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Does Size Matter? Small is cute!
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Does Size Matter? Small is cute! I see lots of ads, no, not ads,<b> erotic photos </font></b>with captions claiming large size, from guys who think bigger is better.  Obviously for a lot of people it is. Others say: 'It ain't what you got, it's what you do with it.'  I was going to insert an erotic smiley to illustrate what you can do with it. But I might copy this to my private site to save it and later copy it to a more public site elsewhere. So I'll stay discreet. You can look at all the erotic smiley keys and imagine what I would have inserted. Imagine. Only very occasionally do I see a man admit, usually apologetically, that he's on the small size.  There is one long 'forum' - actually pages of answers to a woman who asked whether everybody else is equally annoyed by pppp (my abbreviation for public photos of private parts). Most woman and men agree with the person who posed the question. But one female replies that she was turned on by the photo of a man who is not long and thin nor long and thick but short and thick. (Physically, not mentally.)  I'm rather small and men who are too large for me simply make me nervous. I foresee that it wouldn't be fun. I would just be tense. We would be juggling for a comfortable position. I might even be damaged, just enough to ruin the evening. Or enough to do permanent harm. And psychologically disturbed. Every time I get a twinge or a tummy ache for the rest of my life I'd be thinking, 'Was it that time when he ...?' So, smaller guys, don't worry. There are plenty of women who don't think it's a competition. By all means if you are large, be proud of what you've got. But if you are middle-sized or smaller there's somebody just right for you. They are looking for you, too. WALK TALL - EVEN IF YOU'RE SMALL The same goes for height. I have a friend who is rather short. He's actually shorter when he stands up than he appears when sitting down in a restaurant. Yes, walk tall, even if you're small. If you're small, you have extra need to walk tall. My small-to average height friend has a large girth, so he never appears slight. By the time you add padded shoulders, a large coat, heeled shoes, an erect bearing, and an imposing personality, you don't get the impression that he is small. Yet when he was standing in a corridor with his shoes off and he hugged me, and I realised we were eye to eye, it suddenly occurred to me to ask him how tall he was. He was much smaller than I had thought. He hesitated. I could see his mouth opening and shutting, his mind sending different signals, alternating. He was trying to let out the truth and keep it in. He didn't know what to do. His mouth opened and shut. He told a lie. So funny. Let's be polite. He told a fib. He looked quite crestfallen. I knew it was a fib! Because I claim to be three inches taller than I really am. Without my high heels, I know how tall I am. I understand this nervousness about height. I have personally experienced height discrimination. Once, when I was a student, a guy gave me a lift home (a ride to you Americans) but he never invited me out. I didn't know why, but he had rejected me because I was too short. A couple of years later, after I'd changed my hair colour, and he met me again, and I'd claimed to be three inches taller, he went out with me. Neither of us realised we'd met before until he asked me how tall I was. When I told him, he replied, 'That's okay. I once met a girl who was only ...!' (He gave my real height). There was a long silence. I thought. Finally, I dared to murmur, '...!'(Name of the student conference location). He exclaimed, 'I've met you before! You've changed your hair colour.' I replied, 'Yes. And I've grown three inches.' More recently, with man two, the surprise was that I was totally happy with a small man, hardly taller than myself. Not only that, I realized should re-think my views on the height of a man. Not only had I occasionally dismissed smaller men. More often, the height was just the last straw tipping the balance on 'is he hot or not?' You don't get perfection. I'm on the short side. I play up to petite and call myself cute. So I should indulge small men, just as I expect man to indulge me. Better for me a small man trying to prove himself, being generous and kind, than my feeling scared of an aggressive hunk who could turn nasty. And seeing eye to eye out in public on a first date works well. Rather than talking to a tie. Or, to put it vulgarly, eye to eye is better than cock in eye..    How rude. I didn't say that. I really didn't. Forget it. I think I shall end up on a sweeter note. Small is cute. Let's erase all the naughty words and vulgar images by repeating the good ones. Small is cute. Small is cute. Small is cute.  'Elizabeth'[   |
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'Elizabeth', Well,coming from a bisexual viewpoint, I can definitly relate to what your saying here. Personally, I like an average sized cock on a man. Not too big, not too small. Juuuuuust right... Over on OutPersonals this discussion rages constantly. Big versus small and almost to a one, the guys (and some gals) over there share my opinion. Really, a great lover is always more than the summ of his/her parts if you will. Attitude, personality etc all combine to make someone a good lover much more so than their physical attributes. I can't TELL you how many 'hung' guys I've been with who turned out being lousy between the sheets because THEY were hung up on the size of their dicks. Ego-centric is the word I'm looking for here. Meanwhile, some of the BEST lovers I've been with were hung like hamsters but they had an incredbile willingness and desire to please. Me, well I'm average. The good news is that at age 49, it's rock hard and ready for action at all times without any type of chemical stimulous and for that I am forever greatful.. LOL  -tm
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Brilliant. I quoted the cliche, it's what you do. But you have focused on the words which exactly express my inner thought. As you say, the best lover has 'incredible williness and desire to please'. And when somebody gives to you, you want to give back. So suddenly they are telling you how fantastic you are, which inspires you. But it's only because their generosity, imagination, persistance, passion and affection has evoked yours. Thanks so much. 'Elizabeth'[
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What were you measured for? What did they say the measurement was? You know that everybody must be big enough to take a tampon. Presumably one's vaginal girth and width varies slightly according to the angle. What's scary is the guys claiming eleven inches and you wonder whether they will damage the vagina or colon by going in at the wrong angle, being too long, whatever. What about a huge dildo which you see going into people? How long is the rectum? Yes, you said what I was too shy to say, that a pppp showing that a man is too big for me is positively off-putting - I hadn't thought of it that way - so the pppp can actually by useful. 'Elizabeth'[
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4/6/2007 8:08 pm |
Small is cute and this comes from a tall woman I have dated shorter men and smaller sized men however what comes down to it all is their participation and their personality. Larger men tend to hurt too much and you dont enjoy the ride as much. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
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I am not John Holmes but according women I am larger than most. I have old had two women complain. One at couples club said she was afraid because her boyfried was so much smaller. She didn't want to be streached out. Because of other things that happened with her boyfriend, I think she was just a tease who hope my wife would do for he boyfriend what she wouldn't do for me. The other women expressed concern and when I suggested that we just keep it oral she said no she wanted to try it. Well she loved it. I was embarrassed by the amount of gratitude she expressed afterwards. Since other women seem to say size matters and I do try to please, I belive that most women are happier to play with at large one than with a small one.
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