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WTF? C'mon guys, give me (and us women) a break!
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WTF? C'mon guys, give me (and us women) a break! Confused and pissed. I've said it before and I'll say it again...boys are dumb. That doesn't apply to everyone but the majority, oh yes. Yes, I understand that this site isn't quite on the 'traditional' side, but why the hell does that mean that common decency has to go out the window? Why does it seem that there are different rules that apply here? I have had the opportunity to meet some great men on this site. I've met some not so great men on this site. Of the great men, I have had the opportunity to meet a few in person. Some of those encounters have been better than the others. Now onto the proverbial straw that led to this post. The first guy I ever met in person from this lovely site seemed pretty cool, but in the back of my mind I always felt that he was also a jackass, or had jackass tendencies. I was just proved right, in quite a stellar way I might add. We met the first time for coffee only and as that went pretty well met up a few times after that for some fun. As much as I hate to admit it right now, those encounters were good. Not completely earth-shattering, but pretty fucking good! The conversations in-between encounters were always pretty fun too. He disappeared for a while with no word and popped back up recently. Earlier this week I decided, against my better judgment, to test the waters and sent a friendly hello over IM. We ended up chatting for a while, pleasant conversation, and things seemed fine. I have seen him online since then, but figured if he wanted to chat again, he'll send me a message. Well, he just sent one and it was just downright fucked up. I'm not going to share here, but it was meant to be mean and hurtful. But basically said not to contact him again. But I have a thicker skin than to be intimidated, hurt, or left crying over it. Whatever. Jackass. He never deserved me to begin with. But that leads me to something that has always bothered me about this place. Since I don't have pictures posted, I wait and have a bit of conversation via email/IM before sharing any. There are times that I have shared one and then heard nothing. How fucking hard is it to say that you aren't interested/attracted and leave it at that? Or another scenario...the pictures are fine, meeting is set up that goes well (or some damn good actors), and then nothing. Is it really that hard to come up with a common courtesy comment that you aren't interested in going further? Have some fucking balls guys. It's not that hard. And you say that women play games? Give me a break! I'm tired of this petty bullshit. I've always questioned if I should really be on this site. I have always struggled with it. I want all the traditional stuff, but I am also a hot-blooded woman who needs certain attentions as well. It all comes down to this. Guys, you really don't have to be a prick. Common courtesy is never a bad thing. Remember, karma is a powerful thing and it will come back and bite you in the ass.  |
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Ok, I'm sorry I never contacted you again... I was embarrased for only having a two inch penis. You know what? Women so do it as well on here. They want pics, you give them, you are not hung to your ankles, they go away... This site sucks for that shit. I want you to realize, however, that there are guys out here that will overlook physical appearences when they really get to know you, whether through IM, email, or your blog. There have been 2 girls that I fell in love with from their writing alone.
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11/14/2006 6:13 am |
Well damn! I always thought being a prick was a requirement. I know exactly how you feel. I've had my share of disappearances. I think my marital status has a lot to do with it, which is completely understandable. I don't know why it is so hard for women to tell me good-bye or even invite me to go fuck myself if they are not interested in me.
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