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Blogs > lostsands01 > Thoughs and Remarks....?

Lust and Love  

lostsands01 45M  
5 posts
10/3/2014 8:29 am

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12/9/2014 12:45 am
Lust and Love
In the past, I have tried to my date's "perfect sexual" encounter. I could go to places that involved everything from Domination, Bondage, Marathon Sex, Romantic, Soft and gentle love making sort of situation. The only things I drew the line at was scat, blood, needles, being on the receiving end of pain, and urine play. The reason I was able to go to those "acts" is because I had no emotional attachment to my date. The driving force was to try and show her and awesome time and help her forget what ever it was that was stressing her out/rebounding from.

Now that I am in a relationship. I am finding out my lavish menu of "Sexual Desires" is to be focused on one person alone. This is kinda hard for me to keep my drive up. How does one go from being that "great sexual adventure memory" to being one's continuous great sexual partner? I have always kept love and lust separated. By keeping those two houses of thought on different sides of the street, per say. I am able to play uninhibited and be the best sexual toy that I can be.

I am scared to death of screwing up. After all "wild animal" will do what is in its nature to do. And with all the temptation that is out there and raising its enticing head. I have taken the high road so far and not put myself in a position. It is sorta like this. Imagin that you are a recovering addict (and if you are a recovering addict, you got the part down) and you look out your front door and go out and about your day. When all of a sudden, What ever your addiction was. There it is, walking around. everywhere you look. Walking bottles of booze, drugs, you name it. There it is walking around and waiting for you to partake in its debaucherous splendor. Or one could compare my fear to a Dr. Hook song, "One Step From the Jungle to the Zoo".

In closing I am somewhat educated and know that if I live in fear of screwing up. It will envelop me and that will sour my relationship faster than milk being left out for three days in the July Sun. But how do I maintain the bar that I set for my partner's happiness. It was more fun in setting the bar and walking away. Yes I am that kind of egotistical asshole. However, I prefer being called and instigating, irritating, little shit. If you have any advice to share, I am all ears.
lostsands01 45M  
3 posts
10/3/2014 11:42 am

 My partner is interested in exploring. I guess I am afraid of using up all my tricks.


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