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This guy's reply has me speechless in a bad way
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This guy's reply has me speechless in a bad way I'm on a certain match site and this guy's profile seemed too perfect - "I just recently separated from the military and looking to re acclimate myself to civilian life. Im a hopeless romantic. Im also a very affectionate guy. Not that too much in your face in public but the kind that likes to steal a kiss now and then, and just show his girl how he feels. I want to find someone that when we say goodbye, Im counting down the minuets till were together again. But in the end im looking for the ONE girl that is perfect for me. Someone that I would like to spend my life with in its entirety. Im old fashioned when it comes to alot of things. I am a man of respect and honor. I believe that a relationship is mutual and both are partners and not to be<b> dominated </font></b>by one or the other. Im looking for a dork, seeing as i am a dork myself  I like to have fun and be a goof. Laughing is one of my favorite things to do. Im always on some sort of adventure and always looking towards the next. Being half Irish I can be pretty bold and stubborn. Keeps me on the road least traveled and keeps me from giving up! Im old country boy. Northern country boy that is. Not the cowboy boot wearing kinda southern country. Im not so good at this profile thing or talking about myself. So hopefully this all made some sense and anything else youll just have to ask and find out!"That was copied exactly how it's on that site. Now while lack of punctuation in some parts can throw me off, it wasn't too bad and his words were exactly what I'd like in a relationship. I should've known it was too perfect. I emailed him and said how much I liked his profile and that was what I was looking for. Here is what he replied "Hello Ashley thank you for your kind words. I want to be completely honest. Now that im back home and in the area, im not really looking for a relationship right now. But I would be interested in maybe a hookup. I am going to be very blunt and and if i offend im sorry. And ill understand if i dont hear back from you. But if you are good at and would like to give me head let me know and maybe we can figure something out. If not good luck in your search on here" From his profile I'd say he is way misleading. I am debating sending a reply I typed out. Here's what I'm thinking of sending "Oh no I will reply to that cause I just couldn't believe it. You really need to change your profile if that's not what you're looking for because I'd have never bothered with you. That came off very rude and you got me speechless and not in a good way. I am not a chick who is desperate enough to say sure I'll give you head. I guess I should be thankful for your honesty but really all I see is a guy who reels women in with a BS profile and then drops the bomb. You are a perfect example of what guys will never have a chance in hell with me. By the way I am VERY good at head, so I've been told many times, but you won't get to find out. Good luck." Also, I have an inkling since his profile says his match body preferences are athletic and toned that because I don't fit that he figured maybe he could get something out of me anyway. There's a myth big girls are easy, and that is so far from the truth. What do you guys think? Should I send that? Was he misleading? Thoughts? I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel! Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless! |
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Quite simply.... don't waste any more of your time on him... even your time is far more than he deserves... chalk him up as a complete douchebag and move on. You'll find a decent guy at some point, sadly you'll find heaps more dickheads first. Much as I hate to say it, but, there are far more fuckwits out there than decent guys. It is even sader that the proportion is the same with women. Good luck in your search... and for my worthless opinion, you seem like one of the good ladies out there... I hope a lucky guy is worthy of you soon.  Take care, have fun.
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"Say what you mean and mean what you say" is the advice this guy should be given. Yes, he was misleading.
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Nah... don't waste your time on a reply. He's probably waiting for one! Don't play into that kind of childish crap, delete, block and move on!
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Oh even the men here maintain that they are romantics, looking for soulmate, old fashion. I just had a guy tell me this morning that he is old fashioned when comes time to court a woman. OMFG. Really? You cant be too old fashioned being on a sex site.
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At least he didn't say he was a God fearing man. That's usually code for Nigerian Scammer. I am the only Me you get.
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