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Blogs > Zypherion > Zypherion's random encounters

Is this a scam?  

Zypherion 56M
9 posts
10/6/2006 8:02 pm

Last Read:
10/15/2006 7:36 am
Is this a scam?

No replies to my last post so I guess there were no opinions on it, that's fine. This is mostly a cathartic thing for me and if no one reponds I guess it wasn't as interesting to them as it was to me. I am feeling pretty down today. I took out a loan for the retainer for a lawyer to file separation papers with my spouse. I have not been with anyone in over 4 months, some people might not be impressed with that and that is fine, the thing is she has. She gets has guys and girls fawning over her all the time. Pick and choose who she will sleep with that night. I have been very lonely. Not just for the sex but for any adult conversation or at the very least some company. I would like to go to a movie, have a drink and talk with someone who can at least pretend that they are interested. I joined this and a couple of other sites like this to meet people and hopefully get some attention paid to me for a change. Nothing so far, some one line messages from a couple of different people but nothing substantial. One of the reasons I hate this mailing is there is no chance for direct communication. I have written to well over 50 people with only two responses that lasted more than one line and wasn't a rejection. Not that I mind the rejection at least then I know the person is not interested and I can go away knowing that they are considerate enough to tell me I'm not their cup of tea. I don't have many standards but I do have a couple. I just wonder if people are that busy or that just don't find me interesting. Either way I am in the same boat. I'm not poor but I am not looking to be anyones Sugar Daddy, I am still suffering from that from the 'ex'. She left me after she graduated school so I do feel like I was used for the last two and a half years. Even after she left she still emotionally manipulated me to pay her bills. She was very nice and made hints about getting back together. After she started getting her own bills that I refused to pay that all stopped, now she barely speaks to me and then it is only for 'small' talk or when it concerns our , he lives with me, not her, again her choice. So maybe there are some issues there but I am not a clingy person if you are up front with me I will be with you. I just have not had any substantial responses from anyone. Which would be fine if I just knew why. So to anyone who might read this tell me that, tell me why. I would appreciate it and might help me understand.

rm_Shazz1971 52F
1052 posts
10/6/2006 8:19 pm

 Geesh, it sounds like you're in a tough situation... and a long one. I hope things get better for you.

shazzy


VCF1962 112F

10/6/2006 8:37 pm

 Well the photo is cute but the profile, being honest, doesn't light a fire.

You say you want someone to go out with but then say you don't have much time - you want a FWB - perhaps - and then you say you want someone kinky.

Be proud of being a dad - but take out that Mama thing. Not many women want to be a mama to a man of your age.

Re define what you're looking for - or rather re define your profile. Gee it up a little - add a little spice.

Yes, you're a father, but you're also a man and you'd like (notice I didn't say WANT) a woman in your life to add a little spice and excitement. Are you open to meeting a woman with kids of her own ? If so, mention it. That would give you time to do things together too.

You have to keep trying on here. I see the same blog over and over again. Why don't I get any replies etc. Are you checking the tick boxes carefully ? I had a mail from someone yesterday that had two glaring red ticks against AGE and RACE. Well if I'm not what you're looking for, why waste our time ??

Be selective. Search for local ladies and if they have blogs, read them. These will tell you more about a woman before you even hit the SEND button.
Mistress Innuendo
Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!


rm_muffin700 62F
2 posts
10/14/2006 4:28 pm

 Hi I'm not sure what FWB means! But from a woman's stand point don't go on and on about your ex... Besides most of us are single mom's so no sympothy. Good Luck to you it isn't easy.


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