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Wondering..... And Some Issues  

Maanskynrosie 45F
84 posts
3/19/2014 8:43 am
Wondering..... And Some Issues


So I have been back for a week or two....

And I am wondering if people actually have any real success on here?

Please share your success stories as I would love to hear it.

I remember when I started out, we used to have quite a few meet and greets which was an awesome way to meet the people we chatted to and no real expectations.... just looking, having a drink, some flirting and see if we do see someone we "click" with and see if there is chemistry which is very important I think....

Now I am wondering... even though there is a lot of prospects... are they for real? (Not talking about a few previous contacts that I reconnected with )

Then the next thing is, there is always a issue....

like venue..... Why make these offers, if you don't have a venue.... Am I suppose to source the venue.... nope I don't think so.....

Or Smoking.... I prefer to hook up with someone that doesn't smoke.... and still I get contacted by "heavy smokers". I have nothing against people that smoke... its just I don't want to kiss them or by kissed or licked or whatever by them...

or Race Preferences...... don't think I should get into that here, accept... I am not a racist person by nature, but I would prefer to hook up with my preferences.

or My Body Size.... I think all woman have body issues and that will never change, but you can see from my photies that I am HUGE! That is the way I look and I am HAPPY , so why go through all the trouble to meet me, just to say oooo no you are tooo big..... Don't get that...I think men like that have no balls

or looks.... I am no oil painting and this is ok to, as long as I am Happy... but I am not going to go this route if I don't find the person attractive.... or there has to be some spark.... even if its only wild animal lust

or age..... once again I like to keep more or less in my preference age group.... hmm think some people cannot read

I am really not complaining as some of the Gentlemen I have been in contact with are really nice and maybe just maybe we will go beyond online flirting.....

Come on.... give me hope...


TXArmyWife 51F
1964 posts
3/19/2014 3:00 pm

I have had real success. I state, honestly, on my profile, what I am looking for. There are so many men who don't read profiles, though. I'm surprised by the body size issue. I am, also, large and I don't get contacted by men who don't like that.

I need a really great kiss!!


Anchoroid 57M
93 posts
3/19/2014 1:53 pm

Ahh welcome back!!!


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
3/19/2014 9:42 am

Like you I have been on the then now back on this site. I must say
that the few women I have met have all been very nice, sociable and fortunately just as horny as myself.


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