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Blogs > VARIETY1970 > VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE

HOW TO REALLY MAKE YOUR WOMAN HAPPY!!!  

VARIETY1970 53M  
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8/14/2007 1:07 am

Last Read:
12/4/2014 4:39 am
HOW TO REALLY MAKE YOUR WOMAN HAPPY!!!

I cannot Believe how many men I have come across men who are extremely anxious about performing oral sex on a woman as they pefer to receive than gave. For some reason they feel they can’t do anything right or at the very least are a little insecure about whether or not their partner is experiencing pleasure and having an orgasm. If you are one of these men do not despair! There are many things you can do to improve your skills in this area! There is no need to be intimidated. Oral sex is like any other part of expressing your sexuality in a healthy, successful, pleasurable way-if you are able to pay attention and put forth a little effort there is no reason why you should not be able to give your partner tremendous pleasure!

Some simple tips you can use as a starting point for amazing oral sex. They are perfect examples of steps you can take that do not require a lot of thought or preparation. Check them out and give them a try!

1.Put a pillow under her hips. It provides easy access!

2.The tongue can feel rough when it is dry! Be sure to coat your lips and tongue with saliva!

3.After you have been going down on her for a while, try inserting your finger in her vagina and stimulating her g-spot!

4.Work UP to the clitoris. Start by kissing the inside of her thighs, then her whole vulva and finally the clitoris.

5.Know your anatomy!! It is hard to stimulate the clitoris if you don’t know what it is or where it is located! Or anything else for that matter…

6.Ask your partner for feedback. Every so often, ask her if it feels good, what would feel good etc. There is a gentle way to ask and give feedback about sexual performance. If the lines of communication are open from the start, this will be easier but also, don’t be afraid to jump in during the middle of things!

7.Vary your intensity! Many women prefer that you start slow and gradually increase the intensity and many women need more intensity the closer they get to orgasm.

8.If your woman is experiencing vaginal dryness, try some flavored lube!!!

Remember - You guys aren't the only ones that enjoy oral sex.. And if you are going to do it, we want you to do it well! So keep the above in mind next time the occasion comes up ( no pun intended!) and you and your partner will both enjoy a more gratifying and intimate sexual experience.

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