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Mistress Lorrie  

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3/27/2007 11:45 am

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3/27/2007 11:23 pm
Mistress Lorrie
About 4 years ago I explored my dominant side. Women of my era were not supposed to be dominant. Even today, society and most men expect a women to be 'submissive and demure' as a man recently said to me. Well that's not me ... yet for most of my life I've suppressed my dominant side to conform. During my exploration I made friends with my dominant self and realized that I do not want to dominate and control as is thought of when the word Dom is used. I am not into the cock and ball torture, beatings, humiliation, strap on, and so on. I decided I was 'moderately dominant'. I think that it's easier to be at either end of the spectrum than it is to find balance in the middle. I am still trying to find that balance, hence the change in my profile. I do want to be in charge, I do want my needs fulfilled, I do want to tease and please my partner but on my own terms, I don't want to feel obligated or taken for granted or follow someone else's agenda, because usually that means I am not going to get much of what I want. I recently was told to look at a site by Elise Sutton and some of the things she said there made alot of sense to me. The role of the dominant female is very much one of sensuality and seduction .. that is very much me ... and that if she uses it wisely it can provide alot of stimulation and excitement for the male as well as enjoyment, fulfillment, and getting the needs met for the female. Let's face it, men want sex, and intermittant reward is the strongest reinforcer there is. That is why gambling is so popular, a person will work and wait for that great payoff. So I am giving in to my sensual and seductive nature but am withholding the big reward enough that it keeps its value. To me this only makes sense. Men do not value or respect a woman who gives sex any time she is asked by anyone who asks. Men also like a challange. It seems there is a way both the man and woman can get more of what they want.

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