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The Kind of Girl I want to Date
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The Kind of Girl I want to Date The kind of girls I think I want to date – Bubbly, outgoing, obviously sexy, uninhibited, good with people, skanky but with class; The kind of girls I wish fell in love with – Kind, giving, sensuous, quietly thoughtful, strong but not too self-assured , admiring, admonishing but quick to forgive, unexpectedly erotic when aroused; The kind of girls I tend to fall in love with – Dark, quiet, outgoing but introspective, hard on themselves, insecure but not too needy, full of unrealised promise. (I have always thought that someone somewhere must be a mixture of all three……) The kind of girls who fall in love with me – I have absolutely no idea, but thankfully they do sometimes. (Once again this isn't the post I thought I was going to write, but I got side tracked! ) |
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Surely, there's overlap in categories 2 and 3. Please tell me there's overlap!
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Surely, there's overlap in categories 2 and 3. Please tell me there's overlap! Mostly though, I don't really analyse at the time, if I love them I love them. but afterwards I sometimes look back and think......"Is there a pattern here somewhere?" Don't you wish there didn't have to be an afterwards?
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skanky with class... niiiice.... lol Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit ~Rumi  ..
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Obviously I'm your dream girl Dreamer. Oh wait I think I'm being too self assured. Damn did I just cancel myself out?
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skanky with class... niiiice.... lol
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Obviously I'm your dream girl Dreamer. Oh wait I think I'm being too self assured. Damn did I just cancel myself out?
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even better, Dreemy  Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit ~Rumi ..
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Well it doesn't matter really - because as I always say, in the end you never find what you think you are looking for in someone - if you try to do that all you can see is their faults. It would be nice to fall in love with someone perfectly imperfect, but the reality, it seems to me at least, is that you can't choose who you fall in love with, you just love them, and then love who they are.
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Ha haa! It was just meant to be a bit of fun, so I'm glad you enjoyed it. I don't think there is anything to be scared about in listing ideals! Because as I said to passioncork, in reality we seem not to fall in love with ideals anyway.
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I always thought I knew what I was looking for until my eyes caught someone else's one Sunday morning so many years ago....I was married but my first thought was "Oh shit you are going to be trouble"......he was, but he was perfect for me and I loved him dearly.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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I always thought I knew what I was looking for until my eyes caught someone else's one Sunday morning so many years ago....I was married but my first thought was "Oh shit you are going to be trouble"......he was, but he was perfect for me and I loved him dearly.
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I often think I know what I want; that I have a "type". As soon as I start to feel certain about this, the universe steps in to knock me on my ass by bringing me someone who is all the things I never knew I wanted. I am beginning to think I could fall in love with anyone. Yet I don't feel that I can identify as pansexual, as I am still extremely choosy about my lovers and don't often meet people that I feel that I could love. Still, those loves have all been very different from one another. The only pattern I've observed is that they're all intelligent and kind - though the intelligence ranges from scary-smart-genius to just-above-average, and the kindness may either be hidden beneath a gruff exterior or outright humanitarian. I hope that you find someone who is a mix of all those things you listed, dear Dreamer. I know that such complex people do exist. We just tend to show a different side to each person - it takes a deep connection with someone for us to show all our facets.  Do not seek an external refuge, but be a light unto yourself. "Be the change you want to see." HalfNekkid Wednesday Peekaboo
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I often think I know what I want; that I have a "type". As soon as I start to feel certain about this, the universe steps in to knock me on my ass by bringing me someone who is all the things I never knew I wanted. I am beginning to think I could fall in love with anyone. Yet I don't feel that I can identify as pansexual, as I am still extremely choosy about my lovers and don't often meet people that I feel that I could love. Still, those loves have all been very different from one another. The only pattern I've observed is that they're all intelligent and kind - though the intelligence ranges from scary-smart-genius to just-above-average, and the kindness may either be hidden beneath a gruff exterior or outright humanitarian. I hope that you find someone who is a mix of all those things you listed, dear Dreamer. I know that such complex people do exist. We just tend to show a different side to each person - it takes a deep connection with someone for us to show all our facets.
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a classy skank... clank? i still wish i was a skank sometimes. lol  --Author Unknown
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a classy skank... clank? i still wish i was a skank sometimes. lol
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I'd love to have you as my clank. --Author Unknown
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I'd love to be your clank! lol
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You have no idea how sexy that is!  --Author Unknown
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Really?! wow. i'm not sure how to respond to that. i only know, that it makes me feel happy that you think so.
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