253 posts 1/30/2009 3:45 pm
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MEN RESPECT A WOMAN WHO RESPECTS HERSELF...
MEN LOVE UNPREDICTABILITY.
Men are infinitely attracted to a woman who is filled with passions and more.
Men love it when in the beginning of the relationship they love that heart-pumping, adrenaline-fueled feeling they get when the phone goes ring...ring...ring... and they're not sure whether you're going to pick up.
Men tend to chase woman who act busy, act mysterious and he'll want to learn more about you, act like you have a life and he'll want to date you. Its true, I know from experience...
Now on the surface at the beginning of a relationship we are actually doing ourselves a favor by holding our tongue and guarding our heart.
Contrary to the belief of many women, men don't want to date a doormat. Calmly let him know that you expect to be treated with respect and give him the opportunity to prove whether he’s capable of following through.
Not any woman has the power to change a man, ever. The only way he will change his behavior is if he recognizes it on his own and has a genuine willingness to change.
If a man is emotionally unavailable, no amount of effort on your part will be able to convince him to open up and make you an important part of his life. It doesn't’t mean that you’re not pretty enough, smart enough, thin enough, funny enough, or whatever enough. In fact, it’s not about YOU at all. It’s about HIS own issues and if he doesn't’t recognize how amazing you are and can’t meet your needs, you are MUCH better off moving on to find someone who can.
In fact, there's nothing cooler than a woman who takes charge of her life.
Most guys DO ultimately want to find a quality woman to settle down with, but they still wrestle with fears about how a commitment might negatively impact their life.
I hope this helps all women who believe they need to give a man respect first to get respect.
GOOD LUCK!!!
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Life is not measured by the amount of breathes we take, but by the amount of moments it takes our breath away. Life is too short to hold grudges! Beverley xxx
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1/31/2009 10:23 am
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Respect works well when it works from both ends of a relationship. It is really hard to respect someone who has little respect for themselves or for others.
Great Post! 
H.  
My4biddenLover replies on 2/1/2009 7:18 pm:
I couldn't agree more. Maybe thats one of the reason's I respect you because I believe that I may have earned your respect. |
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