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Sex toys for men...........  

hairyguynw 62M
71 posts
9/3/2008 12:26 pm
Sex toys for men...........

For years I've thought that women have a HUGE advantage over men in terms of sex toys that are available to them. At any adult toy store there are dozens upon dozens of different dildos, vibrators, and clit stimulators of every size, shape and configuration.

In contrast to the rack after rack of women's toys in most stores, there are usually one or two racks of toys for men. There seem to be about four different catagories for toys for men.

The blow up doll or molded pussy and ass. That seems silly and a waste of the high cost for those. If you're masturbating, why do you you need to pretend your fucking someone, particularly an inanimate object?

There are the penis pumps. I'm not sure if they work as a masturbation toy or just in the mistaken belief that it'll make your dick bigger. In either role, they don't appear to be worth the price.

Then there are the simple latex sleeves that fit around your dick into your hand. I don't see how that adds any more stimulation than just using your hand.

Finally, there are the few toys that have some type of sleeve for your cock with a vibrating attachment, usually one of the eggs with a control device wired to it. This is the only type that seems worth trying. (Although I think it's a bit silly that they feel the need to make the opening in the shape of a mouth, pussy or ass.)

So, in the past couple weeks I've bought two of the vibrating variety to try out. I had been reluctant to spend the money on one, but decided that since most women (at least the women here on FriendFinder-x) have one or more toys, why shouldn't I? I used to say that my hand was better than any toy, but wanted to try something that vibrates, since that always works so well for women.

The first one I bought was a disappointment. It has rubber outer sleeve (that isn't very flexible), and inside there's a thin flexible latex inner sleeve with a vibrating egg at the tip (the best way to describe the inner sleeve is that it looks like an oversize and very thick condom). The problem with that toy is that the outer sleeve's opening isn't very big and since it doesn't stretch I could only slide my cock partway in. Even then, I could barely feel the vibrations from the egg. On top of that, the egg resting just against the very tip of my dick wasn't the best sensation for the vibrations. I did find that it works better pulling the inner sleeve all the way out and just using that and the egg alone. Not the best, but not a complete bust.

The second one I bought was a lot better, but still left a little to be desired. It's an open ended stretchy sleeve with<b> nubs </font></b>on the inside and with a vibrating egg on the base. That works pretty well... although it's so tight it took a ton of lube and a lot of effort to be able to slide into it and when I finished and pulled out there were were little marks all over my dick that looks like bruises from the<b> nubs </font></b>(although they disappeared pretty quickly).

The funny thing is that perhaps the best toy is something I used as a . It was an old fashioned massager that strapped to the back of your hand and was designed for "legit" massaging (it was my parent's after all). The vibrations went through my hand and added a lot of extra stimulation as I just jacked off with it.

You'd think that it wouldn't be that hard to design a good toy for men... especially when you consider all the creativity that went into designing all the different toys for women.

Fabulous36DD 55F

9/5/2008 6:39 am

 I think the best sex toys for men are about the prostate. My favorites are a vibrating and rotating butt plug, a vibrating butt plug with a latex "cage" that fits around the cock and vibrates too, and the Aneros prostate stimulator. I agree with you that fake pussies seem silly, but there are a million vids on XTube of men jacking off into Fleshlights!


hairyguynw replies on 9/5/2008 12:47 pm:
The problem with the fleshlight design is that with the rigid outside, they aren't "one size fits all". When I showed the 2 I bought to a woman friend and commented that at the one that's rigid was too tight, she commented that they were probably designed for guys with slim dicks since guys with nice thick ones are getting laid enough not to need a toy.

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