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Guide to a Great Sexual Experience  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
6/1/2018 9:02 pm

Last Read:
11/29/2019 10:22 am

Guide to a Great Sexual Experience

An older post worth repeating....



I hear it from younger men that they want to be with an<b> older woman </font></b>because of her experience so they can learn. As one who has no desire to teach during play, I still am willing to give some advice. First and foremost, SLOW DOWN and SAVOR. Men seem to put so much pressure on themselves to bring a woman to orgasm that they concentrate mainly on the genitals and they don''t take into account that there is a whole body filled with erogenous zones wanting to be stimulated. Not that having someone lick a clit and finger fuck simultaneously is bad, but there is so much more...more before you get to that point.

It all starts with foreplay. Verbal foreplay is the beginning, words, through chat or spoken....teasing conversation, playful innuendo, expression of desire, all gets things started. This leads into a good make out session - kisses, soft tender, then deep passionate and wet. Touching, stroking the entire body. Of course the breasts and nipples need attention, but exploring and discovering every inch is pleasantly erotic and extremely stimulating. Don't rush through this...take your time it will get a woman to the point where she wants you to go down on her and/or fuck her...her body is craving the ultimate intensity of feeling you tease her clit...enter her now very wet, wanting pussy...anxiously anticipating your hard cock deep inside, sliding in over and over again.

Moments like this are not just for your first encounter. In order for a sexual relationship to sustain, there needs to be continual passion, not just the mechanical, lets both have an orgasm and be done with it, sex. There will be times that a fast fuck is desired; however, that should be the exception, not the norm. By the way, if any women are reading this...the same should be reciprocated to the man. He may like a quick blow job to get things started, but once he's experienced someone appreciating and lusting over his entire body, taking a slow passionately erotic approach....he'll never forget it.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
11/25/2019 6:41 pm

Well said. I have learned to take my time. If you are moving too slow a smart woman will move you along. A brilliant woman will work with you so you both have the time of your life every time


tresennui replies on 11/29/2019 10:23 am:
Thanks for reading..and commenting. I’m not very active here anymore and pleasantly surprised when someone checks out my blog.

FrankieMike30 53M

12/29/2018 7:03 am

Mental foreplay can be very intense. It sets the mood way ahead of time and the anticipation can heighten all of the senses and lead to even more pleasure when finally being touched.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/6/2018 9:36 pm

    Quoting Ienjoythetaste:
    Nothing really to add, except perhaps good sex doesn't stop after you have both cum. Both need to be brought back to earth. No I don't mean have have a smoke I mean cuddle, kiss and go back to the body and play with the whole of it gently.
Gotta admit I do not always feel like cuddling post coitally. Need a moment or two to just chill untouched.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/6/2018 9:33 pm

    Quoting leemydan:
    After good conversion, joking and play around, kissing, That offering a full body massage, and towel covering butt, starting with fingers and slowly, 1 1/2 to 2 hours later at feet, slow help her roll on to back. Now slow massage up legs lightly kissing inner legs every few minutes. Stopping short of pot of gold and continue to belly, kissing and licking lower ribs. Continue to breast but not touching breast. If she has not attacked by this time, pack your bags and leave, no love in her.
Mmmmmmmm

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
6/2/2018 2:01 am

Nothing really to add, except perhaps good sex doesn't stop after you have both cum. Both need to be brought back to earth. No I don't mean have have a smoke I mean cuddle, kiss and go back to the body and play with the whole of it gently.

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proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
6/1/2018 11:26 pm

Well stated my lady, indeed !
And kudos for mentioning the mental foreplay
of chat and innuendos

Cheers - P


SingleStr8NYCGuy 54M
59 posts
6/1/2018 10:45 pm

Well said. The better part of fun in sex is discovering what gets your playmate breathless, and making the fireworks last as long as possible.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
6/1/2018 9:09 pm

Anything to add?

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


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