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Giving It Up ...  

purecanesug043 60F
15 posts
8/2/2007 12:42 pm

Last Read:
8/28/2007 9:19 pm

Giving It Up ...

I am, as stated within my profile, straight forward and upfront when it comes to expressing who I am. I provide, to any interested, pursuing, party on this site, a facial pic at their request when contacting me via email. My profile expresses my initial intentions and is backed up with my expression of why women like me are here in my first posted blog…

I don’t get it; what in my profile warrants males to think I am ready to fuck them on the very first introduction? Does no one understand what spoiling and pampering OUTSIDE as well as INSIDE of bed means? It does not mean I want a<b> sugar daddy </font></b>or am after anyone’s wallet. I may not be rolling in money at this time in my life, but I have a wallet of my own!! And...rest assured that in the near future I will be more than satisfied where money is concern, through my own hard work and labor...I'm NOT looking for free handouts!!

Granted there are a lot of females that play games on this site, as well as in the real world, but then, there are a lot of females that don’t….I would classify myself as one that doesn’t! I refuse to play 'the game” of lets fuck straight out on initial meeting via email or in person! So, if you are one of those guys on this site that is in search of that type of female, don’t email me…you’ll only be disappointed.

In my two years of being on this site, here is the conclusion I have now derive. I have found that a large portion of men on this site are phony; looking for a sexual relationship without the romance of dating (hey, lets just meet and fuck and go our separate ways); the obligation of being in a relationship as a friend (no strings attached), or just plain sick in the mind (relaying their sexual preferences with no class what-so-ever on initial meeting, via email or IM, offsite IMs included). Then there are those who feel that friends with benefits means meeting for booty calls (friends part of the relationship would be the calling when you’re in the mood for sex and the benefit is actually getting sexed). Here’s my question, where’s the friendship in the relationship? Booty calls I could get all day long, they are shallow and a waste of MY time, so who needs them! What happened to calling just to shoot the breeze or actually going out and spending some time together BEFORE the rump in the sack?????

All of this therefore leads me to the overall expectation of never meeting anyone with an ounce of scruples or GENTLEMAN like characteristics on this site. Adding to that thought the realization that many males on this site lack game! I conclude that I am through with explaining over and over who I am, on this site or otherwise… Being intrigued by my profile, if you can’t read between the lines and see the female behind the words then you’re never going to get to first base with me or any of the like minded females who are on this site.

A word to all males signing on this site with the impression that EVERY female here is looking to be laid upon first greeting…while there maybe a lot who are, THIS female IS NOT going to give up the ass to ANYONE upon initial meeting, email or otherwise…even if I’m horny as hell!

Don’t get it twisted…yes, I am on this site as opposed to any other site that would advertise under the guise of just meeting someone for dating purposes only, but we all know those sites are just hiding behind the real reason they are advertising meeting others. I signed up with this site because it plainly put it out there that this was a site for those ADULTS that want to find like-minded individuals who could possibly be a match sexually.

I consider myself a woman with a healthy libido (highly sexual female), that knows how to turn on that side of me at the appropriate time. NOT sickened by the idea of specific sexual preferences in a guy, given that he presents his preferences with tastes (class and style)! I am somewhat taken back on how initial introductions of ones self to me is that in complete reverse of their profile. Granted your initial intro to me could steamed from your hormonal need to be pleasured at that present time...in which case that's cool and completely understandable, but at least intro yourself with the same intellect as you've provided in your profile before slamming a girl with your kinky side!

Again, some, no matter what I write, just will not get what I am saying.

Stated with sweet intentions always...

PCSug


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