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"To Shame or NOT to Shame..."  

anastasia666 45F
856 posts
9/21/2020 11:27 pm

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10/5/2020 7:34 pm

"To Shame or NOT to Shame..."

" To Shame or Not to Shame..That is the Question.."

Hello Dear Readers,

"Whether tis nobler ..NO, Excuse Me Mr. Shakespeare, but there is only one answer to that question...

NOT..

There has never been a appropriate time on any site to engage in shaming , bullying, lying or abusing/threatening any member or their Families....Period..Got it now ? What is so hard about that ??

We have the whole world in Pandemic mode..Scary elections and changes of corrupt regimes, foreign governments trying to interfere with our elections..Millions of people, men, women and dead from an unstoppable virus ..Businesses closing , Millions unemployed & schools closed or some open and infected on a daily basis. Isn't that more important than fragile, over inflated egos and a cursed blog list ?? Once more for emphasis...THAT is what is truly important in Our world..NOT the idiotic battle for a position on a cursed blog list..

I have been on the site since my sister joined it back in the 1990's ( she is a OG Member ) and stayed to chat with her, my other friends & adopted family. I stayed because of members I cared about, members I fought for and employees who became friends. Over the years members from all over the world & USA have asked me for advice & help. I live nearer the offices so it was quite easy for me to lend a hand. I did not do it for praise or in the vain hope it would make me Popular..Nope, I did it because I truly wanted to help members & employees and it is the right thing to do. I even defended members who hate me and have threatened me..Not because I hoped they would change ..I did it because , say it with me, it was the right thing to do.

Years back when a banned for life member began attacking a member and trying to organize attacks on her, members got together and decided NO More..It took members uniting to fight the battle and management listening to what we were all trying to say..NO abuse, NO Bullying of anyone at any time will ever be acceptable .. I have written 3 different Respect blogs which came about because I asked Our CEO Andrew, how do we reply to this kind of racism and abuse ?

Respect was what he told me, Respect is what I wrote about and it brought so many of Us together..Until now..

The sad thing about this new mess is that it involves members who used to be close friends.. but no longer are..When we united to fight for one , we pleaded with these members<b> obsessed </font></b>with their position on the cursed blog list..to please stop all the negativity..Than the screaming began..How dare you tell me what I can blog about ? ALL that was asked of them was to stop the abuse..and they refused. They complain endlessly about members they do not like ( me included ) but they chose to write blog posts about the same member over and over Again...Why ? For the ATTENTION.

A member wrote a blog about her likes/dislikes in sexual partners..and the members who replied to her post shared their own likes/dislikes..Then a member felt it was a "weight shaming " post..and the tiny drops of rain became a Hurricane..Sooo...we have a member accused of weight shaming..What do the angry members do ? They start in by writing appearance shaming posts, making fun of members who have mental health issues, making fun of members with dental issues, etc..and even threw in some weight shaming of their own..HOW on Earth is that the right way to handle anything ? Especially AFTER you wrote posts crying foul and what you believed was weight shaming ?? Sooo does this mean YOU now get to tell members what they can and can't write on their own blog ?? YOU get to shame members you dislike but God Forbid anyone else should write their own opinions or concerns then you scream insults & cry foul ? There is a word for that...Hypocrite.

There will be NO comments on this post because I know how some of the " members " will react..I will NOT allow my blog to become a place to bash members..(This is why you will see some of my posts with posts pending..I will NOT allow bashing/threatening posts on my blog and leave the grotesque posts pending for evidence for the Police/ abuse/legal depts to see ) If you have something to say send me a private message or send a message to my inbox here on my Blog..Please be aware any and all threats will be reported to Police in my state/country and Yours too.

Have a Great Week My Faithful readers & Hang in there..

#WeTrulyAreAllInThisTogether,

Hugs,

Ana6

Your Faithful Journalist !!








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