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WTF??????????
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WTF?????????? So my head is spinning a million miles an hour right now. Why? You ask? Well i just do not get why women have to keep playing stupid dating games. So i guess i should enlighten you a little. Ok a lot on what has happened over the last 2 months. Girl number 1. We connected through another site. We had awesome conversations and i asked her out. She put me off and put me off and put me off. I asked why. She told me that she just got out of an abusive relationship and wanted to take it slow. 3 weeks go by and we are still having awesome conversations and i shown her that I am not an abusive person. I have even told her that I have been through the abusive thing myself. So she finally said lets meet. We met up in a park close by to us. Had great time talking and she told me that she wanted to see me more again. That was on a very cold Saturday night. The next day she is supposedly at home watching the hawks on TV. I was doing errands. That Monday i sent a message asking her out for Friday evening. That is when she told me that she got laid by a guy that each of them lost contact of each other years before. But she has actively started a relationship with him after they fucked the day away on that sunday. I sent her a message letting her know that I was not pleased that she led me on all this time and telling me that we were going to go out. She sent me a message asking me why i was so hostile towards her. I just told her that If i did to her what she had done to me, she would gone off on me. She just blew it off. Here it is a month later, I have noticed that she has been looking at my profile again. But i do not dare try and contact her because of the BS she pulled on me. Girl number 2. She and i connected on a different site from here and the other girl. We talked via email in that site for a week. Until the emails started not showing up but the site kept telling us they were going through. So 3 weeks ago we shifted to texting. I asked her out for dinner. She told me no. She was not ready to meet anybody right now as she just got out of a relationship where the guy was controlling her and not letting her to enjoy life. I told her that i am not like those people she was dating. So we continued to text every day. There was not a day i was not having to delete 500 text messages so my phone would speed back up. I finally got her to agree that we could meet when she felt comfortable that i was not a controlling abusive jerk. I showed her that over and over and over every day. Today i was telling her about how crappy of a day i had at work. You know, the rain, the having to finish throwing<b> straps </font></b>on a trailer this morning in the rain, the no paperwork to make my delivery and the bad one. Another truck cut me off and pushed me into the on coming traffic all because he was stupid. I asked her about her day and then we had some good conversations. Then i am sitting down to eat dinner in gig harbor.We are texting. I asked her when she and I were going to get together as i have Proven myself to her constantly. what do I get? "I don't know". Then, "I went out with another gentleman lastnight and we are going out again this weekend. I really enjoy talking to you and do not want to stop talking to you". What do i do? "Yeah, thanks for putting me off so some other asshole that hasn't had to prove himself over and over to you to show you that I am not like the other assholes you were dating. If feels really awesome to have some a mature woman who leads me on by telling me we are going to get together but goes out with someone else who she just connected with 2 days ago". What the fuck is the problem with women? I am not saying all women are like this. But damn it. I am finding more and more women pulling this shit. Is it that I am too fucking nice? Is it that i am not a rude asshole saying "hey baby. I love the size of your tits. Lets fuck the night away'???? I just do not get it. Do not tell me that that is the problem. How can i get something when everybody is deceiving and lying every time i turn around. The only honest one is me. I do not play games with anyones heart or their heads. I do not lead people on. I am up front about wanting a relationship. But no one else is. I have used this site for a few years. I met a couple women. But even here I can not get anyone to talk to me. I wrote my profile and re-wrote my profile and even had help from a female friend to write my profile. I get maybe 1 or 2 looks a week. I get favorited once a month. But those are usually in a different state or country. I was talking to one lady on here. We were getting ready to meet up. Her husband Uses her for a gang bang all the time but has a girlfriend elsewhere. Her husband told me he would not talk to me unless i join the masses of men fucking his wife for his pleasure. He got even more rude to me when it was not called for. So i stopped talking to her. Every other day i see she is looking at my profile. I know she wants to meet up with me and leave her husband out of it. But i don't respond to her as i do not want to deal with her rude husband. What do i do? How do i go about finding someone i can play with and maybe build something with? Or am i just another dumb ass hillbilly that women think they are better than? |
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A couple of thoughts.... First, let me fix a little thing for you, your sentence should read as follows, "Well i just do not get why people have to keep playing stupid dating games". Men do as many screwy things as women do, just read some of the blogs written by women here. Next, you said, "...and i shown her that I am not an abusive person". There really isn't any way to demonstrate that you aren't abusive or controlling from just texting and chatting. Oe of the things about men like that is that they are very personable and charming until they have a woman isolated and emotionally attached. But let's get to what happened to you. I've got a little insight for you: these women kept you cooling your heels because you were their Plan B. The may have thought you were a nice guy to talk to but you didn't light their fire. When they found someone who did they gave you the heave ho. What's your lesson learned? Don't chat for weeks and weeks on end. If a woman won't commit to meet after you ask her a couple of times, cut her loose and move along.
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