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Finding Myself , As me and Being Transgender!  

sexyasian_mialee 44T
311 posts
12/3/2012 10:13 am

Last Read:
1/14/2013 8:17 pm

Finding Myself , As me and Being Transgender!

When I was growing up...being gay was not easy. I was treated differently! I got beated up by my older brother and including my uncle!Because they want me to be like them a "Real Man!" It was not good memories when I was growing up....I have bullied at school and public places, because I walked too feminine...

My Grandmother, Aunts and older cousins taught me how to cook and how to wash clothes by hands (Old School). I have learned so much from them....and one of my older cousins, started putting me some make up on (Should I blamed it to her that I am TG now? LO Oh well, I had some bad memories but also a good one's!

My Dad, died.. when I was 5 years old!( He will probably have beat me up too, if he sees me the way I act! ha ha ha) My Mom went to overseas,
to worked as a House Maid and to be a Baby sitter! My Mother have to sacrificed to be away with her ...She have to leave me by the age of 4 years old....So, my Grand Mother has to raised me.

When I was going to high school..they had an Event for Boys who will dress like a girl( Miss Barbie at that time)! And my classmates picked me to join to that contest! To tell you what, when I was in that stage...My Grand Mother was there and watching me...and she was very supportive! As I remember, she was very happy, the way she smiled at me that moment! I so miss my Grand Mother. She have taught me to be strong and she have never against for being me! She was too cool! May she rest in Peace!

I have learned so much.....when I was growing up! I learned how to survived..When I finish High School! I started working, at the Beauty Salon, My Gay friends taught me how to cut hair, do make up etc....My Gay friends and TG friends were awesome! The support I was getting there was quite overwhelmed! Which is supposed to be...

Then my Mom told me she is sending me back to College, so I went and I have to stopped! I did finish my degree in Dental Hygiene! Being a Transgender and being Educated is something you have to be proud of! I achieved some of my goals in my LIFE!

And, Well My Mom found her soul mate in the USA...My Loving Step Dad( who is also gone) He was a Father figure! I treated him like my dad when I was in 5th grade....He was wonderful! He didn't have problem being me as Transgender! He was open minded! That's why I am here in the US! I am very thankful with my parents, who brought me here....and given me chance to explore my Life!

I am now...more motivated and goal oriented! I have been thru a lot! But Life is Beautiful....stay positive so you can overcome the trials you may have! To all LGBT and straight.....Life must go on, never lose your faith or hope! Have a wonderful day I hope you do like my simple story of me.....bye for now!


hilton710 119M
130 posts
12/3/2012 1:54 pm

Thank you for posting your inspiring story Leah. Never change for anyone,just be yourself...that is what attracts good light into your life.Never let anyone take advantage of you or take your kindness for weakness either. Just be your adorable self little one.


sexyasian_mialee 44T
53 posts
12/3/2012 7:59 pm

Thank you guys.....I have more story to come! My Next one will be Coming to America! hehe


mlc55 67M
1 post
1/14/2013 10:07 pm

Thank you for sharing that story with us Leah. I am sure you are an inspiration for other transgendered people everywhere.
I am glad you got through your rough early years to become the strong and wonderful person that you are now.
Your beauty not only shines on the outside but also from within, don't change for anyone, stay true to yourself.
I for one am glad you are here beautiful lady.


swimdad1 72M

9/13/2013 3:25 am

Hi Mia You are like a fine wine. Always getting better with age.


swimdad1 72M

11/14/2013 6:07 am

You are like a fine wine, better with age


swimdad1 72M

5/14/2014 3:02 pm

Hi Leah Keep missing you online. If you are ever going to come to the San Francisco Bay area please let me know.


dess36 53M

12/7/2014 9:43 am

mira como me pones...


dess36 53M

12/7/2014 9:44 am

me gustas...


swimdad1 72M

1/29/2015 4:22 am

Hi Leah any chance you are coming to California this year Be great to meet you.

Steve


swimdad1 72M

3/31/2015 5:13 pm

Hi Leah Do you think you will be coming to Los Angeles in the future. Just relocated back here. Steve


swimdad1 72M

2/28/2016 6:19 am

Hi always hoping that if you ever come to Los Angeles that you will let me know. Be great to really meet you in person.


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