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Scent of a kiss...  

lonelynights63 61M
1132 posts
1/7/2008 7:08 am
Scent of a kiss...


What do you like to smell when you kiss? What’s your favourite scent of it? Intense? A bit heavy? Elegant? Luxurious? Or youthful and energetic? Passionate maybe? Very, very sexy? Or just flirtatious?
What did you say? The most a kiss can have is some taste, there is no smell in it unless one of the two kissers has just eaten something very spicy or with too much garlic in it? Who says that a kiss, every kiss in fact, doesn’t have a scent of its own? Never even heard of that? I’m afraid that we are speaking different languages here...And there is only one way to make you understand what I’m talking about, the proper one regarding language. Head for the bookshelf or, if you don’t have such a thing covering valuable space in your house, try the search option of your browser. The thing we need is of course a book, the kind that is called «dictionary» and, more specifically, one that has the etymology and the meaning of the words and not just their spelling. Did you find one? OK, resist the temptation to look up familiar, favourite words like «fuck» and instead go for the letter s. No, not sex! You may look it up later, now we are a couple of pages before that. The word we are looking for is «sensuality». Found it? Good! Read whatever there is about it then...
As you may have seen this word comes from the word sense. And as we all know the human body has five of them senses. Believe it or not almost anything that comes from outside (everything unless thoughts and feelings that is) can be experienced through all of our five senses. And a kiss is no exception of course...We all know about the taste and we just said about the smell. But what about the others, the hearing let’s say? That is the most tricky in this case, there isn’t really too much to hear except of the sounds at the background. But if there isn’t too much or not at all of that...then you can listen something, for me one of the most beautiful sounds that there are in nature. The beating of the heart of another human being...And sometimes you can hear the sound of your own heart too, in a very nice way and not like you have some bad condition! And there are very few times when these two sounds, the beats of the two hearts come together in the same rhythm...As one.
And the vision? Come on now, that’s easy. Again you have the chance to see one of the most beautiful views that there are, that of another human face. And, more than anything on it, of course the eyes...And, if you are lucky, the ecstasy that sometimes is reflected in them. All right about the four senses then but what about the touch? Is there anything really to touch when you kiss somebody except of lips, tongue and maybe a bit of teeth? Well yes, there is...And I don’t mean touching with the sexual organs or with hands or other parts of the body but just through the kiss. But it is very difficult really and very rare indeed to be able to touch that...Because it is the other’s soul.
See now why a kiss can have, except of a taste, a scent, a sound, a vision and even some touching too? But to experience it through all five senses you need something, nothing more then the word we looked up before. Sensuality...And to be able to both express and receive it. If you don’t have it then I’d suggest really to not bothering with kissing. Because then it makes no difference if you kiss somebody’s lips, a marble or a piece of sandpaper. Spare the damn thing and save time, cut straight to the chase, get off and...see you baby! Because mechanical sex, sex that is very little more or nothing other than the satisfaction of a biological need and kissing make two really strange bedfellows, literally in this case...Only sex that has the sensuality as an integral element of it can have too really good kissing, one of the best and most enjoyable parts of the intercourse according to my opinion (and to my tastes too, I have no reason to hide it).
But even then don’t always expect wonders...We said about good kissing, not mind bogglingly super kissing! It is not at all often that you get the five ‒ star ‒ senses treatment kissing wise...First of all it takes certain persons and there aren’t too many of them for each one of us. But somewhere they do exist (although some don’t have the chance to meet even one of them in their lifetime...) and they know our kissing taste, smell, hearing, vision and touch just like we know theirs. And when that happens we know it from the very first moment we see them, sometimes we know even how the kiss is gonna be even before we kiss them for the first time...But even that is not enough for the full five senses experience. For that there is another more than necessary element, both people to not just want but to really need to kiss...It’s something that comes from within and never of course because you have to kiss the other for any reason. Only when there is this uncontrollable need then «a kiss is still a kiss»...forever really, like the old song (remember «Casablanca»?) was saying. And I really wish to everybody to experience it sometime, if they hadn’t till now...
Curious maybe about my favourite scent of a kiss? It’s a bit complicated, a mixture of many things: The mystery of the night, the freshness of dawn, the tenderness of a field at springtime, the light smell of some not yet blossomed red wild roses, the wild beauty of a waterfall, the freedom of the open sea and the softness of a girl’s long hair. Oh and with the slightly salted taste of a tear added, just because I happen to have really strange tastes. Obviously you didn’t get a word, you have no idea what I’m talking about...Thank goodness for that otherwise I’d have to French kiss each and every one of you, not the easiest thing to do! Joking aside it’s just that, the scent and everything that goes with a real kiss is for everybody so very unique to the point of being almost weird...But, as I said above, there always a few that they are as...weird as we are in that department. You can only wish to meet them someday because they know more than well that total «kissing sense» of yours, even if they can’t put it down in words. Leaving us bloggers to have something to do in our not ‒ that ‒ much ‒ at ‒ all free time, don’t you agree?

Just me but with all the ego left at the door...


ghraios2 56M

1/8/2008 9:25 am

the scent of a kiss is like the scent of a wooman each one completely diferent and each one so beautiful and unexplained with words...just with senses you can catch up the essence........allthough still then a diferent essence each time you try it.....

clown in the shadows


lonelynights63 replies on 1/18/2008 7:23 am:
Just out of curiosity...Do you mean the scent of the whole body of a woman or very certain parts of it?

zandigal 59F
13016 posts
1/8/2008 6:18 pm

wow. what is it with you men today all these HOT blogs... how is a girl to function?

What do you like to smell when you kiss? What’s your favourite scent of it?
I knew what you meant when I read them... and my mind went blank ... I've been lucky with my kissers... Gratification of the Senses is what it is... I've always said that.
The intense ones knock you to your knees... where just before the moment after... it's the scent of the heat the breath catches in anticipation of the sweetness of our hunger.


Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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lonelynights63 replies on 1/18/2008 7:36 am:
Thanks for the very poetic comment...And sorry for not being able to answer to your question!

sweetgirlschool 50F

1/10/2008 12:13 pm

MMMMMmmmmmmmm.....you leave me wanting,
yearning, needing to kiss with all my being.......


lonelynights63 replies on 1/18/2008 7:31 am:
I think that I should study this post more carefully even though I have written it...There are some elements in it that seem to work wonders!

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