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Why Intimacy?
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Why Intimacy? I have often wondered and tried to analyze why intimacy is so easy with some people and so very difficult with others. I find that with some women I can just whip off the clothes and get to it while with others there is this inate shyness that makes the whole thing quite the struggle. I wonder why that is? I don't think it has anything to do with atraction, I mean I find attraction is a necessary part of any relationship. But I don't find myself more or less inclined to be nervous with someone who is attractive versus someone who someone who is drop dead gorgeous? So what is it then? And I don't think its all about chemistry either. I recall a wonderful woman I was very attracted to and had great chemistry with, yet when it came to intimacy we were both quite shy, even after the first time. In fact the second and third time as well. Perhaps we just were the shy types, I don't know. It seemed that every time was the first time and both of us found it quite odd and somewhat frustrating. Funny, eh? Contrast this to another woman who was similarly endowed and we basically couldn't keep our hands off each other. The first time when we planned to meet for coitus(as Sheldon would say), I had barely got in the door and there were clothes everywhere between the front door and her bedroom. It was a ravenous relationship...lol. When you contrast two similar relationships like that it makes you really wonder. Actually, other than the annoyance and awkwardness of being shy, its also kind cute. Lol, the rush of feelings etc makes it feel almost more pure and innocent than the raw sexualness of the other reaction. Dont get me wrong, I do love both, just in a musing kind of mood I guess. It takes me back to when I was a and in my early twenties. The<b> innocence </font></b>of the whole encounter process was just too cool...lol. I had written that down to being young and inexperienced...but when two 50 year old adults experience the same thing, well that seems kind of odd to me. Still it is exciting and a neat feeling. What are your experiences in this area? Please do tell...  Here's a nice picture for you all today....  |
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1/12/2012 2:01 pm |
Intimacy is a deeper relationship. Sharing other things beside sex. I can be very sexually attracted to a person but without Intimacy there is no chemistry for me. This is why No strings or FWB is something I am not looking to have~
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