones who want to blog and let blog...the ones who don't care to share each other...with each other. I adore you for helping us...and I wish you luck with the poop-storm that is surely to follow if and when the site chooses to do something about this very bad apple amongst a big ol bunch of fruitcakes! Smooches darlin! Not having a go at you...cause I know you are doing your best...
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Ana, I know I've said this before, but thank you. Really- thank you. So many people don't follow through. No one will ever be able to say that of you, however this turns out.  Your post should be mandatory reading for new members. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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i agree missy an have wrote the same thing... the members of FriendFinder-x deserve to know an it will only mean something from him an his actions... An poor ana has taken the blunt of things, tried to answer honestly an tired to help members... she has done what was asked of her, an i am glad it wasnt me who had t field all the bitching, complaints, etc.. but all of us do know she has tried an done more than most... including the site after being asked to help, time now for FriendFinder-x to act I know exactly what you mean about deserving to know the truth and from who. I make sure every day that Andrew knows what is going on, how often the TOU was broken or violated and exactly which blogger and their fans are at fault. I have given him Missy's post here and Her Open letter to Andrew blog she wrote. I have asked him to write what he feels is appropriate to this situation. I can post it here or to his blog and share from there. I began discussions today with a new member to the team and I am bringing him up to date on the evil petition and the aftermath up to the Death Threats and the emails demanding members here do not talk to or engage with, read or post to other women's blogs here or else. We are almost there. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart 
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please understand, we all that have wrote ana , are not trying to run your site andrew... rather stop the ones who choose to ignore the rules an chance, engage others to help in what she is trying to do, skirt your TOU laws , so we are not trying to run your site, but stop others from running your site into the ground.. Hello  Hon, I totally understand. Andrew knows that the only reason members are standing and asking for change is that it will benefit the site & all members. Perfectly said there my friend...' Not trying to run the site but stop others from running the site into the ground."I promise you he knows that hon and trust me is as tired of one blogger holding this site hostage along with her so called " fans ." Happy Wed, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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YOU aren't letting us down, Ana. But some of us are feeling like maybe someone else is. Thank you My Friend I appreciate that. As I said on another post, Andrew is aware of what is going on and has me working with someone new on finally settling for good.. this grotesque mess the blogger started.#NotGivingUpOrGoingAway #StayTheCourse #RespectIsAWayOfLife Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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I think what bothers me the most about this is the way she thumbs her nose at all of us who dare to say anything against her. She doesn't even slow down with all her crazy postings...almost a "I dare you to say anything...I am so special here...nothing will be done"... A kind of nany nany boo boo if you will. " You can't touch me. I am the reason everyone comes here." I personally have had to provide a written apology to her after I dared to quote something she said...I was banned for a week. And she gets a day? She is just as culpable for those death threats as the man who posted them...it was obvious that they had been in cahoots for a while now...just be gleaning information from their conversation. She is not trying to hide the fact that she insists that her minions sign a contract stating they will NOT visit any blogs that she deems "unfit". She did nothing to hide the hideous petition...nothing to hide the post body shaming a complete stranger. She is bold in her actions...and she has right to be...no one says anything to cause her to stop what she is doing. She feels as though she is being victimized by those of us who want to put wrongs to right...and it seems (not only to her...but to some of us as well) that she can and will do whatever the hell she wants...and get away with it...because she has and is currently doing just that. And heaven be damned if you get caught trying to go against her. I got caught talking against her...I guess I'll be next on the "hit list"...she banned me this morning...I can only fear what's next. I never thought I would have to fear anything other than the occasional being recognized in public while being here. Do I have to fear something far more serious now? For trying to stand up for the majority of us...the ones who want to blog and let blog...the ones who don't care to share each other...with each other. I adore you for helping us...and I wish you luck with the poop-storm that is surely to follow if and when the site chooses to do something about this very bad apple amongst a big ol bunch of fruitcakes! Smooches darlin! Not having a go at you...cause I know you are doing your best... Happy Wed Hon. Thank you for posting/sharing. i am so glad you did. I was talking with a person at HQ about your post and they are wondering if you kept the communication from the site that asked you to write an apology to the blogger. I've been around here for awhile and have never heard of such a thing and the employee wants to get to the bottom of what was asked of you or demanded of you. It is the classic trick of Narcissists to claim to be the victim while they are in fact the abuser. No one forced anyone to write that obscene petition or to sign it either. I am so grateful that the bloggers are standing up and saying #NoMore . I was advised about 5/6 yrs ago when my female stalker was going insane all over the site trying to get at me that if I felt my life was in danger the best course of action was to call my local Police and work from there. With my male stalker being located in NY to Me In Calif..I had to deal with my local cops, NY cops, FBI Computer Crimes Division of Northern Calif..plus More cops in other states and his family, neighbors, friends he had victimized. Going Public was the only way I could protect my family & myself. Was he arrested ? Yes..was he humiliated ? Yes. Did his family know ? Yes, once you threaten to kill a woman who does not even know you, you lose your right to privacy. I can guess from what I was told he was very embarrassed and everyone knew what he had done. The best course of action is the one we are taking now. The problem blogger only wins when folks are afraid and stay silent or look the other way..We are working our way back to a normal ,happy blog world that does NOT tolerate the actions of a disturbed person. My best advice for the men who choose to go along with the threat and follow the list of members they are not allowed to engage with..well , enjoy your time on site, enjoy the photos she will provide you and please ignore ALL the other women on site and their pix and blogs...because we'll still be here long after this issue is settled ..Once and For all. Hang in there Queen..Us Fruitcakes need to stick together.. #WeAreAlmostThere Hugss, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Ana, I know I've said this before, but thank you. Really- thank you. So many people don't follow through. No one will ever be able to say that of you, however this turns out. Your post should be mandatory reading for new members. Thank you my Friend. I am hoping as we resolve this mess and all the members including new ones who will hear of this mess, will not want to ever repeat this disaster. Hugs & Happy Wed, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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HI Ana... its have a good a day Ana day.... I am hoping your dad is doing even better today, that your getting some sleep an feeling better, that your less stressed out by trying to deal with all these problems, an mostly that you have figures a way to cover the bald spots from pulling out your hair over it...  
