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Being Honest
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Being Honest  Mar and I had a very interesting conversation this morning. For those of you new or who have forgotten, Mar is my FWB. She is a wonderful woman who I have been seeing for almost two years. We are not daily or weekly FWB's but we do see each other at least a couple of days a month. Currently she is my only FWB. And that's what we talked about this morning. She was wondering if because I keep mentioning her in my blog if that was why I was not seeing anyone else. She had heard through the local grapevine here that she should avoid Quixy because he already had a girlfriend. She said she laughed when she heard that cause she knew it was her. But then she wondered if that was causing me trouble becoming friends with other women. And so she said I should write about us breaking up. I asked her if that was what she wanted to do and she said "No! Of course not!" but that she thought it might make my life more interesting and easier to meet other women. So we chatted about honesty and truth in blogging and in life. I told her that most of what I write here is true and didn't want to change that. And certainly not just so I could meet more women. I told her that if women weren't interested in me because I saw her then that was fine. I didn't need to see them either. No strings attached means just that. If a woman doesn't want to be my FWB because I see other women well then that's her choice. The essence of "no strings" to me at least, means there are no strings tying anything down. I wouldn't say I didn't want them seeing others and they shouldn't tell me the same. OPEN RELATIONSHIP. Open to see others... I have a friend who calls this being "polyamourous", the state of having more than one lover. I think that I might not be quite that, but I would like to think I could manage few more than one FWB. But then that goes back to the whole idea of what a friend with benefits is in the first place...and I've made my beliefs there quite public. In any event you, dear readers, can trust my honesty level. Some of what I write is indeed a fantasy of what I wish for, but the rest is bang on real. I am too honest and truthful to be otherwise...never mastered that whole art of lying. |
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swinging in general.. or poly relationships work just fine.. they are just not for everyone.. Vast majority i have seen have worked.. then again the ones i have seen start with communication.. a thing most couples lack these days.. Honestly me and my wife didn't even start swinging till after we got married.. we wanted to wait till then. Granted our married life has issues.. swinging has perhaps solved a few of them... given it has improved our sex life.. we have also learned a few new tricks(not many) and we tend to be a lot closer following any swing.. We also would be divorced.. or never married if we hadn't planned to swing lol
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Good for you. And that polyamorous thing sounds good, but most I have seen end in a divorce or with bad feelings. Enjoy. She broke your throne, she cut your hair, and from your lips she drew the Halleluljah. -Cohen
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honesty is always the best policy if u ask me love. my mum always said to be a good liar u need to have a great memory, very true id say. big hugs love xoxoxoxox Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!  come visit my blog bettiebear Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.     
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