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Sore but totally worth it  

Horny18425 38M
16 posts
3/24/2015 6:01 pm

Last Read:
3/31/2015 3:12 pm

Sore but totally worth it


So I have been really erratic as always with posting in here, but time for a catch up.

So my December post hinted that I had undergone some major surgery.
I had what is know as a pouch surgery; this was a follow up operation to having my large intestine removed 9 years ago.

In doing the surgery they had to cut me from 3/4 forth abdominals down to the pubic muscles; right down the middle, also cause I had a stoma from the previous surgery they had to deal with that. It involved a hole on my right obliques.
When the surgeon went in to deal with the stoma site she found a hernia the size of a fist; turns out I should of been in agony but hadn't noticed ooops. Once she had dealt with that she had to unravel my very tangled small intestine; the one I have left, and form a J-pouch with it and attach it where my rectum used to be; she had to take it out to. The whole operation took about 11 hours, a serious shift from my amazing surgeon. Then after 15 days in hospital I was released back into the wild, but told to take it easy.

Now the last time I had this kind of surgery I was down at Hartpury for university six weeks later; it was freshers so I came of the pain meds and hit the booze. And apart from the odd soreness after pushing myself too hard at badminton or my picking up my friend Ashleigh; she was only little, I was fine.

This time around it is taking me so much longer to get anywhere back to healthy.
I have been told it will be July/August before I can do any core work or heavy lifting.
This is not helped by having to adjust my diet, it was only at the start of this month that I have been able to incorporate fruit and veg into it. Still no beer or spicy food yet.

Anyway now to the sore but worth it bit;

I'm hoping by the end of summer I'll be talking about the whole surgery thing in those terms,

Last Thursday I randomly met a girl off of Tinder.
We had started chatting that day, she was up in Aberdeen visiting her sister but heading back to Edinburgh that night. We chatted about this and that;

turns out her dads a minister and she goes to church every Sunday.

Each to their own: but I was thinking not going to be having any sexy fun times with her any time soon.
So we are chatting away and I ask her if she has seen Brick;

it's a great movie with joseph gordon-levitt in it.

She had not see it I told her she should. She makes what I think is a joke about film night at mine tonight, saying her train gets in at nearly midnight. At least I thought it was a joke so went along, we chatted some more then she asks for my address incase her battery dies. I give her my address thinking she isn't actually going to turn up;

but still change the sheets and have a shower, cause you never know.

So she turns up we have a drink start chatting I put the movie on but we are chatting and not really watching about half way through she points out that she has no idea what is going on. So we switch to Con Air and play card games while watching that. By the time Con air is finished;

great background movie btw.

It's getting close to 3 and I am starting to wonder where this is going; it's reached the point where if she is going to catch a bus home she should be leaving about now, she says it's my turn to pick the next movie;

guess she is staying the night, I have a spare room so there is no implied sexy fun times.

I start flicking through my case of dvds, trying to decide what we should watch; having missed with Brick, I was thinking mindless action;

she had chosen Con Air.

She spots Sharpe and asks if we can watch Sharpes Waterloo. Anyway so we are watching that and most of the way through it she starts stretching her neck and shoulders. Being the courteous host that I am I offer to give her a neck rub, will one thing leads to another and next thing you know we are making out like a couple of<b> teenagers.
</font></b>After a bit she asks if we can lose some clothes I suggest we move to the bedroom;

by this point I am thinking great may get some hands stuff even some oral if I'm lucky

And boy was I lucky it started with some oral for her but after she came, she wanted more so it was full blown sex;
Bare in mind that I had not had any since mid November, due to the surgery
Well it was great we switch through a few different positions both had a really good time, then got cleaned up, went for a sleep woke up in the around 11:30, made out some more and then she had to leave.
I did meet her again on Saturday but we just went to the National museum and Greyfriars, no funny business.

To be totally honest the main reason for no funny business on Saturday was that I was sore across my core, by the time I got home after walking around all day I was bloody shattered. So as I say it was sore but worth it.

It was great to know that I have reached the point in my recovery where I am able to have sex with someone and it not be a major issue, I mean of course that wasn't my best performance my cardio is way down and I am limited with movement/ positions, but that doesn't mean I can't connect with someone on a physical level and both of us have some fun.

Holy Shit that is a ramble, well done if you got through all that. Also in regards to my previous post, I have new monitor so can now use frankenstein again so expect more rambling. You have been warned

Also feel free to comment but if it's about my writing style or grammar ; Fuck off I don't care, I'm dyslexic.

Come say hi


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
3/24/2015 7:24 pm

congrats on a successful surgery and recovery!!! Wootwoot for having sex again


Horny18425 replies on 3/25/2015 11:46 am:
Thanks, hope things are going well with your son being back home.

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