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I've been a member here since 2003. I've been blogging since... I think 2005, maybe? I've watched "blog wars" come and go, along with some wonderful bloggers who just gave up after being the victims of bullying. I generally stay in my little corner of the site and ignore most of what is going on. I do notice, however, that an awful lot of drama has had the same source. That said, I have never seen anything quite so egregious as what happened recently. The whole situation was disgusting, and I still can't quite believe that it went on so long, and with no consequences for the instigator(s). Thank you for taking note, and hopefully putting an end to this behavior, at least in this particular instance. BTW, by now you may realize that there have been several attempts to change "The List". Good luck and remember that you are never going to please everyone with that. Happy Wed Thank you for reaching out & sharing your concerns. I agree with you. This recent " Blog war " has left a bad taste in everyone's mouth and a filthy smell all over the site.We'll figure out something to do with that cursed list. There has to be a better way to share and show all the blogs and bloggers without having jealous meltdowns. Happy Wed Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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 The blogs shouldn't be about numbers on a list. They should be read without the need to leave derogatory words. Respect, in other words. Thank you so much for your post & words. To me blogs and bloggers were never just a name or number on a list. To me they are people using their words to reach out , console, share and communicate with Humanity. #RespectForAll #SayNoToBullies Happy Wed, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Thank you for being on the side of good, Ana! Thank you for your amazing words. I am merely one of many who feel the same way. We need to return respect & decency to the website & above all to these blogs. Have a Great day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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HI Ana... its have a good a day Ana day.... I am hoping your dad is doing even better today, that your getting some sleep an feeling better, that your less stressed out by trying to deal with all these problems, an mostly that you have figures a way to cover the bald spots from pulling out your hair over it... Happy Wed Though I am super dooper tired..I shall sleep like a baby tonight. We've had some good news and the end is in sight. I feel very positive about this turn of events. Dad is doing great. He is deep into season # 5 of " Breaking Bad."Have an awesome Day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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well that sounds great, so its just a wait an see..... BUT you need to do something for you today !!!!!!!!!!!! have a great day..
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i agree Hello & Thank you for being so Brave and locating my blog & this post. Thank you for agreeing with Us all. #WelcomeToTheFunBlogs #NoThreatsOrBlackmailJustFun Happy Wed, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear Azriel, Thank you so much. Oh I am sure you could add a lot to this discussion. Thank you for finding my blog and joining in with the Blog World idea of Respect & Tolerance for all.Have a great day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear Passion, Happy Wed Thank you for your lovely compliment. Very kind of you & I thank you for joining in the Respect discussion.Have a Great Day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Hello Pandora, Happy Wed Thank you for visiting and sharing your thoughts. I agree with you. We should spread kindness & respect freely and with all. Perhaps we'd even reach hearts that are hardened against Us and tolerance for all.Have a great day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Bonjour Anastasia Dans le monde actuel le respect devrait être la plus grande valeur Merci de ci bien le dire ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥ Hello Anastasia In today's world the respect should be the largest value Thank you tell it well ♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥ Merci for your kind words. I wish we could spread respect all over the world. Tolerance for others, respect, kindness then we'd all be in a better,happier, greater place.Happy Wed & Have a Great day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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well that sounds great, so its just a wait an see..... BUT you need to do something for you today !!!!!!!!!!!! have a great day.. I promise I will Feeling Positive & Hopeful that finally the good news we've been waiting for will be here soon.Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Happy WED RB, Your posts are such a delight to read and I always find myself laughing & agreeing with you. I love how the victim & her defenders have become the bad guys and bitches. The letter ? ohhhh yes...well Thalia is a lovely lady as far as most of us are concerned and I am good with that. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Hello RB, The one great thing about this site is how it is open to ALL and for a variety of reasons and things to do. Some are here to cam, to blog, to join groups, use IM, Use Chat rooms, email..some are looking for love and some passion. I have always said the true beauty of a person is the soul that resides inside them. How they treat others is a great JUDGE of who they are as a person. Happy Wed Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Thank you RB , Thank you for the support of ALL & this blog post too. You are amazing & I am very grateful. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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