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The Oldest Profession  

rm_Quixy101 71M
2827 posts
8/11/2011 9:17 am
The Oldest Profession

I have wondered for many years why<b> </font></b>is illegal. I get it that not all women that are doing it are "willingly" doing it. I understand all the ramifications of that, etc. But there are a number of women who actually like it and do it for not only the money.

I have only had occasion to be with one woman of the evening and to be quite frank she was very pleasant. She enjoyed doing this. It wasn't her full time job, nor did she want it to become so, but she did see a few men a month for fun and profit. We had anice evening. We met, had a few drinks, then a nice dinner and then she came back to my hotel room. It was all very sensual and pleasant. There was no rush, no "get it over with" type of behaviour. She had a fabulous orgasm as did I. We cuddled afterwards and exchanged small talk. Again no rush to leave, or anything obtrusive. The parting was much like any other set of lovers. I walked her to her car, we kissed and she drove home. It was actually very nice. I knew well before the meeting what she expected in the form of payment. This was exchanged when we first got to my hotel room and that was that. She didn't even ask me for the money, I gave it to her when we got there. She thanked me, put it away in her purse and pretended like it never happened. Perhaps she was the exception, but if all<b> </font></b>was like that I really can't see the problem.

No force, no desperation, no pimps, not "evil" and despicable...just fun and profit.

In some countries and some US states it is legal, policed and regulated. It is also worthy of note that these same places have much less incidence of , spousal abuse and such related crimes. By regulating and enforcing laws surrounding it these locales seem to have "cleaned" it up. I suppose its even taxed...lol.

There was a post on here a few months back by a fellow in California who said he prefers having his "dates" with prostitutes than women who were not. His point was he always knew what he was getting into and jokingly said these women actually saved him money in the long run. Lol. He was obviously the victim of a couple of women who were less than kind in divorces etc I suppose.

But if we did regulate it and made it a profession that was at least not illegal we might go a long way to reducing drug related issues, women and girls being forced into this, and reducing transmission of disease and the like. I know that in Nevada for example they have developed it into a tidy little business that pays taxes and conducts itself somewhat professionally.

I suppose there still is a stigma, but can it be worse than being a used car salesman. "What does your momma do?" would still be a difficult question for , but maybe you regulate women so that they can no longer partake when they want to have . What's past is past I think.

Now before you go off saying "Quixy!! Are you nuts!!" And start brandishing my name all over hells half acre as some sort of misogynist,pervert or whatever just consider my thesis. Would it solve some problems? Or would it create even more?

Lets just keep an open mind and discuss....



Namoge1 42M/38F  
259 posts
8/11/2011 5:25 pm

this is already the case in winnipeg more or less.. it just needs to be made official, Executive bath, Asian Massage, Broadway bath all offer "extras" Broadway bath does full serve (sex) and it is well documented.. however its "unofficial" cops know about it, politicians have licensed it and collect taxes on it. Assorted escorts in winnipeg are well understood for what they are. Steps are being taken to legalize it(they are appealing the fact that the bawdy house and communication for prostitution laws were struck down by court) so who knows.. this may become a more legitimate thing in the near future.

I myself would never frequent such a place however better regulated and controlled can only help

Besides my wife actualy has a fantasy about getting paid.. cant be all bad


rm_Quixy101 replies on 8/12/2011 10:03 am:
Didn't know about these things...Hmmm. Thanks for the info.

Just_MsRoss 49F

8/11/2011 12:32 pm

I could get behind the licensing of personal companions if that's what a person chooses to do.

My issue is with dishonesty from ones on here pretending to be other than what they are to take advantage of others.

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rm_Quixy101 replies on 8/12/2011 10:03 am:
That's true. The dishonesty is what makes it "dirty" I believe. Mind you I have only had one encounter...but being upfront and honest is always the best policy in my opinion.

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